Can you make friends test for kids? Class hour "Can you make friends?" class hour (grade 7) on the topic
Can you make friends?
(Friendship Test for Valentine's Day)
Happy holiday, dear teachers! Happy Valentine's day! After all, we are all in love! In our relatives, in our children, yes, simply - in life !!! And we sincerely hope that the most beloved and dearest people to you just bombarded you with holiday valentines with declarations of love and friendship.
And yet, it seems to me that our children are looking forward to this holiday more than any other with impatience and excitement, especially if they have already left the "infant" age.
Someone today will receive their first Valentine with a declaration of sympathy, maybe even love, or with an offer of friendship.
And someone is looking forward to a gift from a friend or girlfriend. Or he looks forward to the moment when he makes a gift himself. Especially if this gift is made by hand.
In any case, friendship and love are the feelings on which the world rests! They are very important for any person, whether an adult or a child.
Can we be friends? Are your kids good at making friends?
Offer them a simple and interesting friendship test. It is suitable for both girls and boys, and will perfectly fit into the holiday atmosphere.
There are 7 questions in the test. Each question has three answers and is scored from 0 to 2 points.
Question 1. Could (la) be friends with a girl (guy)?
Answers:
No. (2 points)
Why not? (1 point)
Yes, sure. Girls (guys), unlike us, know how to make friends for real. (0 points)
Question 2. Do you think that friends become obligated to give gifts to each other on holidays and birthdays?
Answers:
No. Where friendship is real, gifts are not the main thing. (0 points)
Yes. Is it possible to win over a person otherwise? (2 points)
I think that gifts should be given from the heart. (1 point)
Question 3. Do you like being the object of everyone's attention?
Answers:
No. I'm getting uncomfortable. (0 points)
Why not? I'm used to being the center of attention. For me, this is a common situation. (1 point)
Can anyone not like it? (2 points)
Question 4. Do you agree that an animal can be a friend of a person? Like a dog or a cat?
Answers:
No. It's more of a bond than a friendship. (2 points)
To do this, you need to be able to understand a four-legged friend. (0 points)
Possibly, but I find it hard to believe. (1 point)
Question 5. Can you come to your friends without prior arrangement?
Answers:
No. We don't take it that way. (1 point)
Only if the need arises. (0 points)
Yes. I know that I will always be welcome. But, if I understand that now is not the case, I will calmly leave. (2 points)
Question 6. Are you able to rush to a friend for help at the first call?
Answers:
Without hesitation. (1 point)
Not sure). (2 points)
Only if I am sure (a) that I can count on the same from him. (0 points)
Question 7. Is there any jealousy or rivalry in your friendship?
Answers:
No way. (1 point)
It depends on situation. (0 points)
Unfortunately, I can't avoid it. (2 points)
Now calculate the test results.
From 0 to 4 points.
You are quite sociable (on) and quickly converge with people. But too a large number of dating does not allow you to focus on one person. It is unlikely that you have a best friend or girlfriend. Most likely, you are interested in quantity, not quality.
From 5 to 9 points.
You know how to get along with people, you have real, loyal friends who are proud to be friends with you.
From 10 to 14 points.
You don't have real friends. And you care. But the reason is primarily in you: aren't you too focused on yourself? Friendship implies the ability to give a piece of your soul to another person. You should learn this!
1. What do you think about friendship? (do you think that...)
a) I don't believe in friendship. There are only people who need something from each other.
B) Friendship is not a bad thing, if friends did not betray so often.
c) It is the most beautiful thing in the world. I wouldn't trade true friends for anything.
2. Do you have many friends?
B) Not very many, and, unfortunately, most of them are not as close to me as I would like.
C) Many, and the very best, real friends.
3. Imagine that one of your girlfriends in a conversation with you said something nasty about another. What will you do?
A) You agree out of politeness, because you don't want to lose your girlfriend.
B) Keep silent, and then tell everything to that friend that was discussed.
C) You will directly tell this girl that you do not agree with her, and in the future you will ask her to refrain from such statements about your mutual acquaintances.
When you get into new company how are you doing?
A) You are not in a hurry to get acquainted: after all, it is still not known what kind of people they are and how to behave with them. While waiting to be introduced.
B) Sometimes you try to be the first to take the initiative in getting to know each other, but only if this person inspires confidence in you.
C) Always say hello first and try to communicate with as many people as possible.
4) You and your friend went to a clothing store. She is trying on her trousers, and you can clearly see that she is too fat for them. You will tell her:
A) “Well, you got fat!”
B) "My dear, in my opinion, they do not suit you."
C) “You know, it seems to me that the previous pair suited you much more.”
5) How do your friends treat each other?
A) All my friends are from the same company, so they get along well with each other.
B) My friends are all different, but most of them have common interests, so they are almost always friends with each other.
C) Many of my friends are very different from each other, and often I try to communicate with them separately.
6) You noticed that the guy that you and your girlfriend really like looks only at her. What do you think about this?
A) I like him, so I will do everything in order to attract his attention - I will try to seize the initiative.
B) Sigh sadly, but say nothing.
C) Later, during a frank conversation about this, sincerely congratulate your friend.
7) Female friendship is ...
A) nonsense. The first guy I like will certainly be of interest to my best friend, and that's where the friendship ends.
B) Of course, there is, and this is a pretty good thing, but it is often very difficult to keep it.
C) True friendship, even if it is female, will not be destroyed even by the most blue-eyed and blond guy in the universe!
You're friends with your best friend because...
A) She is popular and everyone loves her;
B) I don’t know why, but I like her somehow;
C) we have a lot with her common interests and hobby.
When you are introduced to someone, do you remember names well?
A) rarely. I have bad memory to names, and besides, when meeting, it is often very noisy and fun, and this is distracting.
b) Not always. When you are introduced to several people at once, everything gets confused in your head and nothing is remembered.
C) Of course. How to communicate with a person if you do not know his name?
Psychological test: can you make friends?
9) How do you usually talk to your friends?
A) As soon as I see them, I start talking here for at least half an hour without stopping, until I tell about everything that happened to me. From the new math teacher to how many flowers my boyfriend gave me on my last date.
B) I prefer to talk less (within reasonable limits, of course) and listen more.
C) It seems to me that the best thing in a conversation is “fifty-fifty” communication - you talk about as much as you listen.
10) At your birthday party, your friend who is sitting next to you dropped a piece of cake on her skirt. Your actions?
A) “Natasha, well, you give! You say it loudly to the whole room. “You can’t wash it now!”
b) You pretend not to notice.
C) Take a napkin from the table and try to discreetly pass it to her under the table.
11) Your girlfriend met a guy who you liked very much. How will you behave with her?
A) You will notice in passing how disgusting the guy was picking his nose when she was not looking at him. And you will tell that he changes girls like gloves, or something like that (you will think up in the course of the conversation).
B) You will try to refrain from comments, gnashing your teeth.
C) You will talk frankly about everything with a friend and express the hope that this will not interfere with your friendship.
12) You successfully, as it seemed to you, visited the hairdresser, and on the same day you came to visit best friend. And when she was able to believe that she was seeing exactly you in front of her, she said: “What have you done! So disfigure yourself! Do you have any idea when the hair will grow back now?” What is your response?
A) “When you cut your hair that week, I didn’t say anything, but now I’ll say…”
B) “Yes, you! You only know how to talk nasty things. It's not all that bad."
C) “I respect your opinion, but I like my hairstyle. But it’s still my head!”
Now let's count the points. For each item "B" you marked, add 3 points to yourself, if you chose the answer "A" - leave the amount unchanged, and if somewhere you preferred "C" - add 5 points. Let's calculate what happened:
0-22 points: Alas, your ability to make friends leaves much to be desired. If you continue in the same spirit, then by the end of the school you will lose all your friends, and you will not be able to get new ones. So carefully look at the points where you scored the minimum number of points, and think about what qualities you could change in yourself to truly learn to be friends. Maybe for this it is also worth reading a couple of smart books on this topic. But the main thing that you should never forget is that the ability to be friends is an art that anyone can master, there would be a desire!
23-42 points: You can be sure that you are respected and appreciated by many more people than you think. But you, too, will not hurt to heed the advice given above, and then get ready for surprises. Because more large quantity absolutely wonderful people wants to befriend you. The main thing is to understand this in time and take appropriate actions.
43-60 points - You are just a wonderful friend. And if you don’t get proud of this simple praise and don’t “spoil”, then the number of your friends will only increase over the years. And they will always support you in difficult times and rejoice for you when joy comes to your house.
- You know many funny stories about one of your buddies:
- Your friend often borrows something from you to use, but never returns the borrowed item. And now he asks you for an expensive camera or camcorder. How will you do it?
- A friend accidentally broke your watch. How will you do it?
- Your friend is in a relationship with a person you don't like.
- You feel that your friend is about to get into trouble. Then you:
- Do you think that a true friend must:
- You know that your friend needs money. You have enough to serve him. You speak:
- What do you do if you want to borrow money from a friend?
- Your friend bought clothes that you don't think fit him. Then you:
- Do you think that your friend:
A. You tell them to other people.
b. You tell me by skipping the names.
V. You will keep them to yourself.
A. Say you don't have this device.
b. Give the device to a friend.
V. Refuse with a reason.
A. Arrange a small scandal, but refuse a new watch.
b. Ask to pay for a broken watch.
V. You say that you already wanted to buy new ones.
A. You tell a friend that he must choose between you and another.
b. Stop seeing your friend.
V. Will you continue friendly relations, as if nothing had happened.
A. Cut off relations with him, so as not to suffer for you.
b. Continue the friendship as before.
V. Talk frankly with him.
A. Shares everything with you.
b. Keep your thoughts and concerns to yourself.
V. Tell you only what he sees fit.
A. Get over it! Gotta save!
b. Take them, please me!
V. Remember how many times you helped me. My service is nothing compared to this.
A. Come in from afar.
b. Ask directly.
V. Don't tell him anything - maybe he will guess.
A. Directly tell a friend that she does not suit him.
b. Say that she does not suit him, and explain why.
V. Keep quiet.
A. Less intelligent than you.
b. More intelligent than you.
V. At the same or approximately the same intellectual level.
Test key:
21 points or less. You are a really good friend, your friends trust you and admire you with every right to hope that they will come to your aid if necessary, of course, if you do the same.
22-42 points. You have friends, but like most of us, sometimes you don't show proper understanding in dealing with them. When you don't know how to react, try to put yourself in the other person's shoes.
43 or more points. You tend to pay more attention to yourself than to others. This trait of yours is a barrier to true friendship. To become good friend you need to show more interest in other people and their problems.
With the help of the proposed test, you will be able to determine whether you are really a good friend, whether your friends trust you, whether they can rely on you.
1. You know a lot of funny stories about one of your buddies:
A. You tell them to other people.
b. You tell me by skipping the names.
V. You will keep them to yourself.
2. Your friend often borrows something from you to use, but never returns the borrowed item. And now he asks you for an expensive camera or camcorder. How will you do it?
A. Say you don't have this device.
b. Give the device to a friend.
V. Refuse with a reason.
3. A friend accidentally broke your watch. How will you do it?
A. Arrange a small scandal, but refuse a new watch.
b. Ask to pay for a broken watch.
V. You say that you already wanted to buy new ones.
4. Your friend is in a relationship with someone you don't like.
A. You tell a friend that he must choose between you and another.
b. Stop seeing your friend.
V. You will continue your friendship as if nothing had happened.
5. You feel like your friend is about to get into trouble. Then you:
A. Cut off relations with him, so as not to suffer for you.
b. Continue the friendship as before.
V. Talk frankly with him.
6. Do you think that a true friend should:
A. Shares everything with you.
b. Keep your thoughts and concerns to yourself.
V. Tell you only what he sees fit.
7. You know that your friend needs money. You have enough to serve him. You speak:
A. Get over it! Gotta save!
b. Take them, please me!
V. Remember how many times you helped me. My service is nothing compared to this.
8. What would you do if you wanted to borrow money from a friend?
A. Come in from afar.
b. Ask directly.
V. Don't tell him anything - maybe he will guess.
9. Your friend bought clothes that you don't think fit him. Then you:
A. Directly tell a friend that she does not suit him.
b. Say that she does not suit him, and explain why.
V. Keep quiet.
10. Do you think that your friend:
A. Less intelligent than you.
b. More intelligent than you.
V. At the same or approximately the same intellectual level.
Test key:
Results:
21 points or less. You are a really good friend. Your friends believe in you and admire you with every right to hope that they will come to your aid if necessary, of course, if you do the same.
22-42 points. You have friends, but like most of us, sometimes you don't show proper understanding in dealing with them. When you don't know how to react, try to put yourself in the other person's shoes.
43 or more points. You tend to pay more attention to yourself than to others. This trait of yours is a barrier to true friendship. To become a good friend, you need to show more interest in other people and their problems.
Class hour "Can you make friends?"
Who does not seek friends for himself, he is his own enemy!
Sh. Rustaveli.
Target:
to form the concepts of "friendship", "true friend", "friendly relations" among schoolchildren; introduce the rules of friendship, show the importance of true friends in a person's life.
Tasks:
To teach children to see, understand, evaluate the feelings and actions of others, motivate, explain their judgments.
Formation moral qualities students: the ability to make friends, cherish friendship, communicate in a team.
To cultivate friendly relations of goodwill, respect for each other, the need for self-expression, the ability to value friendship, the desire to understand each other, to teach to share joys and sorrows.
Course progress.
1. Organizational moment.
Emotional mood.
I would like to start our session with a relaxation exercise. Please turn to each other. Close your hands and close your eyes, listen to your body.
(After 20 seconds)
Open your eyes, open your arms.
What did you feel?
(Children's answers are warm.)
Touching each other, you felt the warmth of a friend. I want this warmth to remain throughout our session.
2. Updating knowledge and posing a problem situation. Introduction to the topic.
The topic of our lesson is “Can you make friends?”, and what is true friendship? How does it manifest itself? Who can be called a friend? There are no unambiguous answers to these questions. But everyone should think about these questions.
To continue the conversation, I suggest watching a short video.
(VIDEO CLIP)
Guys, what do you think this video is about? What issue are the authors of the story raising?
(children's answers)
Vladimir Ivanovich Dal in his " explanatory dictionary” gives such a definition of friendship.
("Friendship - .... Disinterested enduring affection")
In the first place, the famous writer puts UNSELF. You are friends with a person not so that he can do something good for you, not because it is profitable. You are friends with a person because he is close to you in everything. But not everyone can do it, not everyone succeeds. Some people just don't know how to make friends.
Indeed, such a problem exists, it is also relevant for children of your age, at least, the results of studies that we conducted at our school indicate this.
- What should a true friend do?
- Can we be friends?
Today we will try to answer these questions with you.
Guys, what should a true friend be like? Express your opinion. Continue the phrases.
A true friend is always...
A true friend never...
(children's answers)
But sometimes you can hear such a phrase: "I have a lot of friends." So
Does it really? Is there a confusion here in such concepts as acquaintance, friend, comrade, friend? To answer this question, I ask you to complete the following task. Match the concepts in the table, determine the meanings of the given synonyms.
Match the concepts:
Slides captions:
Can you make friends?
Video
" Friendship -…. disinterested enduring affection " Vladimir Ivanovich Dal "Explanatory Dictionary"
Express your opinion. Continue the phrases. - A true friend is always... - A true friend is never...
Match the concepts: A person with whom we just greet on the street, in the yard ... comrade A person to whom you trust your secrets, with whom you share joys and sorrows ... a familiar Person (classmate), with whom a pound of salt has been eaten for 8 years ... friend A person, with which from time to time we discuss some events ... friend
Qualities of a friend
What does it mean to be friends?
What is important for friendship? Let each other write off tests and homework assignments. Protect each other from offenders. Treat each other with sweets. To be able to tell each other the truth, even if it is not very pleasant. Know how to give in to each other. Visit each other often. To help each other. Do not quarrel with each other over trifles. Sincerely rejoice in the success of each other.
Your friend gets bad grades for a quarter and you are forbidden to be friends with him. Your friend invites you to do something bad. Your friend did something, but you were punished ....
Evaluation of test results If you scored 6 - 9 points, your friends can say that you are a true friend and you can rely on in any situation. You are a caring, sensitive and attentive friend. If you have 10 - 14 points, then you should take a closer look at yourself, because in difficult situation There is a chance that you will be alone. If you have 15 - 18 points, then it all depends on you if you want to change. It is worth learning to forgive and not forget that you need to treat others the way you would like to be treated.
Laws true friendship 1. Do not violate the rights of your friend. 2. If a friend is wrong, explain to him his mistakes. 3. Don't gloat if a friend is in trouble. 4. Teach a friend what you can do yourself. Learn what a FRIEND can do. 5. Rejoice with a friend in his success.
c) you say that you are busy (3)
5. During a quarrel, you ...
Test "Are you a good friend"
1. When referring to the guys, you mainly use ...
a) last name (2)
b) nickname (3)
c) name (1)
2. If one of the guys was undeservedly accused by an adult, you ...
a) you are silent (2)
b) intercede (1)
C) rejoice in someone else's misfortune (3)
3. If you wanted to go for a walk, and a friend asked to help him, you ...
a) go for a walk (2)
b) helping a friend (1)
c) you say that you are busy (3)
4. If your friend Bad mood, You…
a) don't pay attention to him (3)
b) trying to comfort him (1)
c) you want to take revenge on his offender (2)
5. During a quarrel, you ...
a) try to speak to the point (1)
b) call names and offend the interlocutor (3)
c) you resort to the help of others to resolve the issue: who is right and who is wrong (2)
6. If a friend didn’t wish you a happy birthday, you…
a) you will remind him of this offense constantly (2)
b) don't congratulate him on his birthday too (3)
c) forgive his forgetfulness. (1)
