How does it all start? Children's vampirism. My child is an energy vampire

Do you ever have the feeling that the child takes all the strength without a trace? When he is not around, you are cheerful. And after spending some time with the baby, you feel like a squeezed lemon. There is incomprehensible fatigue, drowsiness and heaviness in the whole body.

The child takes all the energy

The child whines and whimpers for any reason. Walks on the heels, constantly asking for something. Then eat, then hug, then pick up. At this moment, it is enough to strictly watch how the corners of his lips drop sharply down, and his wide-open eyes fill with tears.

Before you can blink your eyes, the child falls to the floor, kicks and sobs bitterly. It takes a lot of energy to calm him down. There is physical weakness and emptiness, as much as I want to cry myself. After all, there is still so much to do!

Even at work, you do not get tired like with a child. It feels like it feeds on your energy. Teasing with his whining and provoking to suck all your strength.

"Energy vampires" - who are they?

There are different points of view why a child becomes an "energy vampire". A lot of advice is given on how to interact with such a child. System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan offers his own interesting view on this problem.

Each person has their own unique character traits, desires and abilities. A set of such properties is called a vector. There are eight vectors in total.

Surely you noticed how one child is not like another. Even twins and twins are different from each other. If one of them prefers calm games, where you can take your time and sit quietly, then the second one seems boring. He likes to be in motion: run, jump, somersault.

And if one of the children is calm and silent, likes to be in silence and solitude, then the other, on the contrary, is sociable, emotional. Literally blooms when in the spotlight

From smile to tears - one step

Such a child is sensitive, subject to various emotional experiences and frequent mood swings. According to systems-vector psychology Yuri Burlan, he has a visual vector. It is he who is considered a small "energy vampire."

A child with a visual vector has a fine mental organization. Each child cries and laughs, and the visual one does it with special emotionality. His ability to rejoice, to be afraid, to be upset is much greater than that of others. Therefore, he experiences everything many times stronger.

They say about these: "Makes an elephant out of a fly". Sudden mood swings, emotional swings, tantrums - all this is characteristic of the owner of the visual vector, which is in a state of fear. And he is also a rare dreamer - the monsters under the bed will not let him sleep, but also all family members.

Cause of tantrums

According to the system-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan, the reason for hysteria and constant whining lies in the lack of emotional connection with the mother. In the absence of a sense of security and safety.

Each owner of a visual vector needs strong emotions. They can receive them in two ways: suffering or enjoying life.

With tantrums, a small spectator is trying to attract attention to himself and get positive emotions, mother's love, which he needs so much. When mom strengthens an emotional connection with him, he feels protected. The need to get the missing feelings with tantrums passes.

What to do?

For proper development, every child needs a strong emotional connection with my mother, and especially for a small spectator. To strengthen this connection, it is enough to spend more time with the child. Involve him in joint games or other useful activities. Take a walk, devoting time to communicate with him.

It is also important to develop his innate mental properties - kindness, fantasy and imagination, to awaken feelings of empathy.

How does this happen? Through contemplation of the beauty of the surrounding world, reading good books, watching cartoons in which the child learns to sympathize with the characters. When a small spectator is taught to show empathy for people, to think about other people's feelings, then in adulthood he will not feel inner emptiness, a feeling of loneliness and will forget about fears.

Tolerate tantrums or find an effective way of interaction?

It's hard when spending time with your child is emotionally devastating. It takes a lot of patience in dealing with a small "emotional troglodyte". The system-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan makes it possible to take a different look at the current situation. Learn more about "energy vampires" and how to interact with them. Not to look for ways to be less tired of the child, but to find out why the child throws tantrums. Understand what is happening to him at such moments, and know how to behave in order to calm him down.
Learn more about effective ways Interaction with owners of different vectors is possible at a free online training in system-vector psychology by Yuri Burlan. Register - follow the link.

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Communication with children deprives you of strength, prevents you from feeling like yourself. You would like your children not to scream, calmly sit down at the table, eat quickly and not get dirty, so that they do not quarrel, clean their room and do not run headlong around the apartment ... And most importantly, that they do not constantly demand your attention and don't interfere with your work.

How to react?

First, recognize that the needs of children are the opposite of yours. Most parents love order in the house, appreciate peace and quiet, and dream of sleeping a little longer in the morning. Most kids love noise, feel best when it's a mess, and on weekends they prefer to wake up at dawn! This situation inevitably leads to conflicts and complicates relationships. If you do not take into account the difference in your aspirations, you risk awakening the spirit of competition in children. In any tacit struggle for power, there is always a winner and a loser, and at the level of relationships, both inevitably lose. Indeed, how can you feel that someone who denies your needs appreciates you as a person? In a word, family competition is not the only possible variant. In the long run, cooperation is more effective. But it requires us to openly express our desires and respect each other.

Be honest with yourself that you feel frustrated and angry when your partner doesn't support or help you. And it does not matter if he has objective reasons or if he simply does not want to participate in household chores. Only in this way will you stop suffering from these emotions and will not pass them on to your children.

Recognize the needs of children and feel free to talk about yours. Children and their needs, of course, in the family come first, but as they grow up, you can begin to negotiate. Give children the opportunity to make their own decisions - within the limits you set. Your suggestion: "I want to eat in peace, what can you do to not twitch me during dinner?" will be more effective than shouting: “Shut up, you are insufferable!” Kids don't want to go to bed? Explain to them that the time of parents has come and you are no longer engaged in them. It is useless to scold or punish, just stand up for your needs.

Under the term « energetic vampire ism" you need to understand such relationships between people in which there is a power withdrawal of vitality. "Don't be nervous," says the doctor. “Be calm,” says the psychologist, not understanding that there are people who deliberately provoke us to breakdowns and irritations, because this is the only way to take away our vitality.

These people are vampires, they pull, shake and suck our psychic energy by all means available to them. Vampirism is energy looting. At the same time, the vampire always becomes easy and good, and the donor, or the vampire's victim, always remains "broken" and sick.

Esotericists divide energy vampires into solar and lunar. The energy of the solar vampire people is hot and dry, always aggressive. We say that this is a cruel person, a bloodsucker and a sadist. They themselves attack the "victim", provoke scandals and quarrels, causing mental and physical pain.

The energy of the lunar vampire people is the opposite of the solar energy. She is cold and wet. If the solar vampire is an energy bandit, then the moon vampire is an energy thief, quiet and secretive. He always cries about his problems, pretends to be deaf and incomprehensible. It's a bore. He does not swear, does not quarrel, does not prove, he whines and this brings us out of balance.

Energy vampires in the family

There are many subtle energy connections in families that can be confused with vampirism. Therefore, let us clarify that a vampire loves only himself, he does not know how to love others and enjoy life. In a family, even lunar vampires are always aggressive and daily carry out an energy shake-up for the whole family or one of its members.

The first indicator of vampirism among spouses is JEALY. Jealousy is not love, but vampires' tricks to keep their victim in constant energy (psychic) ​​tension and breakdown. Family dramas motivated by jealousy almost always lead to the breakup of the family. In the meantime, while they are together, the vampire spouse, through jealousy, provokes the spouse's donor for his energy supply.

It is very difficult for one of the spouses to live in constant tension and proof of their love and devotion. Jealousy is a disease of a deaf, blind and callous person, it is vampirism. The vampire does not see or hear the object of his love until he shakes him with an energy visor. And only after that can he crucify his false feelings. It is hard for the heart without love, it is hard for the body without a heart, - one might say, to paraphrase Homer.

Is it necessary to prove that love does not need proof, that one lives in love with one breath, that love is always afraid of offending one's neighbor, that true love is not tormented by doubts of fidelity. Yes, we need to prove it, because we live, not knowing with whom, we humiliate ourselves and come up with excuses: being jealous means loving. But in fact, it turns out that he is proud, suspicious, distrustful and sick with vampirism.

The French philosopher Rene Descartes said: “Jealousy is a kind of fear when you want to retain the possession of some kind of good, considering yourself unworthy, and therefore suspicious and distrustful.”

When looking for a spouse, we often focus on the appearance or financial situation of a partner. This gives rise to imaginary love, it will definitely show the effect of vampirism. "Blind love" is always involved in carnal passions, and then these passions will shake the soul. Jealousy is a vice, it is spiritual, intellectual and physical limitation. Therefore, the soul suffers, the mind does not know what it is doing, and the body beats in search of strength.

Very often in family relationships, mothers-in-law and mothers-in-law act as vampires, but not to their children, but to those whom their children have chosen as their spouses. True, daughters-in-law and sons-in-law are also not gifts. One wise man said that whoever got a good son-in-law, he also gained a son, and whoever got a bad one, he also lost his daughter.

Once, after a lecture, a young woman came up to me and said that she had only now realized that her mother-in-law was a pure vampire. I asked her not to say anything more, and I myself gave a picture of how her mother-in-law behaves in the family. I spoke at length and in detail, and the woman told me that she had the feeling that I had lived in their apartment for many years. Let me briefly retell this story.

Every day, when you come home from work, your mother-in-law is sure to meet you at the front door. She spits out words that make you explode. There are always a lot of reasons and reasons: I did something wrong, put it in, removed it. It doesn’t matter what, where and how, the main thing is to catch on, turn on the trigger of your feelings, cause a surge of emotions and irritations. And she does it easily. At the same time, opening her mouth, she, smacking her lips, swallows your junk energy. All. The conflict is over before the end of the next day, when you return from work.

All evening and the next morning, the mother-in-law no longer screams at you, does not swear. She can stroke you and ask for forgiveness, becomes quiet, like a mouse, and affectionate, like a cat. You forgive her everything, but your strength and health are gone, you cannot pay attention to your children and your husband, go to bed early. You wake up hard in the morning.

And during the day at your favorite job, in the joy of communication, you are again charged with pure human feelings, but this is only up to the threshold of the house. Your mother-in-law feels how you got off the bus, entered the entrance, into the elevator ... She is already at the door and is “sincerely glad” to meet you. You could give her your love and joy, but this is not there, and then you become the only salvation for her life, but for this you need to be shaken, blown up ...

If at least once, - I continue, - to her words, bitter and offensive, you would say: “YES! I’m SO!”, - and at the same time, proudly raising their heads, they went into the apartment, then your mother-in-law, who splashed out the rest of her strength and received nothing in return, would collapse right there, insensibly softening at the door.

Lord, - the woman says to me, - once it happened. I did not respond to her rudeness, smiled and went into the room. I hear something fall, I turn around, and this mother-in-law is lying at the door and does not move. I don't understand what happened, what happened. The children ran out of the room, the husband: "What did you do with your grandmother?" I was taken aback. I began to assure them that I myself would not understand, that I didn’t even come close, she herself fell. The whole family began to bring her to life - it did not work. They called an ambulance - to no avail. The ambulance took her to the hospital, and she lay there for two months.

Here I again suggested that if she had another son or daughter, then after the hospital she should have gone to live with one of them, but she never returned to you.

Yes, - the woman answered, - she really went to live with another son, with another daughter-in-law.

Here, - I conclude, - it turns out that there is a trick against scrap, as they say among the people. And then, when the children grow up, the grandmother will shake the forces out of them too. With relatives, this is always easier to do and there are plenty of motives.

Another woman told me that only now, after the lecture, she understood why every year, when she leaves for the country, for the whole summer, her mother-in-law, having lost a donor, ends up in the hospital and lies there all summer. What about the staff at the hospital? Sick relatives, whether at home or in the hospital, on petty grievances, annoying others, support their existence.

Naturally, lying in bed, sometimes for years, they are forced to take strength from those around them. And this is an indicator that they will have to lie down for a long time, and medicines and therapy will not have the desired effect on them. Apparently, hospitals need to create an entertainment industry to brighten up their gray existence. We need comfort, interiors, music, needlework. And the house? And again the poems of Pushkin come to mind, which laments:

But, my God, what a bore
With the sick to sit day and night,
Not leaving and a step away!
What low deceit
Amuse the half-dead
Fix his pillows
Sad to give medicine
Sigh and think to yourself:
"When will the devil take you!"

And in those distant times, they also did not know how to treat vampires ..!

Turn on the “triple heater” of your soul for your sick relatives. It will displace, dissolve the heavy energies of illness and fill the body with a new quality.

I knew a woman whose son and mother are vampires. The son is a drug addict, and the mother has been bedridden for several years. Both shake her daily, but she still loves them, pities them and gives all of herself to serve them. Every three days, her mother makes her faint, but her love for her mother brings the woman back to life. The son threatens to kill every day, and she forgives him everything.

After the lecture, she wrote in her note: “I realized that I am a classic donor, thank you, you charged me with good energy and distracted me from terrible thoughts with your lecture. Without knowing it, you cut off my last hope. This means that this is my fate - a test and punishment for my son.

Now he is in the hospital and curses me, but love and pity are much greater than my fear of him - much more! And let him kill, but I love him! And I won’t go on vacation even for one day, because there is no one to leave my mother with, she has terrible pains. I have to be there and make her life easier.”

Yes, love does wonders! But an even greater miracle is something else. If you sincerely and lovingly tell your sick relative who does not get out of bed that it is you who are to blame for his illness, that it was you who brought him to the state in which he is now, if you manage to convince him of this and ask him forgiveness (and this is not difficult to do, because he already believes that you and those around him are to blame for this), then it is then, having begged, having received his FORGIVENESS, the Miracle happens. Your bedridden relative begins to revive. On the same day or the next, he will get out of bed on his own, begin to walk, eat, sing songs, etc.

Your life will change radically, but from now on you must become an altruist - to live for others, completely devoting yourself to serving people, helping them. Forget about yourself, this is your cross, but this is a good cross, it will bring you spiritual happiness.

Only in this way will you burn the Karma of a relative transferred to you, extinguish your Karma, and the family curse will stop.

Here is another example, told by a woman in Perm, when I gave a course of lectures there. It refers to the most inhuman kind of family vampirism - energy looting. There is insidiousness and cruelty in it, it cannot even be called an animal, because animals do not suffer from a lack of energy, they live in harmony with nature. Here is the story.

“Every morning, for many years, I hear from my mother, and she is already 77 years old, the same words: “You haven’t died yet?! When will you die ?!” This is how my day starts.You can get used to it and not get annoyed, but the mother, getting no response, falls to the floor and starts biting her hands and scratching her face.

At the same time, she makes animal sounds, to which the neighbors come running. She shows them what, supposedly, I did to her. The neighbors know that I'm not like that, they feel sorry for me, and they are secretly, and sometimes even openly annoyed at my mother.

After a few minutes, the mother gets up, as if nothing had happened. Her wounds heal like on a cat. For fifteen years she keeps me in suspense, saying that she will change the apartment, and all this time she is suing, but she herself does not appear, or she will do something wrong with the papers, she pulls. Now she walks different organizations and public authorities of Perm, tells that I beat her, shows scratches and bites.

Once she managed to go around sixteen organizations in two days with complaints about me. And they believe her everywhere, and consider it their duty to call me for trial. Constant phone calls from them haunt me, I'm tired of this life. And they don’t even listen to my explanations, they shout: “How dare you! She's a mother!"

And I realized that it was her fault that I already had a second disability group. The only thing that saves me is that I make music, write poetry, draw - this gives me back my strength. I take a break from her in the summer, when she lives in the country.

These are the insidious, evil and cruel family vampires. God forbid to have them always next to you. From loved ones, the blows are stronger and hurt longer. One single extravagant married half can nullify both wonderful impulses, and accumulated wisdom, and a directed position, and life itself.

But on the other hand, there is no evil without good. On them, on vampires, we can learn how to properly respond to energy impulses that constantly arise in life around us. “I am sending you like sheep among wolves: therefore be wise like snakes and simple like doves,” the Gospel says. And until we understand this, we will fall into the trap of a deep energy conflict and crisis, we will suffer and get sick. And only through awareness and will will peace and joy come to us.

Family vampires live agonizingly long lives without giving life to their household members. THEY OUTLIVE THEIR DONORS, and we wonder why good people die before the bad ones. How many unfortunate destinies, families and talents turned to dust, because the cunning of vampires was not recognized and stopped in time. We didn't even know they existed. Instead, we create abstruse teachings or centers.

And, finally, there is another kind of family vampirism, but I have not had to meet its crude forms. It belongs to the lunar manifestation and flows gently, only at times creating tense situations.

This type of vampirism is born in parents when their children get married or get married. Fear or fear of being alone in old age pushes the parent, usually one of them, to put the children in material and financial dependence. Some like it, and they are even happy from such guardianship (for the time being, for the time being), while others are annoyed, they do not want to be dependent, they are burdened by obsession, parents, petty guardianship and reproaches on this basis.

Many people suffer not from a lack of strength and feelings, but from their excess. And if such people do not have a creative beginning, where they could throw out these, in general, good energies, for peaceful purposes, then they begin to suppress their loved one with them.

In an example, it might look like this.

A woman loves cleanliness and order very much, which in general is a noble quality - to keep the space in which you live clean and tidy. But there is always someone nearby: a husband, children, relatives who violate the joyful world she creates. And all her discontent pours out precisely in this.

Many women complained to me about their relatives, saying that they live with vampires, and asked for advice on how to deal with them, how to wean them from vampirism. When clarifying behavior and situations, it turned out that there were no vampires in her family, that she herself was limited in the criteria for assessing what was happening around. That it is she who first breaks down on her loved ones because of the slightest speck or improperly placed thing.

She can be called a vampire only conditionally, but if she does not expand the scope of her feelings, then such a complex on one thing will undoubtedly give rise to vampirism. And hence the breakdowns over the slightest trifles. This also applies equally to men.

Causes of tension in family life, generated by vampirism, lie in other aspects.

We already know that negative clots of energies are held around the human body, on its aura. We collected them at work, on the street, in in public places and when you get home, it's best to take a shower. They wash off easily. Otherwise, these energies will be felt by your family members as something cold and sticky, heavy and oppressive coming from you. You paid attention to the fact that when one of the family members comes home, a difficult and nervous situation immediately arises. These energies oppress everyone until an energy discharge called “equal to all” occurs.

Or like this: five days a week your husband is a normal person, and on Saturdays and Sundays, it’s like a demon takes possession of him. And so many years in a row. This means that five days a week he shakes everyone in the service, and on weekends he is charged with your energy. You can say that you are still lucky, and finding a way not to communicate with him these days, since there is no love between you, this is your problem.

No matter how much the thread twists, the end will come anyway, therefore, most often in these families, quarrels and tragedies occur.

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There is another type of familial vampirism that begins in marital relationships shortly after marriage or the birth of the first child. Here both men and women show a special look mental state, which can be expressed in a simple and concise word - dissatisfaction.

Most often, a woman suffers from this, and any suffering deprives her of strength, de-energizes. Being at home or at work all day, she is dissatisfied with her husband, constantly tells something bad about him. Remember your friends or relatives who wash the bones for their husbands. This is how they undermine their power. When a husband comes home from work, he does not feel from his wife that force that would pull, attract, which would cause a desire to hug and kiss.

No, he meets a cold and soulless wife, and therefore at least a small scandal or silent irritation between them will definitely arise. And his empty soul, the one that has already shaken out, will provoke him. Normal spouses do not quarrel over trifles, they save their strength for a bigger scandal. Oh what am I saying. Normal spouses always and everyone say only good things about each other. This creates a field of joy and love, which is what I wish you. Love covers many sins.

There is no getting away from the topic of family vampirism. You can change jobs, keep vampires out of your neighbors, avoid irritants in public places.

But at home, in the family, when you are dependent and bound not by love, but by circumstances, vampirism flourishes and progresses on this soil. It is the vampire who will create and dictate the conditions, tone and rhythm for the whole family. When charged, the vampire begins to sing songs, the melodies of which sound solemn sounds.

Here is what Yuri K. wrote to me in Saratov after the lecture.

"This is exactly what I needed so much to understand the truth about my illness. The fact is that I fell under the influence of a vampire. It happened a long time ago, in 1978, and continues to this day. I was a very cheerful and healthy person , but as soon as my parents changed the apartment and we began to live with my grandparents, my health began to deteriorate, and now I am a disabled person of the second group.

On the contrary, if until the age of 78 my grandmother was in the hospital every year, with a heart, with terrible asthma, then after we moved in together, she never lay in the hospital, she no longer remembers asthma, she even began to read without glasses. My grandmother is a pronounced lunar vampire, and all the signs you have described fit her. And I am writing because I hope to know from you when this hell will end.

In one of the letters from Irkutsk, a woman spoke about her 75-year-old mother.

“It’s very hard for me to live with her. Outwardly, she looks very healthy and energetic, but after she throws out a hail of grievances and reproaches at me. After reading your book, I realized that this is energy vampirism. Most of all I got it from my mother when I I was late after work, but now my work schedule has changed, and I began to come home two hours later.

The first days I found my mother half dead. She demanded that I return to former regime and schedule of work, but, fortunately, this is not possible. I don’t know how I withstood the psychic attacks of my mother these days, but a miracle happened!

Returning one day after work, I did not find my mother at home. I got worried about her. Where could she go with her sore legs and on crutches? Everything turned out to be simple. She began to travel in public transport during the evening peak hours. She came home cheerful and energetic. Her face flushed red. But the most surprising thing is that she stopped making any claims against me.

Rain or heat, snow and frost, nothing could keep her at home anymore. It turns out that she was simply forced to switch to other people. Neighbors told me that she somehow got into a crowded bus, drove a few stops and got off. And it always happens with swearing and insulting passengers.

At the bus stop, she waits for the next bus, which is bound to be overcrowded, and starts getting on it again, cursing. And so every day. After reading your book, I realized that my mother is engaged in or even sick with classical vampirism. Help, tell me what can be done to treat her.

That is why I am writing this book so that everyone can find answers to their questions about the treatment and protection against vampires. Often in families where parents are vampires, children grow up the same. When such parents, day after day, year after year, for the slightest trifle or occasion, break down on a child, they raise a vampire for themselves. Such parents do not just forbid something to the child, but always do it sharply and rudely, with irritation and hatred: do not climb, do not take, do not jump, do not shout, sit still, etc.

At the same time, they humiliate and call the child names. And they do not know that the time will come when "mouse tears will be shed to the cat." When such a child grows up, he himself becomes a vampire and shakes his parents. How many families I had to see such patients with vampirism, how many unfortunate parents tried to find an answer from me, protection and salvation from the son of a sadist.

The epistle of the holy Apostle Paul says: "Fathers, do not irritate your children, lest they become discouraged." When will we understand that “everything returns to normal” and that everyone will get back what he sows around him?!

I have seen many timid and downtrodden children who, growing up on the street, in company, hone the “skill” of revenge on parents, teachers and other adults, in contact with whom they always received physical and spiritual slaps in the face. Parents who gave their child neither love nor affection, let them not count on a happy old age, the children will remain indifferent to them.

And if in childhood a child endured almost daily beatings and insults from you, know that the same awaits you in old age. This is your Karma - the law of retribution. On this basis, many karmic diseases appear, without understanding and eliminating the causes of which diseases cannot be cured. All you have left is humility and repentance, and I conjure you, remember this!

Another circumstance is characteristic: lunar vampires in the family are content with the energy of one family member, as a rule, the weakest and most defenseless. Solar vampires shake the whole family. Here is one of the characteristic letters on this subject.

"I read your book and once again I was convinced that I really had to live with two vampires. That's so" lucky "! One of them is my father. Although it's not good to talk about it, he is an extremely unpleasant person. Not only I don’t love him, but neither does my mother, sister, all relatives and even just acquaintances.

I remember from childhood how he poisoned the three of us, brought us to tears, and then calmed down and seemed to give way. At any time of the day, he turned on the TV loudly at the same time as the radio, turned on the lights in all rooms, and the dishes began to rattle loudly in the kitchen. He still does it all.

At night, he can call any of his acquaintances and at the same time talk loudly. He says that he does not hear well, and when something is not necessary, he will definitely hear. Naturally, with all his behavior he brought everyone to a state of shaking. And do not give God something to tell him. He started yelling and beating his mother. My sister and I are in tears, but at least he has something. “It’s your mother’s fault for everything,” is his favorite phrase.

When he is at home, everyone walks in tension and once again does not want to leave the room. And if he himself enters there, then you start to shake all over - such an unpleasant person. He doesn't like animals. Now I have a dog, we live separately from our parents. When I come with her to my parents, and my father is not at home, then the dog is calm. As soon as he puts the key in the keyhole, the hysterical barking of the dog begins, which is difficult to stop. Several times it happened that the dog bit his father.

Home reigns negative energy, although the rooms were consecrated. Probably no one has as many cockroaches as we do. It's just trouble. We have already tried many means, but the result is deplorable. In summer, house flowers bloom on the balcony. Mom wants them to bloom in the apartment. But when you bring them from the balcony, after a while the flowers begin to die. Oddly enough, loaches grow very well.

Our mother is always sick. Behind last years immediately aged. There is no more strength to live next to my husband, and we are with my father. If you write about all his dirty tricks, then there is simply not enough paper. Periodically, he accuses one of us that we stole something from him. And literally exhausts on this basis to hysteria.

Until I was eighteen, I lived with my parents. And here is "happiness"! My grandmother and grandfather (my mother's parents) got a two-room apartment and really wanted me to live with them. I was so glad that I would see my father less often, that my profession - a pediatric nurse - would receive more strength for work. After a while, my joy faded. Grandma took care of me. Grandfather was a calm person, I respected him (God rest his kingdom).

I am by nature cheerful, but calm. So my grandmother didn’t like everything about me. She was looking only for the bad, the good just did not want to see. I couldn't come home late, I couldn't take a shower, I couldn't do my laundry every weekend. Do not iron clothes, otherwise the iron will burn. You can not talk on the phone for a long time, and even laugh out loud. You should have seen her face at the moment when I lashed out at her. How much happiness is in her eyes, how much balm is poured into her heart. And so every day.

For six years of living with my grandmother, I lost six kilograms. I have hypotension, and my grandmother suffers from hypertension. I was constantly depressed. I didn't want to go home to this hell. I often found myself walking slowly from the bus stop to my house, even though it was only a two-minute walk.

And what's more interesting. Grandfather was so thin, and by the end of his life and weak, that he looked like a covered skeleton. And the grandmother is still in bodies, although the grandfather is older. When my grandfather died, I moved out of their apartment. I couldn't be alone with her."

Alexander Astrogor, from the book "Energy Vampirism"

Little children are always full of energy. They jump, run, have fun. They just radiate energy. She sprays from it like a fountain, which allows you to be active both physically and creatively. This energy fountain is visible to everyone around and it is quite possible that someone wants to drink from this fountain ... Today we will talk about energy vampirism.
In childhood, it is not fully formed, and he is under the energy protection of his parents, especially his mother. This protection is valid until the child's own biofield is formed. It is formed during puberty. And until this moment, you need to ensure that the child does not become the object of an energy attack. Namely, children often fall victim to the attack of energy vampires due to their low security and lack of life experience.

Energy vampires in the yard

Who can cling to the energy of our children? In any case, this is a man with a lack of love in his soul. Most often, vampires are older people. They have already used up their natural energy reserves, and if they are not true believers and do not engage in spiritual practices, then they have nowhere to take energy from, except from other people. Children are just a tasty morsel for them. You can easily pick on them. They are always having fun, making noise, disturbing others. Therefore, there are plenty of reasons. A vampire approaches the child and begins to scold him, scold him, pacify him, call him to order. After that, the vampire leaves peacefully, and the child no longer wants to have fun, play and jump. There was an outflow of energy from the donor to the vampire. The vampire feels relieved, while the donor feels weakness and loss of strength. The behavior of children is just a pretext for an energy attack, and the goal of a vampire is to receive a dose of energy. If you are nearby, you need to take the child aside without coming into conflict with the vampire. If your child walks alone, then in this case he must be taught to play so that he does not interfere with others. Of course, in practice this is difficult to implement. Therefore, if you notice that the same person finds fault with your child, then warn the baby to stay away from him and not enter into disputes with the vampire. Distance is the best prevention of energy vampirism.

Energy vampires at school

Another typical place where your children may be exposed to an energy attack is the school. Some teachers may, due to a lack of energy, feed on the energy of schoolchildren. The principle of its operation is the same - aggression. In addition to the fact that the child is subjected to energy depletion, which in itself can lead to, insults and indignation of the teacher can also injure the child's psyche. In childhood, the basic principles of the worldview are laid, and if you inspire that the child is a loser, lazy, clumsy, this can be deposited in his subconscious and he can really become what they are trying to present him. If a vampire teacher appears in your child's class, then measures should be taken to ensure that he is suspended from working with children for any reason. There is no need to unnecessarily complex about the methods of dealing with such people, because they destroy the psyche and fate of children, and the fate of dozens of people is more important than pity for one person. It is necessary to be guided by cosmic laws, and not by conventional norms of morality. In addition, allowing a vampire to consume someone else's energy, we are already corrupting his soul. And for this we are already responsible. The policy of appeasement has never led to good.

Home vampirism

And finally, the most dangerous type of vampirism is family. The appearance of a vampire in the family speaks of a lack of love. Husband and wife, after sucking each other's energy during scandals, can switch to a child. Instead of giving him their love, parents inflict wounds on the child's soul with scandals and abuse. Evil begets evil. Having received negativity from parents, the child also wants to get rid of it. He goes outside and looks for a "victim" to give negative energy received from loved ones. Resetting the negative can manifest itself in cruelty to animals and peers, rudeness to others and any other hooligan act. Thus, often the reason for the bad behavior of children lies in the wrong attitude of adults towards them. They are just victims of circumstance.

And if parents want their children to grow up successful, talented, with the right worldview and a strong psyche, then instead of scolding, they should encourage them to correct behavior and encourage in case of failure. So the child will not have an inferiority complex in case of failures, and he will be able to overcome his shortcomings, and in the future he will actively manifest himself in one area or another. What he received from his parents in childhood depends on what he will carry to people in adulthood. Therefore, the task of parents is to cultivate noble qualities in a child - good nature, understanding, unity, disinterestedness and compassion.

The fate of the child is formed primarily by parents, as well as educators, teachers and people around them. How he will do, think, treat others - depends on us. Therefore, parents and teachers have a huge responsibility for the future generation. They can lay the foundation happy life her child, and unhappy. Therefore, I urge everyone to treat children not as objects for manipulation and manifestation of power, but as to whom we have been entrusted so that we lay in them only the best that is in ourselves.