The most important thing to survive the betrayal of her husband is to be ready for it.
When I got married, I was absolutely sure that this would definitely not happen to me. Therefore, I did not think about how to survive the betrayal of my husband.

My husband gave the impression of a faithful man. He grew up in a family where parents revered family traditions, loved each other. It seemed that the question of how to survive the betrayal of her husband in this family never stood. How it really was ... I don't know.

And I, a sociable girl, and until I chose my chosen one, talked with many young people and was popular with the opposite sex. My mother was worried that there would come a time when I would get bored with my faithful husband and take a lover in search of adventure.

In addition, we naively believe: “Love is a permanent thing. And I will never be betrayed so unique and beloved. A man simply cannot do this, because he loves me so much. And if he dares to commit such an act, then I will never forgive him for this. I will not think about how to live with my husband after infidelity - suitcases out the door and the like.

So we reason until we are properly covered by this event. And when this happens, thoughts completely lose all logic. It seems to us that the world has collapsed, he will go to another, he no longer loves me, etc. Insidious thoughts of suicide come. This happens to almost every woman, if at the time of her husband's infidelity, she still loves him.

So it was with me. First thoughts: “THIS IS NOT HAPPENING TO ME!!!, This simply cannot be!” And then: “How could he betray me?! so close and native person Why live now? etc.

Change how to survive?

When we love, we do not want to think that such a moment may come. But still, unfortunately, this happens to almost (almost purely rhetorical word) with everyone. And if it hasn't happened to you yet, maybe you just don't know about it?

My husband has been cheating on me for two years. And I had no idea about it, although there were plenty of signs of betrayal. I believed him so much that I didn’t even think that betrayal was possible. And then the moment came when I had to think: “How to survive the betrayal of my husband?” "?"

So, what to do if you find out that your husband cheated?

1) First, discard thoughts about the hopelessness of the situation, suicide and similar nonsense.

Of course, you will have to suffer, without this we women simply cannot. But there is no need to delay the period of depression. Suffering in this case is needed in order to survive the pain and start thinking logically: How to live after the betrayal of her husband. It is very good if you have in your arsenal good friend or a mother who at this moment will not scold your unfaithful for what, but will concentrate her efforts on your virtues and will be able to instill in you a sense of self-confidence.

2) Secondly, understand how unfortunate it is that most women face such situations (with the exception of those who have not yet married). And all your friends and acquaintances either experienced it, or they still have to survive it. And if you see a happy married couple, then this does not mean at all that there were no betrayals in this family. It’s just not customary and somehow ashamed to talk about the fact that a woman is faced with treason and the question of how to survive it. We are used to boasting about our achievements, and the attention of men, and we are not at all inclined to tell everyone we know that at some point we felt unnecessary and unloved. So don't think you're the only one going through this grief.

3) I also advise you to discard thoughts about suitcases. What can you achieve with a divorce? Well, suppose they divorced because they betrayed, but what is the guarantee that the other will not do the same?

And then what is the point of changing the situation? Well, except that you were completely disappointed in men and decided to live alone.

Will you be happy - left alone? Ask yourself this question before chopping off your shoulder.

4) Hide from him for a while. And do not worry about the fact that this time he will be with his mistress. First, if this is indeed the case, change to this moment you can’t do anything, but most likely the husband will be so upset by your disappearance that he will not be at all up to his mistress. During this time, you will be able to suffer in the distance, think about how to live after your husband’s betrayal and not show him the full depth of your grief. A face tear-stained and exhausted by suffering and sleepless nights is not the best trump card in this situation.

5) Having suffered enough, try to look at this situation from the other side. Yes, you were betrayed - very unpleasant, painful, but this did not make you worse. You are so attractive, smart and beautiful woman, as before. It's just that some individuals have stopped noticing it.

Imagine that life is testing you - will you be able or not, not only to cope with this situation, but also to come out of it as a winner?!

6) The old Russian musical " Bat". I advise all women who are faced with a cheating husband to watch this movie and try to look at the situation with humor. The heroine of the film was not only able to answer the question: How to live after her husband's betrayal, she so intrigued her man that she made him fall in love again without memory ... fall in love with his wife!

7) In no case do not allow the thought that the lover is somehow better than you, younger, more beautiful, etc. Nothing better than that, I assure you! It's just that your man always sees her prepared for the meeting, that is, fully armed and naively believes that she is so attractive and understanding all the time. And even more so, don’t even think about asking your husband stupid questions like: “Is she better than me?” "Is she younger than me?"

Be sure that YOU are better, more attractive, kinder, smarter, etc. If you believe in it, the man will have no choice!

8) And now to battle! The man is a conqueror, whatever one may say. Make him worry not that he can be deciphered by you, but that now YOU can elude him. Set your RULES in this situation!

Let him understand that you are a woman who likes so many men!

You are beautiful, attractive, smart and worthy of love. Now let him worry: “Will you be faithful to him?”, “What will happen if now betrayal occurs on your part? How to survive it? Just do not try to assure him that you will definitely change in return.

This game needs to be played more subtly! He should know that you are a faithful wife, but due to the fact that a certain event has occurred, now she is not sure that you want to live with him for the rest of your life.

Doubt is a normal reaction in this situation.

And all around…!!!

So many fans who are ready to dispel your doubts. In your favor, of course. And if earlier you resolutely stopped any kind of courtship on their part, trying not to upset your loved one. Now... Why not take a gorgeous bouquet of roses and bring it home? It's just a sign of attention, nothing more. Why not chat on the phone in the evening with a colleague, of course, a male. At the same time, laughing and discussing topics that your husband does not concern. Why not go to a bachelorette party? Let the husband suffer: “Is this really a bachelorette party?”

Wise thought on this topic:

You know, I used to break my head! Thought where are you? - with whom you are?

Now everything has changed! I became different!

Where I am? who am I with?

Play, but don't play. He must remember how he conquered you in his youth. You are a faithful, cool attractive woman!!!

Such a woman to fight for!

9) Under any circumstances, do not bow your head, have a feeling dignity and then soon you will see and begin to enjoy how your husband again begins to win your attention. Torture him to your heart's content!

People do such incredible things, proving that EVERYTHING is POSSIBLE!

Cheating, how to survive it? How to return the love of a husband? - what are these little things ... you will do it !!!

One of the members of our club faced the betrayal of her husband and shared her story of victory on the pages of Svoipravila magazine.

Alexandra was not only able to survive this difficult psychological situation, she won a complete victory by returning and making him worry.

She recently moved into our apartment. best friend my wife's. At first I could not even think that she would settle so firmly on our square meters. She lived with us and had nowhere to go. I had to sleep in the kitchen for a long time. Once I found out that a friend does not like men and became my wife's mistress. The story of life in the first person.

Vitya, here Sveta has some problems in the family. Do you mind if she stays with us? - once asked my wife.

I have known the world for a long time. She was even a witness at our wedding with Natasha. I can’t say that I was delighted with this request, but still, I allowed it. In my naivete, I expected that Sveta would really spend the night with us only one night.

What happened to her? - asked Natasha when she finished talking on the phone.

Yes, her husband kicked her out of the house. Such a beast! Not only did he cheat on her, Sveta also turned out to be to blame. How do you guys manage to find someone to blame for everything?

In response, I shrugged. If you believe everything that Natasha just told me, then Sveta's husband is really a scoundrel. But I do not exclude the possibility that Sveta could easily present everything in this way. Putting a man in a bad light for women is easy.

While Svetlana got to us, Natasha and I tried not to waste time. We live in a two-room apartment. We are in one room and the children are in the other. Natasha and I have two children: boys Pasha and Kostya. Therefore, the question of where, even for one night, to place Sveta was relevant.

Well, do not lay it in the kitchen? The boys can come here at any time. Don't even change! Let's do that then. I will spend the night in the kitchen, and then you and Sveta will be in our room, - I suggested to Natasha.

She didn't argue. In such a situation, it is difficult to think of anything else at all.

A couple of hours later, Sveta arrived. Her arrival turned into a small evening gathering.

Vitya, you have no idea how insolent he is. I suspected before that he had someone. But he's in Lately in general, he stopped even trying to hide his mistress from me, - she began to talk about her difficult female fate of the Light.

Despite the fact that she is considered my wife's best friend, we have known each other for many years, I do not know her husband. Somehow we never got to cross paths joint activities Our families didn't travel anywhere together. So I could only judge him according to the words of our guest.

Complaints against her husband dragged on long after midnight. Since it took place in the kitchen, my bedroom for one night, I had to listen to all these effusions. And my Natasha agreed with her friend. During this night that Sveta spent at our house, I got rather tired of her. Her endless complaints about her husband and the fact that Natasha agrees with her in everything began to infuriate her. I had the feeling that I was in some kind of club of man-haters, and then I completely began to feel superfluous.

Vitya, this is such a thing ... Do you remember yesterday we talked about the fact that Natasha will only spend the night with us?

Such an introductory part from my wife could only mean one thing. Now she will ask if I don't mind if Sveta stays with us. How to look into the water!

She just doesn't have anywhere else to go. She hasn't had time to rent an apartment yet. She has a meeting with a realtor tonight. Here he will take off and will no longer embarrass us.

Well, do not expel the wife's girlfriend on the street? Although I'm tired of Svetlana, not letting in a person who has nowhere to go is already too much.

The meeting with the realtor went wrong. The apartment that was offered did not suit Sveta. Now she went to such meetings with realtors, almost every day after her main job. It is easy to guess that all this time she lived in our apartment, and for me the kitchen managed to turn into a living room.

At first, the fact that a strange woman lives in my apartment bothered me. I had to give up some habits. It was not possible, and to retire with his wife, since Sveta could enter the room at any moment. Then I got used to it a little, and after some time I even began to manage to see the pluses in it.

One woman is good, but two is better. Sveta tried to help with the housework, regularly spent evenings at the stove, cooked various dishes, and at the end of the month she even gave part of the money for the rent.

In parallel with this, I began to feel that Natasha and I were moving away from each other. She began to spend all her free time with Sveta. I have always believed that being jealous of a wife for her friends is the last thing a slacker man will do. I did not consider myself one of these, but, quite likely, very soon I could replenish their ranks.

Natasha, let's go to the cinema this weekend, shall we? My mother has already agreed to take the children to her. She missed them very much. And you and I haven’t gone anywhere together for so long, - I suggested to my wife.

In fact, I didn’t need this movie for nothing. I am not a big fan of going to cinemas, but at that moment it was important for me to make sure that Natasha still wanted to spend time with me.

Certainly! You're right - we probably haven't been to the cinema for a hundred years. I don't even know what's going on right now. Where shall we go? If you don't mind, I'll ask Sveta where she wants more, Natasha chirped joyfully.

And what does it have to do with Sveta? Did I invite Sveta two minutes earlier, and not my wife? And then everything fell into place.

I think you won't mind if Sveta comes with us? I don't want to leave her alone. She is going through a difficult time right now. You don't know, but she filed for divorce yesterday, - Natasha explained to me.

And I, naive, thought that Sveta would sooner reconcile with her husband than rent an apartment and leave ours. Now, we certainly won't have to count on it in the near future. She just filed for divorce yesterday. Now they will be divorced, at best, in a month. It turns out that all this time she will hang out with us?

I'm not used to hacking in the heat of the moment. I am generally a supporter of informed decisions. I don’t remember what exactly and when drove me crazy, but Sveta coped with it just with a bang. My hands were shaking from anger, and I was literally a couple of steps away from causing a scandal. But in last moment restrained himself. In this situation, shouting and breaking dishes will not solve anything. You can only make it worse, because I saw how Natasha is dependent on Sveta. But what is the secret of such dependence, I could not understand in any way.

To begin with, I tried to put myself in the place of Sveta. Nothing good came of it. I imagined that I had a fight with Natasha and left home. Yes, it is quite likely that I will spend one night with a friend and spend the night, but not more. The next day I would have started looking for an apartment. I don't see anything good in embarrassing people in their own home. And this is on the condition that (just sure of this), my friend would not kick me out, but, on the contrary, offered to stay as long as possible. In addition, Natasha and I and our two children did not live in a three-story cottage, in which there would be enough space for a company of soldiers. We have an ordinary double! To be honest, the four of us sometimes feel cramped in it, and then there is Sveta.

Natasha, when will Sveta leave us? You understand, it's not quite normal that she has been living with us for so long. Are you unable to rent an apartment? Or does she have no relatives with whom she could live?

Vitya, don't you know that in Sveta's parental apartment there is nowhere for an apple to fall? Her sister lives there with her husband, nephews, brother and girlfriend periodically visit. Eight people in three rooms! Well, where else is Light?

Where is she for us? There are five of us, but two rooms. She can't live with us forever.

After this conversation, Natasha was offended by me and then talked to me for several more days only in cases of emergency. “Vitek, you are jumping. Soon, this Sveta will evict you first to the balcony, and then completely transport your things to the garage. Be careful with this. Women - they are so cunning, - my friend, and part-time neighbor in the garage Anton advised me. - Although, why am I upset? We will see each other more often. I will visit you in the garage to come to you.

We met with Anton that evening in a pub, which is located not far from my house. After a quarrel between Sveta and my husband, I began to look there almost every day. I just didn't want to go home.

To some extent Anton was right. Slowly but surely, Sveta kept me out of the house. I wonder if she did it on purpose?

And then I began to notice that Natasha had changed her attitude towards male gender. Several times I started an old hurdy-gurdy that it would be nice for Sveta to collect her belongings and get out of our apartment.

“Vitya, why is she bothering you so much? She doesn't even bother us one bit. You have a sofa, a TV, a refrigerator with food in your kitchen. What else do you need?

Now Natasha, I'm sure, at the suggestion of her friend, began to think that men are unpretentious creatures that are at the lowest stage of evolution. Anton is right - at this rate I will soon be living in a garage. A sofa, a TV and a refrigerator are all I need to be happy.

Talking with Natasha about Sveta's move was useless. I had in stock a few more ways to evict an obsessive girlfriend. The last of them is just to take and kick her out, and then throw out all the things after her. But, given Svetino's influence on Natasha, I was not sure that my wife would not follow her. I went the other way. If earlier I spoke about Sveta exclusively in a whisper or in her absence, now I simply stopped limiting myself. Sveta returned to the discussion of the issue of moving almost every evening. And he tried to do it in such a way that the essence of our conversation would definitely reach the ears of her friend. Did not help. Light was impenetrable. She continued to act like nothing happened to me. Like, she doesn't know about my position. Although I am sure that she hears all the conversations with Natasha perfectly.

The situation was radically changed by an unexpected acquaintance. I, according to the already established habit, whiled away the evening after work in a pub with a mug of beer. And then a complete stranger sat down next to me. At first I thought that he confused me with someone else,

Are you Vitya? My friend's husband is practically ex-wife Lights? - the stranger asked me.

I nodded in response.

I know that Sveta lives with you.

After these words, I managed to rejoice: at last he changed his mind and decided to return her home. But no…

You better be careful with her. She destroyed our family, and now, I'm sure, she's working on destroying yours.

Yes, it was correct!

I did not expect such a turn of events! And what to do next? Has my wife taken under my nose not a lover, but a mistress? With a lover, everything would be much easier - at least you know how to behave. And what to do with the mistress?

In the evening, when I got home, I pulled my wife into the kitchen for a conversation. Was determined. It was still not enough for my wife and her friend to cuckold me.

Natasha did not deny for a long time and confessed everything.

So, let Sveta collect things now! I don't care where she goes. We do not live in the Stone Age - in extreme cases, we will spend the night in a hostel. Maybe he will meet his love. If she doesn’t collect, then I will help her and send her from the balcony, for speed, - I put Natasha before the fact.

If you kick her out, then I'll go after her - apparently, Natasha thought to frighten me and force me to abandon her decision in this way.

But I was not in that state then.

Please! I can help you to collect things for the company.

Natasha freaked out and went to tell her mistress everything, and at the same time to collect things. She really left that evening with Sveta. I had to tell the children that my mother had gone to help Aunt Sveta settle into her new apartment.

They seemed to believe. The relationship between Sveta and my wife did not last long. About a week later, Natasha appeared at home. We talked for a long time, she cried, asked for forgiveness. I told her that I forgot everything, that I forgive her. But really not sure.

Like it or not, Natasha cheated on me. Let not with a man, but still, betrayal took place. But we have two children. I want them to grow up in a complete family. And I set a condition for Natasha: that Sveta was no longer on the threshold. And also no other close friends who can destroy family happiness.

11 monstrously real stories about betrayal and betrayal

What's worse than that in a relationship? It seems nothing. We all try every day to make our relationships more or less normal and healthy. After all, this is real everyday work, and not just sighs under the moonlight. And then one day there comes a moment when at the other end of the wire someone performs what is expected from this person, it would seem impossible. You don't think of it on purpose.

At a party, I found him in the bedroom during an orgy.

“My now ex-boyfriend and I came to a party. There were more guys than girls, but I knew someone and sat down to chat. Then I lost it. Searched all over the house. And I found it in the bedroom, there were five more naked men and two heifers. They seem to have had a lot of fun at the time. But not to me.”

I skipped work to have a surprise party where she cheated on me

“I didn't go to work to prepare a surprise party for my girlfriend. And in the midst of fun caught her with another. There was a scandal. And the next day, they fired me.”

My boyfriend brought another chick for Christmas

“We celebrated Christmas with our friends. And my boyfriend brought some weird chick in there. When I saw her, I shook. I looked at him with a dumb question: “Dude, are you serious? What does all of this mean?". He said that it was his friend who called her and he had nothing to do with it. In addition, she was kind of dumb and drunk in the ass. And I was wildly offended, because I felt that they had something.

When I didn't feel like having sex after giving birth, he told Tinder and went on dates

“I have never been jealous of him. He liked to hang out all the time and I did not interfere. My pregnancy was not planned, but we had a sweet relationship and did not consider an abortion. A month after giving birth, of course, I had to recover. And he downloaded Tinder and went on dates. I didn't find out until a few months later when my friend stumbled upon his profile. A year later, I entered an internship and hung out with all sorts of promising smarties and slept with them. Then she returned. She told him everything and broke up with him, proud of herself.

Some guy asked my ex to send me a photo. And she sent me naked

“I dated a girl. Once she asked me to print something from her mail and gave me all the passwords. I did everything, but went on poking around in her computer. And I saw that she grazes on all sorts of dating sites and communicates there only with men. One of them asked me to send a photo and she sent me a photo of me naked. She turned out to be a bastard even after we broke up and once sent me a photo of another girl with the caption: “Look, I found something better than you.”

My best friend at university cheated my term paper and passed it off as hers.

“My college friend copied my work and passed it off as hers before me. And set me up in front of the professor. But I was given another chance and did another project and defended it. And she failed because she didn’t know a damn thing about the subject.”

When my mom was pregnant with me, my older sister caught my dad kissing my mom's friend

“Mom was betrayed by my biological father and her friend. My sister caught them, and my mother found out about everything a few days after my birth. I was 22 days old and she kicked him out of the house. My father began to live with my mother's girlfriend, they adopted a boy, but then dad left them. He never gave me anything or bought me, but only wrote letters in which he told how he bought himself a new TV or a new car. I'm still mad at him."

Once at a party I went crazy

"We had serious relationship, but the guy called them “open” all the time. And I thought he cheated on me three times. Then I broke out to a swinger party and made a fuss with a huge number of people there. Only 27!”

I caught my ex-husband cheating when I was eight and a half months old

“I caught my husband with another woman when I was heavily pregnant. She yelled at both hit him and her. She returned home, threw all his things in boxes and sent him to his mother. On the same evening, I started having contractions and I went to give birth. My daughter was born a little premature, she is now 14 years old. And I sincerely wish her never to experience this.”

My boyfriend broke up with me via text because I'm "studying too much"

“My first boyfriend seemed very nice to me, he always said that he loved me, but at the same time he worked all the time. Then he began to miss our meetings and invent all sorts of reasons. And then I got a message from him that we can't date because I "study too much. I was terribly upset and my self-esteem plummeted wildly. Then I found out that he was hooking up with his ex and dating his former colleagues for money or for gifts. I’m very glad that fate took such a piece of shit away from me. ”

He simultaneously met with another girl who paid for him everywhere

“Everything was perfect when we started dating. True, sometimes she complained that she was completely broke, and then suddenly appeared with expensive gifts. But all the time it was things from the same store or gift vouchers. I began to suspect something. This went on for a year, I began to follow him and be very attentive. And I found out that even longer than with me, he was dating a girl from another city. I told him about my guesses. He said that I was crazy and I needed to see a psychologist. Then I talked to her and she told me that she works in a store from which gifts come from, and pays literally all his expenses, even telephone and medical insurance. He later told me that he just fell in love with me, and he could not part with her because of the money. Then I told her everything, but she loved him so much that she could not leave him, he manipulated her all the time. Then I decided to leave.”

Not everyone can forgive betrayal. Someone instead of forgiveness will want revenge, and someone will simply leave, slamming the door.

The heroines of our today's article, when they found out that the beloved man was cheating on them, decided to take revenge.

Revenge for treason is not always the worst choice. Often it is after revenge that a person is able to think soberly. And in this case, probably, he will not break up the family. Moreover, he will not feel humiliated, and to some extent he will feel better. Therefore, sometimes revenge after betrayal is not bad, psychologist Valentina Berzinskaya is sure.

Julia, 33 years old

When I found out that my husband was cheating on me, of course, I experienced a real shock. The first desire was to kick him out of the house and start a new life.

But I decided to cool off. When the emotions subsided, I realized that I also needed treason. Otherwise, I will feel like floor mats at the front door to the apartment for a long time to come. At that time, my husband and I parted temporarily to give each other the opportunity to think.

After I slept with another man, I realized that I was ready to save my family. And it was after this step that I stopped being disgusted to look at my husband. Because we both stumbled.

Although my husband does not know that I cheated on him. But the main thing is that I know.

If, after betrayal, a girl feels that she cannot put up with the existing state of affairs, but is also not ready to break off relations, it makes sense to take a break from each other. And even, sometimes, start a new relationship. This helps to understand how much she needs a family, says Valentina Berzinskaya.

Valya, 35 years old

Upon learning of the betrayal, I was in a wild rage for a long time. I just could not believe that my loved one is capable of betraying me in this way.

I began to take revenge in a state where emotions had not subsided. No, I did not go looking for a new man - I decided that I would ruin the life of his mistress. It turned out that she was also married.

As a result of my actions, all the love correspondence of the "doves" came to her husband. Naturally, there was a scandal and debriefing. I feel better.

And I did not stay with my faithful. Revenge, and threw him out of life.

When you want to take revenge, it is wrong to do it in relation to your mistress. She made no promises of fidelity and love to anyone. The husband is to blame for the betrayal. You need to come to terms with this, and if you really take revenge, then only to him. Although, it’s much better to just let go right away, the psychologist is sure.

Tanya, 29 years old

I always knew that if they cheat on me, I will take revenge. Until I feel like I can let go of the situation to move on with my life.

A banal story happened to us: a daughter was born, and my husband began to walk. And I, as often happens, saw his correspondence, and found out about everything.

Since the child was very small, and I had no savings, a scandal would not have been an option.

I continued to live with him as if nothing had happened. And when my daughter grew up a little, and I went to work, other men began to appear in my life. Since then, I allow myself to fall in love and enjoy these relationships.

My husband and I are not divorced. But there is no trust between us. Also, since then I have been spending a lot of his money on myself. As a compensation.

If you remove the moral foundations, then for many couples the way out is to simply let each other go and allow romances on the side. It keeps you in good shape, it helps you feel needed, and it strengthens relationships. Another question is that Tanya did not forgive her husband. And this is a problem that will still make itself felt, - the specialist shares his opinion.

Cheating is something that no one is immune from. In everyone's life, a situation can happen when a loved one, from whom you don’t even expect anything bad, can spoil everything at one moment, showing infidelity towards his soulmate.

Real stories cheating can sometimes make you think about whether your loved one is cheating on you. In addition, many will decide what they need to fix in order to prevent cheating in a relationship.

The Story of the Unfaithful Wife

Reviewing the real stories of his wife's betrayal, you can pay attention to the story of one man who shared his misfortune. Like all lovers, a man and his beloved woman got married and began to live together. At the time of the beginning of the relationship, the husband was quite rich, had his own small business, there was enough money for everything that his other half could wish for.

Several years passed, the affairs of the man did not develop in the best way, the business practically ceased to generate income, the wife had to go look for work. It would seem that nothing unusual, because everyone has problems and they need to be fought together. However, less than two months later, the man began to notice that his wife began to linger too often at work, at home she behaved very unusually. Sometimes a woman came with some new things that her friends gave her, if you rely on her words.

Soon the husband decided to have a serious conversation with his soulmate, because such a relationship would not lead to anything. After some conversation, the wife herself admitted that at the new worker she met a new man together, who seemed to her more successful and attractive. This was followed by a divorce, the property was divided between a man and a woman.

If we talk about why the wife cheated on her husband, the real story suggests that the reason was the dissatisfaction of the woman. Can you blame her? Probably, yes, because when the marriage was concluded, the words about remaining faithful both in grief and in joy certainly sounded. To prevent such a situation from arising in your relationship, try to always find a common language and get out of difficult situations together, making joint efforts.

Real life stories about a cheating wife will help you avoid the mistakes that other people made.

The story of a husband who left his wife

Real stories about betrayal can sometimes amaze with their unusual turns of events. Recently appeared on the Internet interesting story, the main characters of which were a husband, wife and pregnant mistress.

The relationship between husband and wife was quite mutual, they loved each other. However, the man, not finding in his soulmate what he lacks, decided to find a mistress for a while. Everything dragged on and it turned out so that the man suddenly became the future dad. And the whole trouble is that it was not his wife who became pregnant, but his mistress, apparently through negligence in sexual relations. It all ended with the fact that the man, seeing no other way out of the situation, went to the pregnant woman so that the child would grow up in a full-fledged family.

Such a story about betrayal real life gives men a reason to think about whether it is worth having mistresses by breaking the hearts of their loved ones. It is important to remember that even if you got married, you should keep taking it to the bitter end. You should not look for someone who seems better to you, you should bring the existing relationship to perfection.

The story of the betrayal of loving wives

Sometimes it happens that a person manages to fall in love with two people at once. This happened in the next story about his wife. Initially, the relationship developed just fine, the marriage was already 6 years old, a wonderful son appeared. The man was in the 7th heaven with happiness with his beloved, but grief was very close.

The wife soon confessed to her beloved husband that she loved two at once: him and another man. The whole point is that the woman thought that everything would pass and only one single love would resume - love for her husband. This did not happen and the desire to be with two at once did not fade away. After the cheater confessed everything, the man left her, not wanting to be with her.

Real stories of cheating wife

Such real stories of cheating wife, stories once again confirm that there is no point in cheating if you want to maintain a relationship. In any case, there is a risk that you will have to part with your loved one, no matter how much you would like to. To be offended in such situations is simply indecent, because the one who cheated is to blame, nothing more.

Telling real stories about cheating wives , one more story can be cited as an example (names, as in all stories, are not voiced). It all started with the fact that husband and wife lived together soul to soul. There were no fights or resentment. If they quarreled, it was only over trifles. But one day the wife was called to a corporate party, where she inadvertently cheated on her husband.

The story lasted a long time, since for a long time the woman could not confess everything. The day came when she managed to tell everything to her beloved. A man, being reasonable, understood the value of relationships. Because of this, he managed to forgive his soul mate. After that, a long, happy and living together. Such a betrayal of a wife is a real life story.

It is worth remembering that if people love each other, it makes sense to forgive in order to build only warm relationships in the future. Even betrayal can be forgiven, the main thing is that both people want to restore everything.