How to keep a man near you. How to keep a man: a universal instruction
To win a man, women have their own tricks. But there are whole manuals for this. Naturally, the conquest of a man is only half the battle, he must somehow be kept near him. It is no secret that long-term relationships between a man and a woman sometimes end in separation and divorce. There are also betrayals that do not depend on you, women.
However, in most cases, everything is in your hands: you yourself can fight for your happiness. If you really love your man and parting with him will be a big loss for you, then you will certainly need the help of a specialist who will tell you how to keep your beloved close by.
Of course, for all women there is no unambiguous answer to this question, since each woman, and the situations that lead to separation, are different. As they say family psychologists, any woman of her chosen one can both push away and hold. Psychologists have developed general advice for women, how to keep a man. Here are some of them.
- You need to take care of yourself. Being married, most women begin to relax. Initially, women justify this behavior by the fact that they are on maternity leave and they simply do not have time to take care of themselves. However, as practice shows, many women continue to treat their appearance the same way even after the decree. During the decree, they are already accustomed to the typed overweight, cellulite becomes native for them, and some even refuse beauty and makeup salons - why spend time and money on this when my husband loves me like that? Unfortunately, this is not the best way to keep your loved one near you. Over time, he begins to look at such a woman not as his wife, but as a piece of home furniture. That is why you should always remember that you are a woman first and foremost!
- Pay attention to your clothes. This is where underwear comes into play. A man should constantly experience the feeling that for him you are trying to be constantly attractive and. And he must feel it all the time.
- Be varied. Everyone needs something new from time to time. After all, the constant, although good, becomes boring very quickly. Therefore, change something in your appearance. Moreover, it is not worth changing radically, but it should not be neglected either. Change hairstyle, makeup, hair color, manicure and other little things.
- The instinct of a conqueror for a man is the main thing. Following this statement, constantly make sure that he tries to win you over again.
- Become more important in his eyes. Artificially inflate your price. To do this, change something in yourself. And don't be afraid to experiment. In order to keep the man of your dreams near you, for him you must become the ideal and irreplaceable woman that many men dream of.
- Make him jealous. Sometimes a man needs to be given a reason to be jealous, but don't overdo it. Let it be insignificant, but still a reason. The main thing to remember here is that on the basis of jealousy, a lot of all sorts of stupid things and even crimes are committed. - this does not mean that he needs to change. It is enough just to make it clear to your chosen one that he is not the only one and other men are showing interest in you. In this case, he will definitely try to keep you near him.
- Don't Love Your Husband Too Much. One rule should become the main thing for you: you can only love yourself too much. Only in this case, you will experience much less disappointment. If a woman dissolves into a man because of this, then they do not like it. Men like women who have feelings dignity, with character.
- Home comfort. A man should go home with impatience and pleasure. Prepare a delicious dinner, do not load him with your problems from the door until he talks about his, if any, during the day.
- Intrigue your loved one. In order to keep a loved one near you, you should not fully open it in front of him. Let him constantly look for riddles from you. You must prove to him that you still have something unknown to him. Try to evoke a lot of questions in his head, to which he will constantly look for an answer. Give him hope that you will open up to him soon. But it is not at all necessary to do so. To do this is quite simple: create some kind of understatement. Start intriguing him on the phone with the fact that you learned something about him, and then abruptly end the conversation, saying that they call you on the second line and you can only talk to him in the evening. The main thing is to make a man languish in anticipation. Keep him in the dark for as long as possible, and then you can tell him some stupid thing from his childhood, for example, that he was afraid of frogs.
Of course, these tips about how to keep a man should be used only as needed. If you abuse them, then you will simply simply stop believing.
In the article, I will tell you, dear, how to keep a man “next to you” (attached to you) forever.
First of all, when I say hold on (I mean not forcibly directly hold/keep, etc.? - that's just the gist). Keep in quotes. You can only "keep" a man with yourself. No stamp in the passport (marriage), children, etc. will “keep” him if you yourself cannot. Remember this. like our father.
Council number 1. Upgrade yourself to the level of a high-ranking woman
Most of the women are low to medium rank. These ranks = extremely difficult to keep a man. They don't know how. Can not. Does not work. Etc. and so on. they are thrown, cheated on, etc. and so on.
When a man leaves a woman, the woman is to blame. Not a man. And vice versa. If a woman throws a man = the man is to blame, not the woman. Don't shift responsibility.
Nobody just walks away from anyone. There WAS something wrong - with you. In you. It's logical. It is logical that you do not suit him in some way, i.e. something you do not satisfy, you do not satisfy according to some criteria. There is natural selection (the fittest win), so everything is logical.
And what was already there was not so - the question is different. The reasons are really many. About them, we will talk about the same later ...
Worthy high-ranking women = know how and know how to keep their men next to them. Although, in fact, they do not hold them - men themselves want to be with them. Think about what level it is. What kind of woman do you need to be for a man to want to be with this woman all the time ...
CONCLUSION: you need to upgrade yourself to the level of a high-ranking woman. Pump. Work on yourself. Plow. Works. Daily. Systematically. Is it difficult? Self-improvement is never easy. It is a fact. What did you think you were in a fairy tale? Nothing comes easy. At the snap of a finger = neither nor ...
But! If you want a man to want to be with you. I wanted to live with you for the rest of my life. If you want a long-lasting, happy, harmonious relationship = you have to be the right woman! Not the same as the vast majority of girls / women. Understand?
You must be a unique, worthy, highly ranked woman. Here is the article - Study it up and down and work on yourself. Otherwise, don't expect anything good.
So. Look. Your main task in terms of choosing a partner is MINIMIZE THE RISKS IN LIFE! Remember, this is like our father! This is your main task.
In order to minimize the risks in life = you must take a WORTHY and MAN!
Not a boy. Not a guy. I don't sneeze my mother. Not a teenager. Not a boy. Not a man. Babu with eggs between his legs, etc. these categories = because these are huge risks for you, and be sure that nothing good will come of you with them (in terms of serious, long-term, happy relationship). 100% guarantee.
A serious relationship should be built between a MAN and a WOMAN. With young guys who have not worked up, who have no knowledge, no experience, no solvency (business, money), the right values, beliefs, etc. things, nothing will come of it. It is a fact! Need a man.
Inside this category = no man. There is no pumped strong, powerful, internal state. No rod. There is no character. No hardening. No self-confidence. Relics. Energy. No knowledge, no experience, no nothing. He has no money, no business, no wealth. There is nothing. He is a rogue. In short, he is still a nobody and there is no way to call him. Loser. Jonah. He has not yet taken place as a person even ...
By the way, many remain so until the end of their days .. besides (in addition to the above) he is still young, he is not a work-up, and we are polygamous men, we want a lot of girls, a lot, quantity, screw everyone, plant everyone, well, imagine - what kind of relationship can there be?
What are the relationships here? Today he is with you, in the evening purely by chance he met a girl who is not averse to having fun = and that's it, game over. And tomorrow he is still there with someone, nothing holds him back next to you when he is young, and hormones are not childish. What kind of serious relationship is this? …
I'll even tell you that. You can try everything for him, just wear and tear, be an ideal woman, ideal, give him everything - that a woman should give in full, etc. and so on. in general, it is clear that there are no ideal ones at all, everyone has their own shortcomings, but in general I say, so, attention: in the end, he is still young, and he may want more females. As much as possible. He hasn't walked yet. Understand. It has nothing to do with you. This is what can happen to a boy ... even if not at first, but years later - this happens to many. As a result, they change / quit ...
Besides, what kind of relationship is there when he has nothing? There are no butterflies. What kind of a man is this without money?)) This is not a man. The main function of a man is to be a breadwinner. I've said this a hundred times already. Imagine where you will live? It's up to the man to decide. But he doesn't have a home. And maybe there is no money at all, even to rent an apartment. How will you live? Make ends meet? Do you need it? And who will feed you, clothe you, protect you, etc. and so on. Who? And who will take care of the offspring, when it will be? Even more money will be needed, because there are already three of you. … in short, think about it all…
Besides 2, what kind of relationship is there when a man knows nothing, no knowledge, experience, etc.? The man should be the leader in the relationship. He must be the leader. Chief. leader. No. 1. And what are we talking about if there is a teenager, a boy, a woman with eggs, snot, etc.? Need a man. Dot.
You have no right to make mistakes in a partner. If you make mistakes = you will pay for it. You will be used, just fuck and throw. In the end, this is how you will walk around. And in the end, no one will need you anymore. Because natural selection is at work. And you are already second-rate meat, not freshly aged, with a wild work-up mileage. Understand?
I don’t even speak for the fact that in our time it is very important to fuck without protection and give birth to a child at a young age. This is generally the edge of idiocy. And then, the boy (as it most often happens) gives way back because the pissing is not childish, and you yourself with a trailer for life = only now you are already looking for the norms of a man.
Need a man now! And a worthy man. Here's an article for you - study it. There I tell what a worthy high-ranking man is. The one you need!
But! I pay attention right away. To be with such a worthy man = you yourself must be a worthy woman. For each creature has a pair and they receive what they themselves are. Nothing else. That's why, at the very beginning - I said (gave advice) to upgrade yourself to the level of a high-ranking woman.
No. 3. Qualitatively and regularly cover men's needs
If a woman treats a man very competently, behaves correctly = the man will be with her himself. He will choose you. 98% of the time it's yours. Fact!
We men have needs. Here's the main article for you:. Study it inside and out. There, I tell what the vast majority of girls do not know / do not understand, namely: what does a man need (what are our needs, what is important to us), how to behave with a man, so that everything will be with a bang, so that long-lasting harmonious and the most important thing is a happy relationship.
In short, here they are (male needs):
- 1) High-quality regular (over time, varied) s * ks
- 2) 100% fidelity (devotion) to a man
- 3) Support. Care. Weasel. Tenderness. Faith. Inspiration. (femininity is capable of all this)
- 4) Attention to a man
- 5) The value of a man
- 6) The function of motherhood
- 7) Hostess function
- 8) and all that he lacks (is lacking). You already know better what is there and how. You must feel it, know it, see it. But! At a minimum (without fail), qualitatively and regularly close those 1-7 needs.
The rule is that if you give your man everything he needs, he will not get away from you anywhere. He is yours. That's why relationships are a daily job. But, on the other hand, it would never occur to a peasant to leave you, look for something on the side, cheat on you, look for another woman, etc. because he will have everything with you in abundance. Everything will suit. Everything will be fine. Understand?
This is the first. And secondly, a woman needs to make sure that this man of hers - felt like a man - next to her.Your man should feel like a MAN - next to you.
For this, you must be a FEMININE WOMAN. This is one of the key rules of relations between men and women. This key rule - allows a man himself to want to be with this woman.
3.1. (addition) BALANCE IN RELATIONSHIPS IS IMPORTANT!
Success in relationships largely (I would say, first of all) depends on how partners evaluate each other! How will your status be relative to each other.
In short, you are a woman = you should not invest a lot of resources in a man (time, money, strength, energy, etc.). Simply put - a lot of things to do for him / for him, if this man of yours \u003d really does not invest anything in you. This is called a one-sided game (imbalance of relations).
Relationship imbalance - puts an end to these relationships. 100% guarantee to you. Therefore, the game (relationship) should take place in two gates: you somehow invest in him (do something) = he somehow invests in you (did something) = and so on ad infinitum. There must be uniformity. Balance. 50/50.
In no case should you invest and invest FREE OF CHARGE = otherwise your significance (value) for a man is lost and over time = everything, he does not appreciate you, does not respect you, actually wipes his feet on you, etc., in general , it's game over. So think...
I talked about this in more detail in the main article:
No. 4. Your uniqueness (as a person) for a man ...
This point is, in my opinion, the most important. No. 1,2,3 - extremely too (don't get it wrong), but, this one = the most decisive ( eventually).
Over time, as the relationship develops, the partners get to know each other more and more. This allows you to start, in a sense - to be friends. And don't leave friends. They are comfortable and good.
Another thing is that between men and women = there is nothing in common. We are completely different. Really from different planets. Read more in the article: Therefore, it is quite difficult (to be friends). But! Definitely, you, dear, must be an appropriate woman. You should be interesting. You must be well developed. Smart. Wise. Interesting. Etc.
High ranking men are = smart men. Believe me. They need a female that matches them. With “tp” some there, which, apart from an instagram and a bunny, has nothing on its mind = nothing, no one will build anything. All they do is fuck and throw these dolls, because there is nothing more to “catch” with them ...
You are important here. Like a woman. Like a personality. Who are you. What are you. What are your worldviews in life, views, interests, hobbies, do you have a passion (hobbies), what do you do, how do you live, what are you, are you smart, your intellect, your upbringing, IQ (social, emotional, logical), thinking, behavior, etc. and so on. Do you understand how important all this is? Work on yourself. Work!
There are women who are both beautiful and feminine = but inside they are puuuustooota. BLACK HOLE! It is not interesting with them, there is nothing to talk about, plainly, about something serious, important, etc. there are no brains, or thinking, logic, brain are not sufficiently developed, and you feel it - that she is far from you, and everything is no longer toooooo ...
And there are also quite smart ones = but with a man = completely different values, interesting, hobbies, activities (in general different personalities) and, accordingly, even in this case = is unlikely to come out.
A worthy man = wants a corresponding female. Dot. Because if at the initial stage of the relationship, those are all needs, incl. a cool sex is the main tool for binding a man, then over time, the same sex loses its colors, and something else is needed. Something bigger. Understand? Something else is this item. It's you as a person! If you "as a person" will not be = game over. That's all.
This is what is important… points of contact. How well do you fit together, do you have common values, interests, hobbies, are your thinking, worldviews similar in life, etc. are you approximately equal to each other, or are you a f*ck, and he is smart, or vice versa, he is healthy (and you are not), etc., it’s impossible to do otherwise if you are completely different = what kind of relationship can there be ? You can’t get along when there are different values, interests, you are different, incl. your traits like intelligence, IQ, etc.
- Don't shine IQ intelligence (mind) = goodbye
- Acting like a TP = goodbye
- Not sociable (nothing to talk about, you don’t know how to keep a conversation going, etc.) = goodbye
- You act like cattle - goodbye
- Cursing (already said before) - goodbye
- Smoke (already said before) - goodbye
- Boring, not funny (emotional iq not pumped) = bad, not that…
- Passive in life (no hobbies, interests, etc.) = bad, not that…
- No common interests, values, etc. = you don't fit, alas..
- Etc. it’s all so, I’m superficially considering, without delving directly into everything (the main thing is to understand the essence)
No. 5. Routine (routine, boredom, longing, predictability)
This is the last point. In addition to the man, the woman, in many respects, should also take the initiative in everything. Diversity. No routine. Boredom. Anguish. Ordinary. By no means should it be.
Relationships need constant work. (in addition to covering each other's needs, working on oneself, developing trust and other components), work constantly, constantly, even if the man is already yours. And vice versa, your woman. Do you understand? In a relationship, everything should not be boring, everything is banal and everything is predictable, otherwise failure, parting, betrayal quarrels, etc. end.
Don't just exist next to each other.
There should always be something new, unusual, etc. happening in a relationship. let not every day (I think everyone understood the essence), but it should be! Vital. Everything should not be boring, dreary, predictable, routine, melancholy, etc. Always be creative - active, not passive.
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Thousands of manuals have been written about how to win the man of your dreams, but few people are interested in the fact that the satellite taken by storm has yet to be held.
Do not hurry
Especially right after we met. Do not rush to quickly develop your relationship, move on to intimacy, talk to him about the wedding, children, do not rush to build general plans for the future, etc. Almost always, this is very scary for the chosen one, if you do it right away, at the beginning of your relationship.
Surprise
You can unexpectedly arrange a romantic dinner for him, gather his old friends, take him to some beautiful place, give him a gift for no reason, etc. The element of surprise in such cases plays a big role. 
Don't argue
Men always think that they are right, so arguing with them is a useless hassle. Of course, there is a chance that you will convince him, but at what cost will you get all this! If you still categorically do not want to agree with him, try to calmly talk without turning the conversation into screams.
LISTEN to him, understand why he thinks so. Maybe he really is right. If not, then give your arguments, logically arguing them.
“I think so, and I don’t care about anything!”, “I know that I’m right!” - such phrases for a man are similar to a red rag for a bull.
Maybe it will help you to solve the issue mutual friend, internet, etc.
Praise
Men also love with their ears, which is why they smile so sweetly when nice things are said to them. BUT! It must be done appropriately. You can compare it with dog training: done - keep the yummy! Also in relation to men: you need to praise deservedly, otherwise he will lose that very incentive.
If everything is done competently and cunningly, your chosen one will do all the work with great enthusiasm! 
Give freedom
You don't have to keep him around all the time. Do not follow your chosen one, do not read his correspondence, do not eavesdrop on his conversations ... However, you can sometimes deviate from these rules: if you want to know everything about him, do it discreetly and infrequently.
Also, do not interfere with his meetings with friends, because often they really relax with their souls with them (interesting conversations, humor relevant to their circle, etc.).
BUT! Do not give a reason to think that he is indifferent to you, otherwise he will start doing stupid things to spite you.
Develop
If you are a diversified personality, he will always be interested in you. Men are very flattered when they try to develop at their expense: you can ask him to teach you how to drive a car, paint walls, or maybe even save money ...
BUT! Do not defiantly show that you are doing something better. It might humiliate him.
Don't compare with others
Many people think that comparison should motivate self-improvement, but this is not the case. A man can just be offended. Although ... You can compare, but in a positive perspective: “You are stronger ...”, “You are more beautiful ...”, “You are doing better ...”, etc.
Maintain
You are his chosen one, and he will first of all want to find solace from you. If you can calm him down, cheer him up and look for ways out of difficult situations together from time to time, do not hesitate - you will mean a lot to him.
Is it possible to stop a married man
Almost every girl who starts a relationship with married man, understands that she is doing wrong, but secretly consoles herself with the thought that it is she who will be able to become "his only one." Most likely, her chosen one has already told her how everything is bad in their family, that there is no love or passion left, but only a child, business, the idea that a sick mother will be very upset, etc.
Before you think about whether it is possible to keep a married man, you should ask yourself: do you need it?
Spending time in depressing expectation, being together, but not being a couple, living life in squeezing uncertainty, risking forever remaining in the hopeless status of a mistress, being constantly “in the background”, spitting on your future.
The fact remains that only a small number of men leave families and children for the sake of their new love.
There is only one conclusion here: from the very beginning, you should not start any love relationships with married men if you do not want to be left with a broken heart or torture yourself all your life with thoughts that you contributed to the destruction of the family (any kind). 
Stop all his attempts to “roll up” to you (flirting, ambiguous compliments, etc.). If the relationship still began, it is worth abandoning them as soon as possible. Remember the boomerang effect. And remember: how quickly passion flares up, just as quickly it can fade away, so you should not rush into the pool with your head.
Joke on topic:
Difficult, very difficult to prove former mistress who became your wife, that married men never cheat on their wives.
How to keep a guy
Forever
If you want to stay with this person for the rest of your life, work on the relationship right away.
after sex
What was, was. We live in a world where sexual relations are losing their morality. It can be said in another way: less and less partners make love, and more and more - just sexual intercourse. However, this does not mean that you need to immediately “jump into bed” with your new chosen one.
In most cases, men immediately lose interest in the "easy victim". But at the same time, you should not make him wait too long if you do not want him to simultaneously look for sexual satisfaction elsewhere.
After a night spent together, girls often make mistakes that can scare a guy away.In most cases (depending on the nature of the man) you can not:
- talk about marriage and serious relationships;
- ask how many partners he had before you;
- talk about your sexual experience (in the sense: “But Petka and I…!”);
- compare him with others (“You are better and more resilient than so-and-so” - you will agree, a dubious compliment);
- insist that he say if he liked it (if - yes, do not hesitate - he will show it with all his looks).
After everything has happened, do not impose on the guy, but also do not pretend that you are indifferent to the outcome of his decision about your subsequent meetings.
If he wants to leave
First you need to remind him how good it was for you all the time that you were together. You should not accompany words with hysteria, violent emotions, sobs, etc. All this can cause irritation and your conversation will end quickly.
A sincere smile generated by memories, light strokes on the hand and selection in the story important points- that's all it takes for a guy to think about whether he should lose you.
Be sure to find out in a conversation what exactly does not suit him in you and your relationship, convince him that you are ready to change. After that, most likely, he will give your future a second chance.
younger than myself
Remember a few rules:
Older than myself
No matter what the difference in your age, if you do not diversify yourself, then he will most likely become bored with you sooner or later. Learn last news, be interested in his work, the health of his parents, ask him to teach you something that he is good at, etc.
BUT! Never try to show such a man that you are smarter, you don’t need to teach him life, “nag”, argue.
If you disagree with him on some issue, sit down and talk calmly, but you need to do it carefully (“Darling, don’t be mad at me, but I don’t understand why you think so ...”).
During the conversation, you can give your arguments, and in the end, maybe you will be able to convince him if you yourself have not yet agreed with him.
Don't be selfish
Accept his lifestyle too. Do not think only about your desires, dreams and habits, because there are two of you. Look for compromises, make concessions, but do not completely forget about yourself.
Create home comfort 
By the time he comes home from work, put things in order in the apartment, cook a delicious dinner, put yourself and your children in order. If he came in a bad mood, support and encourage him.
Show your love. Don't skimp on pleasant words, caresses, tenderness, and then your man will wait impatiently for the moment when he returns home to his beloved woman.
Try to match his ideal woman
But at the same time remain a mystery. This applies to behavior, and your attitude towards him, and family position, and, of course, appearance. Do not consider the changes that need to be made for the sake of your beloved guy as humiliating, because this is all just for your happiness.
BUT! do not forget about the very zest that should remain in every woman - do not bend completely, otherwise you will become too predictable for him, and he will lose interest in you.
Experiment with sex
Intimate life for a man is far from unimportant. So surprise, delight, intrigue, excite, excite him.
If he is interested in you in bed, the likelihood that he will look "to the left" is minimized.
The most cunning women can even manipulate their partner through sex. Not in the sense of: “Give it to you,” but in that sense: you did it nicely - you can hint at something. During periods of bliss, men are very malleable.
Know how to quarrel 
Try to control yourself: do not say hurtful things, do not try to insult or humiliate your partner, do not call names and do not provoke him to do so. If you feel that you are on the verge of a breakdown, it is better to go into a room and ask to be allowed to calm down a bit.
Communicate but don't annoy
If suddenly he needs to leave somewhere for a relatively long time, you do not need to call him very often. However, you need to periodically remind yourself of yourself, because it is quite difficult to keep a guy at a distance. It is very important to do it correctly: to be unobtrusive, playful, intriguing.
So, for half a day, you can periodically send gentle SMS to him, then suddenly the abyss: your boyfriend will get worried and will definitely call back to find out if everything is in order with you.
Alternatively, you can send him your photos (possibly of an erotic nature). When talking on the phone, be an interesting conversationalist. You don’t need to talk all the time for 10 minutes about how much you miss him and how much you love him.
Video: How to keep a man forever
In the relationship of many couples, such a difficult period comes when one of the partners begins to think about parting. If it so happened that your chosen one turned out to be such a "thinking", but you yourself do not want a break, then try to take some steps to preserve or renew his feelings.
When the relationship is on the verge, how to keep the man you love
Aries man
Representatives of this sign are very extraordinary, and boredom or routine in a relationship can push them away. You should diversify your joint leisure time, while avoiding obsession and reproaches. Also remember that Aries have a weakness for strong and successful women, and if you are one, then probably the man will not leave you. If you often turn to him for help, then Aries will perceive such behavior as a sign of weakness, and this will not do you any good. Such a man likes to achieve a woman, so it is important sometimes to be a little out of reach, to make him doubt that you are subdued by him. As we have already mentioned, representatives of this sign like diversity, and this applies not only to leisure, but also to your behavior, external sight and so on. Try to be different more often, and then you will definitely be interesting to your chosen one.Taurus man
Taurus do not like to rush things, so there is no need to rush in relations with them. They also do not like it when they share their impressions of other men with them, because they like devoted women - they do not like to be jealous. In addition, they are flattered when their opinion is listened to. If conflicts arose in your relationship, then think about whether you took the decision of many significant decisions on yourself. Wanting to maintain a harmonious relationship with a representative of this sign, be more often interested in his hobbies, praise him and support him. For the most part, they do not like it when their chosen one looks defiant or vulgar - pay attention to this.Twin man
Basically, twin men attach significant importance to a rich sex life. It is also important for him that there are topics for conversation with his beloved, therefore, the more “enlightened” you are, the brighter your relationship will be. Surely, such a man will appreciate if there is a place for flirting and light intrigue in your relationship. It is important to understand that a twin is easier to attract than to keep. If you diversify your sex life and leisure, it will be much easier to do this. Also try not to limit his freedom.Cancer man
The representative of this sign is very vulnerable and sensitive. Remember that he reacts painfully to criticism and jokes about any of his features. He is most comfortable with a practical and thrifty woman. In addition, he appreciates tenderness and attentiveness in the representatives of the opposite sex. This sign can be called very family, and he takes the choice of the chosen one quite seriously - often his mother turns out to be a guide in this difficult matter for him. Most likely, he will appreciate the thriftiness of a woman - it is important for him that the house is clean, and there is a fresh dinner on the stove.Lion man
Most of all, representatives of this sign do not accept criticism of their actions. Leos love to be the center of attention, and they like active and energetic women. However, the man must see that he remains the leader in your relationship. He likes it when women show admiration for him. Do not limit his freedom - he will undoubtedly appreciate it.Man maiden
Virgo men are very vulnerable, and do not accept when their chosen one shows at least some interest in other guys. He likes partnerships. He also appreciates when his help or participation in any business is noticed and thanked for it. Representatives of this sign like to have intellectual conversations, and if you are strong in this, then, for sure, you will remain interesting to your chosen one. Among other things, it is important for a Virgo man that his partner is clean - otherwise, conflicts can occur on this basis.Libra man
Libra man prefers strong and at the same time gentle women. It is also essential for him how his chosen one looks - her appearance must be impeccable, without any hint of slovenliness - a person who decides to connect her life with such a man should take this moment into account. In addition, if you want to maintain a relationship with him, you should be more tolerant of his mood swings, and remember that he does not accept moral pressure.scorpion man
In order to keep your partner interested in a relationship, you should consider that he is attracted to women by mystery and intriguing behavior. Modest and shy women are less interesting to him. It is also important to remember that a scorpion is vulnerable, although it tries to hide it. It is important for him that his chosen one be sexually attractive and periodically be active in seducing him. Scorpio needs to show compassion in his affairs, but at the same time not be overly intrusive. Remember that he appreciates frankness and does not tolerate hysteria in women.Ophiuchus man
A distinctive feature of Ophiuchus is the craving for change, and if his companion does not share his interests, then this relationship will probably run out of steam pretty quickly. It is also worth noting that representatives of this special sign are very quick-tempered and, at times, can be very aggressive, so they are not on the way with women prone to scandalous behavior.Sagittarius man
This man does not like to talk much about what he feels, so do not demand eloquence from him in this regard - it is easier for him to demonstrate his attitude with actions. Keep in mind that he does not like overly emotional women too much - if you have such a character trait, over time it will begin to repel him. He likes people who are easy-going and do not suffer from excessive complexes. It is important to remember that he does not like it when a woman clearly encroaches on his freedom. In addition, he appreciates in the chosen one the ability to demonstrate affection and care - otherwise the relationship will deteriorate.Capricorn man
This man is often very restrained in expressing his feelings - consider this feature and do not reproach him for it. He can be repulsed by critical remarks about his loved ones, and this is also important to remember. He does not like women who are characterized by defiant behavior and also extravagance - he is more attracted to modesty and simplicity. When choosing a life partner, he pays attention to her housekeeping and maternal qualities.Aquarius man
Aquarius can be repulsed by a woman who will try to control him. At the same time, it is important for him that his chosen one could be for him good friend. He does not like unnecessary talk about feelings, and in a woman he can be attracted by mystery and brightness. He likes independent women who have their own opinion.Pisces man
Having entered into a relationship with a fish man, remember that this sign is highly sensitive and vulnerable, and it is important for him to take this into account. If a woman does not show obvious concern for him, he may equate this with indifference. Such a man often "flies in the clouds", forgetting about the material side of life. He likes mysterious and romantic women.Ways to keep a guy in a long distance relationship
Invisible Presence Even though you are far apart, young man you should feel that at least invisibly you are present in his life. How can this be done? In the era social networks And mobile phones it's not difficult at all. wish him Good morning, Good night, be interested in his affairs, share news from your life. Thus, the feeling gradually takes root in him that you are even closer to him than those people whom he sees daily. Photo, video Send your lover your photos and videos from time to time. These messages should evoke positive emotions in him. Choose your best shots, also pay attention to your appearance before shooting a video. The guy should see that you miss him, but at the same time you have your own bright life in which you "sparkle" like a star. In your situation, a little jealousy won't hurt. Thus, over time, you will not think about how to keep him, but he will be afraid that such a bright girl will not go to another.
How to keep a man close for life
If you are convinced that this man is exactly the one you need, and you would like to spend your whole life with him, then pay attention to some tips. Conquer and hold by winning his heart Surely, the guy whose heart will be conquered by you will not want to leave you under any circumstances. If you can find an approach to him and fall in love with yourself, then this gives you some guarantee that he will not wish for any other relationship with other women. To do this, you need to carefully study the character and nature of the chosen one - this is the only way you can "pick up the right keys" to his heart. Hold a man with the power of your love Many men are so in need of love that, even without experiencing similar strong feelings for a woman, they are ready to stay with her for the rest of their lives, not believing that someone else will love him so desperately. This is especially applicable to guys who felt the lack of motherly love in their childhood. If he sees that you love him like no one else, then even if it comes into his head to “look to the left”, he will still return to you. Conquer with magic if he wants to leave If a man wants to break off relations, try to resort to the help of magic. Many women are convinced that this is what helped them save their marriage. You can find the corresponding spell on the Internet, or you can turn to some fortune-teller for help. However, remember that some people later regret such a decision, believing that by doing so they caused unnecessary problems for themselves. Hold on to family ties It is easier for a man to leave the girl he is dating than from his lawful wife. Sometimes, the decisive factor can be banal laziness - unwillingness to mess with divorce papers and so on. In addition, by marrying a woman, a man subconsciously feels that he has made one of the most serious choices in his life, and tries to stick to it. Hold, having given birth to a common child Not everyone approves of such "female tricks", and yet it's hard not to admit that, at times, they still turn out to be very effective. In the minds of most men, the opinion is rooted that if a woman gave birth to a baby for him, now they real family and it's not good to leave your family. However, remember that not all males are of this opinion, and if you decide to have a child on your own, it is possible that you will have to deal with raising him alone. Maintain relationships by having a common business, property, credit Often, men do not want to break off relations with a woman due to the fact that they have too much in common. Unfortunately, we are not always talking about love feelings, and often everything is much more prosaic - a loan or common property, however, if you want to keep a partner at any cost, this method may also suit you.Is it possible to keep the man you like after sex
This is quite possible with the following factors:- He really enjoyed sex with you. If in the eyes of a man you turn out to be just an ideal sexual partner, then even if he did not initially plan any relationship with you, he will probably reconsider his decision. For many men, sex plays a big role in life, and it is important for them that a woman meets their expectations in this regard. If you succeed, then, of course, the chosen one will not want to part with you. He is in love with you. If a man was originally in love with you, even before it happened intimacy, then, most likely, sex will only tie him to you even more, even if he turned out to be not what the chosen one expected.
Is it worth keeping a man if he doesn't love you
Many women ask themselves this question, and sooner or later they nevertheless come to the conclusion that it is very difficult to be happy in a relationship with a man who constantly needs to be kept somehow. Thus, you will constantly be in tension, which sooner or later will turn into stress or depression. Agree, in such a state, personal happiness and spiritual harmony are very doubtful. Most likely, you are painfully dependent on this person and in fact, you are simply wasting time with him. It makes sense to break this connection and direct your energy towards finding a person with whom your feelings and attraction to each other will be mutual. Also think about your self-esteem - is it underestimated for you, is it worth working on it. A woman with healthy self-esteem still understands that she deserves to be loved and that her relationship with a man is complete. When you learn to treat yourself with respect, then you will have the strength to break the connection that torments you.
Trite, but the fact that achieving goals is not easy. Sometimes you have to invest so much in achieving your one and only, most important, as it seems to us at that moment, goal, that everything else simply ceases to exist. And when we have achieved this goal.
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Recall, for example, how we got on the scales and saw the desired result there after a long diet. Isn't it an exciting feeling? But often we forget about simple rule: the achieved result must be reinforced, at least from time to time to support, otherwise all our efforts will be in vain.
It's the same with men. Having met our Prince, having interested him, having established excellent promising relationships with him, we are so happy that we are ready to sacrifice almost everything for the sake of these relationships. So why not donate? For a loved one - anything! And we devote as much time to our beloved as he needs, often to the detriment of our own hobbies and interests, which are becoming less and less, and the social circle is narrowing until it is closed to one single person. Why do you need someone else? After all, things seem to be going to the wedding ...
So let's try to figure out what mechanisms make a man cool off towards a once beloved woman. Having understood them, as well as putting into practice the tips below, you will be able to build relationships that are beneficial to you and only you, and always remain the "number one object" for your man.
So why do men get cold?
First, every person has an inherent desire for novelty. But if women satisfy him by buying new boots or dyeing their hair, men, subjugators and conquerors by nature, seek novelty in relationships.
Secondly, the conquering instinct plays an important role. It cannot be canceled, it can be played along. (See below for how to do this.)
Thirdly, the importance of a woman falls because of her accessible behavior. There are people with whom you can communicate whenever you want - they are available, but there are more "scarce", the availability of which is a matter of chance. Who would they prefer to communicate with first?
As you know, for every action there is a reaction. Got cold? We will tie to ourselves so that it will be like a manual! Let's increase our importance in his eyes.
To do this, you will have to make some changes in yourself - to become exactly the kind of girl that he will not get tired of loving - strong, independent, successful and even a little bitchy. Well, what can you do, it is known that only one loves, and the other allows himself to be loved ... And, if you are ready for an endless stream of his love, do a little - let him love you.
1. Cause fear of loss
Keep it tight. This is how you build your value. You dear! You are in short supply!
Try to play with him in such a game: "Closer - further." For some time to be with him very nice and good, and then - once! - and disappear. Makes an appointment - "No, I can't today", calls - you are not at home, and if you are at home, then "oh, there is no time, I'm sorry."
Deadlines may vary. If you meet every day, then a week of such separation will confuse him. Just what you need! .. If once a week - let it be boring for a month. Set the period of separation so that, on the one hand, it goes beyond the framework you have accepted, and on the other, there is no reason for him to think that you have broken up. Let him get bored. He will puzzle over your behavior. And imagine his emotions at a meeting!
2. Constantly create competition for yourself
Let him know he's not the only one. Never force yourself on him. To do this, you need to have a choice, a choice of those people to whom you can turn (with whom to talk, go for a walk, etc.), if He refuses, so as not to force him, not to be imposed. Better to punish. After. "Darling, could you come, I need to move the closet. Not today? Okay, don't bother, I'll ask Misha." Rush like on wings!
Around you there should be men no worse than him, who are interested in you. He must understand that many people want you, but only he gets it. This, combined with your "temporary coldness" and fear of losing you, is a great motivation to win such a woman again and again.
Be playful. Set yourself up in a flirtatious way - without this, no game will bring results. Play, you're a woman! And women are given this by nature ... The internal state of coquetry is the desire to please men, plus confidence in one's own appearance(and it is not necessary to do a haircut in the salon for this) and plus openness, that is, the desire to perceive signs of attention. We create this state (and a cute half-smile and a slightly sly gleam in the eyes already appear) - and go! Enjoy the game!
Be generous - give out smiles, warm looks, small compliments, short touches, and you will see that the attention of most men is focused on you.
3. Expand your social circle and have a hobby
The most common mistake women make is to give up their hobbies for the sake of a loved one.
Men rarely do this. So it turns out, he is passionate about something, he develops, and you stand still. So it really can be boring, who likes to communicate with a limited and obsessed (even if very loving) person? ..
Find yourself an exciting hobby. The emergence of your favorite business will give you a lot: it will bring your knowledge to a new level (how nice it is to be a professional in something!), Expand your circle of friends (there may be a lot of interesting men- what scope for creating competition!), you will always have something to do - your independence will increase. And serious engagement in your favorite work leads to natural personal growth. Professional in his field - always interesting person. He needs to see that you are a successful woman who is passionate about something else besides him! And that you are not ready to sacrifice this for him!
So, doing an interesting thing and putting your energy into it, you get:
Independence and purposefulness: you have your own interesting business and your own goal. By striving for your goal, you increase your originality. New knowledge: it is interesting, pleasant to communicate with you. You are evolving, not standing still. New acquaintances: competition increases. You are interesting not only to him, but also to others. He will have to be on his toes so that someone doesn't take you away. He will know - step to the right, step to the left - and he will lose you. All his thoughts will be only about you. And there will be no time for another!
4. Program the future
Do not think, this is not from the field of extrasensory perception. Although somewhere very close, because these techniques are not noticed by conscious attention, and therefore are very effective.
You need to give him support for planning a joint future. Therefore, as many joint rituals as possible. For example, you spend every Sunday evening together. And nothing else. Let a persistent habit be developed, and if he ever cannot spend this evening with you, be sure that he will feel guilty. You can come up with a lot of rituals: watch a couple in love - they have a lot built on rituals. It is very useful to make plans together: for a week, for a month, for a vacation ("Let's go to the cinema this week?", "Let's go to the sea in the summer!", etc.).
But when making joint plans, keep a sense of proportion. Avoid open language about marriage and children, these are dangerous topics. As S. Gorin said: " The best way get rid of a twenty-year-old guy - say that you dream of giving birth to him. The best way to bind a thirty-year-old to yourself is to say the same thing. "So choose according to the situation. But this way of programming his behavior is especially effective with a short "experience" of relationships. Formulate your wish and insert it into the conversation in the form of a small self-characteristic. For example, "I love it when they give me flowers", or "I really like unexpected gifts", or "I am pleased when a man praises me", "I will never forget the person who brings me coffee in bed". He will certainly do all this take into account.
5. Intrigue and not reveal yourself fully
Does he think he knows you by heart? Well, now you can prove otherwise!
To intrigue means to generate a lot of questions in his head regarding you and your relationship, and hopes for answers.
Interest is a powerful tool that makes his thoughts return to you and the topic that you will touch on again and again. Skillfully use this tool, come up with your own unexpected solutions, and first, use the recipes below:
Now you have all the tools not only to keep the man you need, but also for self-improvement. It remains only to start to ACT - and your goal will be achieved.
But sometimes, for no apparent reason or explanation, men leave us.
