Bad mood to understand whether you like it. How to know if a guy likes you

Any girl, having met a pretty and well-built guy, at least once asked herself the question: how to understand that a guy likes you? After all, if sympathy has appeared, interest will certainly arise, but does the potential chosen one experience similar feelings or is he completely not interested in you?

How to understand the true emotions and experiences of a man if he does not give any obvious signs and, at first glance, does not show his sympathy in any way? You need to conduct a simple attachment test, identify some characteristic signs that indicate male feelings and maybe just talk to him about it.

Revealing the interest of a teenager or a guy is not an easy task. Indeed, many of them are not eager to show their emotions to others, continuing to secretly dream of the girl’s favor, which, in turn, may very well not mind, but ... However, not everything is so bad, because hiding such a strong feeling as sympathy or falling in love, without showing any signs, almost impossible. We will help you learn to pay attention to these very signs that make it clear that a guy likes you and draw the right conclusions.

Sight

They say that the eyes are a reflection of our soul ... They say it right, because the guy will not miss the opportunity to see the girl he likes more often. Or just a dreamy look will stealthily admire the object of sighing.

The amorous inclinations of a man will give out his own look. A guy who knows or doesn't know you likes you if he:

• now and then strives to look in your direction, even when he is talking with other people;
• looks at you when he thinks you won't notice (but peripheral vision will help you out).

Another subtle, but obvious sign that a guy likes you is dilated pupils when looking at you. In individual situations, such “symptoms” indicate not only primary attraction, but also full-fledged love.

Communication

Try to take a closer look at his manner of communicating with you. The following signs will help you know if a guy likes you or not.

1. Check the "strength" of his look. Is eye contact maintained during communication, or does he continually strive to look anywhere but in your eyes? However, remember that shy guys can be embarrassed by a direct look, especially if he really likes you.
2. Pay attention to how easily he is distracted by other people who are nearby and stops the conversation he has begun. If, after another person has contacted him, he does not continue the conversation with you, or immediately answers the call, not allowing you to finish even a word, most likely, communication with you is far from the first place (the exception is the long-awaited and important call or a more relevant interlocutor in this situation).
3. To understand if a guy likes you, it is important to filter the content of your conversations as well. Hints, compliments, personal interest are also an important indicator of interest in a girl. Sympathy is evidenced by:

● light teasing and harmless banter;
● touching in a conversation personal problems(the information that is not shared with just anyone);
● compliments, hints, admiration and just nice words;
● asking questions about your relationship with your ex.

Gestures

How to understand if a guy likes me if he is not very talkative? Sometimes words are not so necessary to understand it. After all, you can watch the body language, which is no less willing to tell you about his feelings.

1. Leg put forward. First of all, such a stance testifies to the indecision that a guy experiences in the presence of a young lady who has liked him (thus he creates support). And secondly, the toe of the exposed leg - unconsciously points to the girl you like.
2. Every young man wants to appear stronger, taller, fitter and, in general, more successful next to a girl he likes. A kind of peacock from the world of people. Only instead of a tail, he tries to spread his shoulders as wide as possible, straighten his back and draw in his stomach, if any.
3. Another clear signal of a guy's sympathy is the involuntary duplication of your movements. For example, you straightened a strand of your hair - he unconsciously touches his hair, pulls out the phone - and he also reaches for the smartphone.
4. The position of the body in space when communicating with you will also indicate that the young man liked you. If during the conversation the guy is completely turned towards you, his arms and legs are not crossed, this indicates his openness, which means he will carefully listen to any nonsense. An even more obvious sign of sympathy is a slight lean in your direction when he says something to you.

Another important area where you can understand that a guy likes you is social networks. In correspondence with a girl he likes, the guy will try to joke more, be courteous, gallant and funny. Will subscribe and be added wherever he finds. In addition, he will appreciate many of your photos, and not only avatars, perhaps he will throw something interesting or funny on the wall. In general, it will show interest in your activity on the network. However, to draw conclusions only on communication in in social networks- is fraught with disappointment. It is better to make sure of the adequacy and transparency of intentions in a personal meeting.

Interest test

How to know if a guy likes you? In addition to the external signs that we discussed above, we can refer to more precise definitions of interest. young man to you. To do this, you will need to conduct some kind of "experiment". It is associated with direct interaction with you, and therefore sympathy will be more obvious.

"Sight"

This is more of a psychological test, requiring the attention of a handsome young man. Let's simulate the situation: you are sitting together at the table during the lunch break at work or at the university, you have a casual conversation. Now catch the guy's eye and immediately look at the phone, then look at him again. If a man also looked at your smartphone, and then back at you, this is another clear sign of sympathy.

"Request for help"

To understand how much a young person sympathizes with you, try breaking, say, a pencil and asking the guy you like to fix the situation by sharpening it (you can also "accidentally" break the lock on your purse). If a young man gets down to business without further ado, we can conclude that he likes you.

"Provocation"

The next test will require you to do a little bit of acting, but you won't go far to find out if a guy likes you or not. Come up with a banal but believable story about how you and your girlfriend were going to go to the premiere of a new movie (do not forget to read it), but in the end you were left without a company. If a young man likes you, he will offer himself in the place of his girlfriend without any hesitation.

Do not get too carried away with such testing, otherwise the guy may see through you and understand that you are conducting “experiments” on him. To be a guinea pig - few people like it.

How to understand if a man likes me?

It is much easier to find out about the attitude of an already mature man towards you, because his period of understatement and indecision has long been left behind, so he will not hide his intentions. If he liked you and aroused interest, then he will try to take the first step as quickly as possible.

How to understand that a man likes you? This question arises for most ladies after meeting with interesting person if you enjoy spending time with him. According to statistics, women who are hopelessly in love with members of the opposite sex are often subject to love experiences. The same category of women often most of all wants to know if they are liked by the men they feel sympathy for.

You can recognize signs of sympathy by facial expressions, looks, gestures and other behavioral features of the stronger sex. To discover all this, natural attentiveness is necessary.

Signs that a man likes you

How to understand that a young man sympathizes with a girl, if outwardly he does not show it? Male communication with a woman can actually tell a lot. Psychologists note a number of signs that help to understand that there is a certain male sympathy for a lady.

The most obvious sign of a good disposition of a man to a woman is an open smile. Through it, he sincerely demonstrates that he is glad to meet and ready for communication.

You can understand that a man likes you by gestures, paying attention to hand movements. If at a meeting he spreads his arms wide to the sides, then this means that he wants to hug the girl. Obvious signals of manifestation of male sympathy include touching the neck and one's hair, touching the shirt collar, and pointing the toes of the shoes towards the interlocutor.

In addition, evidence of male sympathy will be an unconscious copying of female gestures. Often, copying the gestures of a woman, a representative of the stronger sex wants to make a positive impression on the object of his interest. It will be a good sign if, during the conversation, the man is completely turned towards the woman. These signs include open gestures: loosening a tie, showing palms, unbuttoning the top buttons of a shirt. All these movements confirm that the interlocutor is comfortable in the company of this woman. Also, a reflection of interest includes attentive listening, accompanied by a slight tilt of the head towards the interlocutor.

You can easily talk about sympathy between a man and a woman if touches occur during communication. If a young man tries to touch a lady's hand when the opportunity arises, you can be sure of his sympathy. With this gesture, the partner unconsciously shows other representatives of the stronger sex that this woman is busy.

If during a walk a young man supports a lady by the elbow, hugs, this indicates his desire to take the woman under his protection.

Evidence of a man's sympathy is the manifestation of gallantry. For example, he gives a hand, skips ahead, helps to put on a coat. But this sign can also indicate a good upbringing. To confirm your guesses, you need to observe his behavior while communicating with other ladies. If the person of interest renders similar signs of attention to other ladies, then you should not attribute romantic overtones to his actions.

How to understand if a stranger likes you? This becomes obvious if he tries to meet as often as possible or seeks to systematically get into the field of view of his desired object.

A man wants to please if he tries to get attention through emotional conversation or other tricks. So he tries to stand out from the crowd, so that the girl for whom all this is intended will notice him, while he will periodically glance in the direction of his chosen one.

Alone with the object of his sympathy, the representative of the stronger sex will try to talk on a variety of topics, and he will replace awkward pauses with a radiant one. open smile. A clear sign of interest will be questions about preferences, hobbies, women's tastes, life in general.

How can you understand that a girl likes a man? If a man does not hesitate to look at a girl, then this indicates that she is interested in him. If a man is skeptical about the fair sex and says that he can’t meet the right girl in any way, then this probably implies that you are the right girl.

You can understand that a man likes you from a telephone conversation if the voice of the interlocutor is excited, polite, tactful, and it will help to recognize signs of sympathy by correspondence a large number of jokes nice words, emoticons.

It is important to remember that individual representatives of the stronger sex, not being able to express their sympathy and hiding their interest in every possible way, turn into rude people. Adult men can often hurt with caustic remarks and outright reproaches.

How to understand what you like married man? A man, who is next to the lady he likes, tries to look taller, and at this moment his body is slightly stretched upwards and tense. When talking, it is important to pay attention to his face, and if the eyebrows are slightly raised, expressing surprise, then this indicates sympathy.

During communication, you should also pay attention to the tone of the male voice, if the tone is measured, then this indicates interest. It is necessary to pay attention to whether the man keeps eye contact. If he holds, then this also indicates sympathy. It is required to focus on how he behaves if someone approaches him. If, after talking with other people, he immediately forgets what your conversation was about, then the girl is not so important to him. If a man admires appearance, makes compliments to the female mind, then this also speaks of deep interest. If the chosen one is interested in his personal life, carefully finds out all the information, then this is a sure sign that he has certain plans for the girl. If the lady catches male look on herself from head to toe, this indicates that the man admires her.

You can understand that a married man likes you by his body movements, which are also involved in the conversation. If a man often leans towards his lady to say something to her; if the body is turned towards her, then this is a sign of disposition and openness for communication.

If a man looks away when suddenly a woman notices that she is being looked at, then this is a sign of interest with a desire to hide this moment. sign good relationship pleasing in trifles, minor gifts, the provision of any kind of service, but frequent calls, messages and letters will testify to deep passion and love.

How to understand that a male colleague likes you? It is not difficult, it is only important to be able to distinguish the desire to flirt from sincere sympathy. A sign of sympathy for a colleague is the behavior of a man. A brave colleague, passing by a woman, can throw unambiguous glances and, as if by chance, touch her female hand. A modest colleague in love in the presence of an object of sympathy is often lost, behaves clumsily and awkwardly. He tends to be either overly active or overly restrained.

By applying female cunning, you can find out how much a colleague is interested in a female person. To do this, you need to ask for help and be alone. If a colleague is in love, then he will prove himself a hero. While the man is busy with business, you should start a conversation on neutral and abstract topics. You can start a conversation about a new exhibition, concert, film. Any man will understand such a hint, and if he has sympathy, he will take the opportunity to keep the lady company. If he does not have sympathy, then he will not take advantage of this situation.

Hello! I can’t understand my director’s attitude towards me, maybe you can clarify the situation. In general, everything is fine and within the normal range, we communicate at work, but there are times when I don’t understand, either this is elementary politeness, or his sympathy for me. He is married and I am single, and he knows it. He somehow unobtrusively tries to take care of me, helps in small things and is always very friendly with me and smiles. Please help me understand what it is.

Hello. I hope you respond to my comment. I like a man, he is 27. I am 20 and the age difference confuses me a little. He says that he "glues" me. (He works as a counselor) I said maybe he could find someone else. To which he replied, he is looking for a granny. (I just said that I'm 20 and I'm old) Na New Year invited me to his place, but I refused. When I meet, I hesitate to look at him. Once, he grabbed me by the collar of my shirt and hugged me. When meeting, he constantly hugs. He says that he likes me, but he does not write. I'm afraid that I'll let him in, and he will deceive me. Help

• Hello Anna. Whether this guy will deceive you or not, only time will tell. Any relationship is dynamic, and even if the guy likes you now, then everything can change after some time. Enjoy today and the moment, allow yourself to be happy.

Hello! I am 36. I have been married for almost 10 years. I have always been happy in my marriage. I had enough of my husband's love and the attention of strangers caused discomfort. But a few months ago, a young man called out to me. I left the courtyard of the house, and he called in. I had to stop to miss it. And instead of hurrying up, he asked: “Do you like coffee?” “Yes,” I replied. “I love coffee, but only in the morning and with my husband.” She smiled and left. In the evening I told my husband. We laughed. The man was nice, in a nice car. I liked that situation, so I remembered it. And everything would have remained just some kind of pleasant event, but I began to notice that same car. I began to wonder who the coffee lover comes to. It turned out that he was my upstairs neighbor. We periodically began to meet at the entrance, but every time he did and pretends that he sees me for the first time. I have a dog. When we run into him, and at that moment I am with a dog, he examines it, turns around, but does not raise his eyes to me. When I see him in his car, he looks at me. I can't stand that look and break eye contact first. Once it seemed to me that he suddenly saw me, got scared and left.

Hello! I like the downstairs neighbor, young, lonely, not stupid, we met when we got the keys to new apartment, my mother became the initiator of communication with him, at the first meeting he asked about me, what I am who I am, I didn’t directly ask anything like that (I’m 26, he’s 28), the first month after we moved, I often visited on weekends, for tea , but everything was limited only to conversations on general topics, repairs, moving, not a single hint of anything, but when I crossed paths with my mother on the street, he always asked about me, if I was at home, and so on, then he disappeared for two months, did not go into guests, showed up a couple of weeks ago, just came to visit like never before, we had a nice conversation on general topics, he invited me to visit him in the evening, show what furniture he chose, all conversations on general topics, and that’s all, I went to my place on the weekend I went to visit again, drank tea, talked on general topics, no hints of anything. I began to lure him with pies, pastries, I came with joy, I treated him, and that’s all, he is nice to me as a man, but I have never had such an experience with men, all the men I liked always showed signs attention, hug, joke, talk on personal topics, and this is the first time, I don’t believe in friendship between a man and a woman, so I can’t understand if he just comes next door or he likes me, but he’s either not in a hurry, or he has somebody. I never openly showed the first man that I liked him, the initiative was always from the man. From what I know about him: he has an older brother and sister, he loves his mother very much, in front of me he spoke very nicely to her on the phone and called her “mommy” (but my mother lives in another city, I don’t see her often) , lives alone, was not married, very independent, bought an apartment himself, moved, did repairs and other things himself, did not see him with women. Friends advise to take everything into their own hands, but he does not look like an insecure man, he is purposeful, accomplished in my opinion.

When he comes to visit, I always meet with a smile, I say that I am glad to see him.

Hello! I am 25! Could you help me! I can't quite understand! I have a man at work who is 33, I liked him! But I don't understand it! I constantly catch his eye on me, I notice that sometimes he tries to be where I am! For some time we corresponded, talked about interests, about work, about family, he shared with me about his ex-wife! But live conversation does not stick at all, and if something needs to be decided at work, then he tries to take a step and leave, or starts to get nervous and aggressive! What does it all mean?
Thank you

• He really likes you ... therefore, he is nervous when talking or even leaves so as not to spoil everything! Take the first step yourself, in the sense of making fun, start different conversations on any topic, and make him feel comfortable around you, you'll see, as soon as this fear of spoiling everything goes away, he will open up to you!

the man paid attention for a long time, but did not take the first step at all. In the end, I waited and waited and did not wait. Then he kind of shut himself off from me.
when we saw each other, he even stopped looking at me, did not say anything to me, and when he greeted me he looked at the floor.
liked to hit something
but all this was replaced by the fact that he was worried why I was without a hat in such weather, whether I would freeze - as if by chance

and I'm confused, I don't know how to behave

what can you say about all this?

Hello. I'm 21. There was only one relationship. Free now. Came to visit a friend. She lives with her brother. He is 3 years younger than me. At first they didn't communicate. And then somehow it got better. And we could sit and talk for hours. Basically, he came when he saw me and told me different stories from his life. I listened to him, laughed, it was interesting. So we started talking more often. She noticed that he was staring into her eyes. Often catches my eye. During a conversation, especially if I say something, then he looks very carefully and intently into his eyes, I try not to look away and also look. And then I feel like I can't stop watching. It's like a special atmosphere. Over time, she began to notice that during a conversation she straightens her hair, touches her neck and arm, even pulled her socks up. We got hooked on coffee bags and when he went to the store, he bought them for me. It was nice. Then we often fooled around with him. When I was in a bad mood, he tried to support, asked about my family, personal life. And he himself gave quite personal information about his family and previous relationships, although I did not ask. Once I was going to the store, got up from the stool, and he put his hand on my shoulder and sat me back, saying that he would come with me. And in the end, he often put his hand on my shoulder. When we walked side by side, he seemed to touch me with his body, even in the store he put his hand on my shoulder when he said something. Then I noticed, as it were, random touches. When we were talking again, he touched my elbow, when he passed me and I had to move away, he touched my side lightly. When I sat down next to show the video legs. When the bracelet broke, he directly took my hand and began to repair it, and then he was like this: he didn’t take it off. And then he took it off his hands and fixed it. When he passed something, took it from my hands, it was as if he touched it on purpose. Still so looked at the same time again intently. He said that with people like me, he can behave naturally and be himself. He noticed in the character what others did not notice. He seems to see right through me. There was such an atmosphere ... When I look at him, it’s as if there is some kind of connection. But. He has a girlfriend who he recently started dating. And once he said that he was in a hurry. What is good with her, but when she is near he wants to leave, and when she is not there, he wants to meet her, communicate, and so on. I understand the story is very long. But I want to understand: is it friendly sympathy or something more?

• Hello Maria. Male psychology is such that men are experimenters by nature, who eventually have a desire to diversify their own existence. The stronger sex is very flattered by the attention from the representatives of the opposite sex, and the presence of a permanent relationship is not a hindrance to this. To understand - friendly sympathy or something more, you can eventually, if the guy decides to look after you.

  Hello Maria. To understand this, you need to step back a little, deprive him of the opportunity to be with you. After looking at his reaction, you will understand everything yourself. If you like him, tell him that you can't see him that often, it's not good for his girlfriend. Then he will make his choice. A man, losing something important, will strive to win it. And, having spent certain efforts on this, he will cherish and be afraid to lose.

  Most likely more! Otherwise, he wouldn’t have opened up like that, especially with the fact that he hurried with his girlfriend ... give him time, right now he’s just confused ...

Hello. I have a fatal situation. Familiar, the entrance to the house. When we remain united, it burns, when a rock is straight with someone. We constantly correspond, see each other often, but I can’t understand him. We are both not alone.

Hello! I need help ... 9 months ago we broke up with a man (he thought I was jealous of him and hung up). After almost 4 months, I myself called him. Since then, sometimes I call, we communicate about everyone and everything, but not about our relationship. He helped me buy equipment for the house, helped with the child. But he doesn't call. Recently asked for help with furniture. Agreed. How to evaluate his behavior? Does he want our relationship back? We dated for almost 4 years. And we are already over 40 ...

Hello, I’m an adult girl, but I can’t fully understand if he likes me?!) Six months ago, there were no actions on his part, we work together, and now he’s even trying to touch me. Passing by me will touch either a chair or me. The other day, he took me around the waist, removing his hands, quickly left him, did not expect this. Explain what it is?!) P.S. I really like him. Thank you.

• And what is his look? What words does he say??? Does he do any nice things??? Type of protection, help in something, compliments, gestures ... for more details, write

Hello! I got into a bit of a weird situation. IN last days one friend began to write every day, to be interested in how I am. We seemed to communicate normally before, I generally listen to all my acquaintances with pleasure, but to write every day. I respect this person for certain reasons, but this is not love. He is married and has a child. He says that I am his good friend and acquaintance, he was glad to meet me. Calls always kind, smart, beautiful. Maybe I'm worrying in vain and maybe it's true out of a purely friendly gesture, he writes and says something like that. It's just that I would not want to be in an awkward situation, especially since this is one of my former teachers from foreign language courses.

• Hello Lada. Write to a friend about your feelings and doubts directly “I would not want to be in an awkward situation”, the situation will immediately clear up for you.

  • • Good afternoon, Svetlana. You're right. The topic covered in this thread is not psychological problem. If you want to understand the attitude of a representative of the opposite sex towards yourself, it is not a difficult task for a mature person.

Hello. Tell me please, I would really like to know ... My friend looks at me, but as soon as I notice this, he immediately looks away. When communicating, he looks from his eyes to my lips. How can all this be assessed?

Hello. Thoughts about my colleague's sympathy for me began to creep into my head. We are constantly fooling around like children, and if someone sees us, he will definitely say “ kindergarten! All the time he tries to hurt me with a word, to say something not the most pleasant, it got to the point that we (as a joke, of course) begin to pinch each other, he pulls my hair and my jacket, spanked me several times and pinched my buttocks .. And several times he scolded me for not picking up the phone, of course during working hours, we don’t communicate outside of work, we also dine separately. The fact is that he is married, of course I have little experience, but it seems to me that a married man should not behave like this towards a colleague. I would not say that I feel sympathy for him as a man, but our jokes help make the work process not so boring or something. Maybe there is no subtext, and a young man (30 years old) is also trying to somehow escape from working days?

Tell me if these are signs that I like you or it seems to me.??? In general, my intuitions have always been completely ok (I'm a scorpion), but in this case I don't trust myself - I like this friend too much. We work together, he works with us recently, but I know him for a long time, he worked in our company, but in a different department, now he works with us. he is not the biggest boss, but big, he is turned on ethics, subordination and in general he wants to be right, he always has attention and me too, so romance at work is dangerous and not what he and I need. he is gallant and well-mannered, so I do not pay attention to manifestations of politeness and constant compliments ... But there are signs that make me think-1. blushes when we meet alone, one day I unexpectedly went into his office, he looked at me with absolutely furious eyes, I asked if I could come in, he was dumbfounded silent, I had to go in without permission, I don’t know what he was doing there, maybe he was sleeping? Then I kind of woke up and began to do what I asked, only very jerkily - instead of just looking at my calendar, I turned the whole computer to me - I won’t go to it anymore. He always smiles widely, radiantly, and quietly, and even I would say gently greet - although he never complained about his voice - moreover, every time he greets me more and more quietly, and on Friday he generally switched to a whisper. whispered - hello Svetlana - I'm in shock, I'm not sure that someone else greeted me like that. True, I, too, can only smile in response, because my throat is constricting and I’m afraid to squeak in response, so I don’t answer anything at all and just smile. 2 I see so many random meetings all the time I don’t have anyone I decided to check - I stood in the corridor and talked with colleagues - I passed by five times. - I thought that usually his route does not lie quite there. 3 Talks to me quietly with my colleagues, neighs like a horse in front of me, jokes with my friends - not with me - only smiles. He tends to joke a little patronizingly - for example, giving his assistant giving her sweets - do not eat too much, your stomach will hurt, with my colleague, my closest colleague suddenly became best friend - the bonjour Michael (my colleague of French origin) will not pass by him without sharpening his hair and comment on his beard, nothing like that ever happened to me, she dyed her hair bright red - only the lazy one didn’t tell me anything about this, only he wouldn’t be with me it's better to be kind. 4 agrees with me and often says “that he too” for example - my supervisor, his subordinate, says - here Svetlana loves India here, he was delighted talking about me too - although no one asked him, he recently spoke in colors about his difficult past - he worked for a long time in the same position as me and was engaged in the same group as me. Although I see that indeed our points of view largely coincide and our assessments of the situation are similar .. And people have already begun to notice this ... I say this crap should be reduced by 2 cm, he comes - he says - it's better to reduce this crap by 2 centimeters. so ... In group disputes, he always supports me, especially when they press me - although this may not be an indicator, just maybe I'm always right)). Our meetings with him always drag on for 2 hours instead of the planned 30 minutes, I am pleased to talk with him, there is a suspicion that the rest of the people are dying for him too - when will they shut up?! :)) 5 when we are just starting group communication and I come or he comes - at the first moment he doesn’t look at me at all as if I don’t exist - everyone is already looking at me, but not him, when I already directly address him - gives me his embarrassed smile and finally starts talking to me - I must say not the last person in the company - why should he ignore me ?? this is what annoys me. He did not successfully joke at my expense, I said behind his back, thinking that he had already left - what kind of ignore is this? But he apparently heard the file that he was going to send to my leader - he sent it to me and put my leader in a copy - why react so sharply to women's whims ?? Where is his business ethics? 7 When he thinks they don’t see him, he has a very hard expression on his face and he slouches a little, but in my presence I can say that he is an absolute darling and his back is absolutely straight. I don’t talk about the strange tasks that he sends me with enviable regularity through my supervisor, because, perhaps, they only seem strange to me - in fact, perhaps they contain a huge strategic meaning that I can’t understand with my almost failed mind. I like him, that's why I can't always control myself and I also understand and unconsciously signal that I like him, maybe I provoke him myself, although no one has told me yet, thank God, which is noticeable that I like him. What kind of person he is - he is emotional, I suppose that he is a bit of an adventurer, he freely shows his desires for what he likes and dislikes, he loves to give advice, but he is a very well-organized person, smart and quite pragmatic, he is an adult, but we have a difference in aged not akhtung-6 years, although I'm sure he thinks that I'm younger. In general, lately I have been going to work as if it were a holiday! :)) so what would you say?

Hello, why did an unfamiliar man look intently, for a long time and often into his eyes, and when his eyes met, he did not look away? I constantly felt his gaze. And when they met by chance, he blushed and walked away, trying not to look into his eyes.

Hello. I like one colleague who is not free, he thinks that I am also not free. We often meet, but we didn’t talk much, it seems to me that he always looks at me appraisingly. Recently he came to my office and we talked for at least 10 minutes mainly about me, more precisely about my other places of work. During the conversation, I tried to transfer the conversation to him, such as where you worked, etc. It seemed to me that we talked so well, but on the same day I met him in a place where we usually met and ... he saw me (I’m sure he saw me) turned his back on me and pretended to communicate with colleagues, but didn’t see me . Could this be an indication that the person has lost interest? Did I scare him? Thank you in advance for your response.

Hello, I am 14 years old.
It was written in your article that if a guy escorts home, then he is interested in it, and so a similar situation with my classmate is just on the way and he often goes home with me.
My friend also says that he looks at me during the lesson, although he sits behind me and I think not at me, but at the blackboard. Even from the 2nd to the 4th grade, he pissed me off, then pulling my braid, then kicking my chair, and in the 5th grade he changed dramatically and became friendly and even supportive in difficult times.
Due to the fact that we often communicate both in the classroom and at breaks, our classmate asked me right in front of him if I liked him, and I replied: “Are you crazy? Of course not, I'm not interested in such stupid things like love. (I was 12 then), but he did not react in any way and simply kept silent, but did not stop communicating with me, but on the contrary, he would tell me in class, or treat me with a treat.
I'm not stressed by our relationship, but I don't know if I like him, and if he likes me?
Help please, as an adult child.

Hello. There is a boy in my yard, he is a year younger than me, I like him, his behavior shows that he can like me too. After all, he always finds a moment to touch me somehow, to play a joke (but not offensively), in general, he treats me differently than all other girls. But this boy likes another girl from our yard, and in comparison with me, he constantly laughs at her and does not seem to notice her, but on the contrary he notices me and treats me much better. There were moments when he had a choice of whom to sit closer to me or to another girl, and he sat down next to me, also clinging. And when I fell, he helped me get up, when I couldn’t climb a tree, he helped me by holding out his hand. Of course, I think that he likes me and to check this I want to hug him before leaving, since we have never hugged before. Do you think it's worth confessing your sympathy to him, or is it better to wait a little more when he does this?

• Hello Yana. It would be better to wait, boys like to conquer girls. Confessing - you can scare the boy away from you, he may lose interest, because the male sex at a young age is afraid to show his weaknesses in the form open manifestation sympathy.

Good afternoon My name is Tatyana, I am 28 years old. I am married and my husband is 19 years older than me. We have been together for 7 years, no children. I love him, he also loves me very much, he is ready for anything for me. Before, I didn’t look at other men at all, but after a long separation from my husband 2 years ago, I seemed to be broken. Since then, I freely flirt with men, but it never came to a concrete love affair. A year ago I met with a classmate, he got a job with my husband (he is the head of the security department). Now we see each other periodically. Before, at the school, we didn’t really communicate, he wasn’t interesting to me at all, but now I like it, but it’s so good that I dream from time to time, I’m already afraid not to speak in a dream. In general, the bottom line is that I got the feeling that the relationship with my husband has become obsolete (and I have sympathy for this guy. Usually I feel if a man likes me, but I would like to know for sure, I’m still married. In general, I’ll tell you about his behaviour:
Yesterday I needed to talk to him on a very delicate topic: a friend is depressed from unrequited love, I asked if he had unmarried friends. His first response was:
- Do you want to marry me?
“No,” I say, “I don’t want to marry you!”
Gradually we moved on to the question of why he is single (my age). To which he replied that he had too many requests.
All the time from the moment of the meeting, he did not stop smiling, looked at me point-blank, approached at a distance of 40 centimeters, no more. I know him from school, he is always positive, so I'm at a loss. During the conversation, he first smoked, then put his hands in his pants pockets and did not get them out.
Help please understand the degree of his sympathy.

Hello!
My name is Natasha, I am 30 years old, married, my son is 5.6 years old. I met a divorced man 40 years old, by chance, at a meeting with classmates. I won’t say that I don’t love my husband, no, I love and am faithful to him, even though he is rude to me, he even raised his hand before. But in dealing with this man, his name is Sasha, I realized that I liked him as a man. I used to be able to flirt with men, but I never went beyond flirting. But this time it's different. I understand people quite well, not only based on my conclusions, the profession forces me (I am a neuropathologist-psychotherapist), I helped many friends save their families. I see and see well that this man also liked me, even at the first meeting, and he himself told me this directly. He was married, 2 children from marriage, did not leave them, which speaks of decency, but also affection for his ex-wife ... He wants to continue our communication ... But I can’t decide whether I need it or not. But I know for sure that I really want new feelings. I ask for advice!

• Hello Natasha. The code of ethics of a psychologist forbids giving advice to a client, since any advice is a decision from the point of view of the person who gives this advice. Advice is an instruction, an indication of what to do, based on personal experience including complexes and prejudices.
  No one knows better than you what to do. Only you know all the features of your situation.

Hello, my name is Nastya, I'm 14. There is a boy in my yard (a year older than me), when I started walking in the yard we didn't communicate so well, but then after a while we got into a very good conversation. We have been talking every evening for a year now, I like him, but I don’t know if he likes me. There was such a case when he shouted at me and my girlfriend in anger, well, we were offended and left the gazebo, I am an emotional person and therefore burst into tears. But in the evening at 23 (as usual at this time we start chatting) he sent a huge letter of apology. And there is another boy in our yard (he is a year younger than me) and I think that he likes me because when we ran he ran and slapped on the fifth point. And when we watched a video with a friend, he lay down on my knees to see what we were watching. I don't know who can like it, help me figure it out.

Hello!!! I like one guy, he is 4 years older than me (I'm 18). I've never had a boyfriend, so I don't really understand. he jokes all the time, mocks, calls him plump, black, funny, strange, clumsy, and so on (everything in an affectionate version, a smile on his face, as if he gets pleasure from it). All the time he lifts up, pushes, pokes. that when he jokes, he looks at me. Sometimes it seems that he likes me, but sometimes he can call me little, baby, brother. It seems that he is joking. All the time he asks why I don’t have a boyfriend. he communicates like that, and by the way, I already know his mother. Could it be that he likes me or does he treat me like a sister?

Hello. My name is Sofia. I am 14 years old. There is a guy in the class that I like. He tries in every possible way to attract my attention to himself, slaps on the shoulder, etc. He takes my things and tries to make me laugh, while looking straight into my eyes. Then he will take my backpack or put it on himself, or put it on another desk. Jokes in front of me. As if it were not stupid, but the jumper gave. If I ask him something, he will answer with a joke. Sometimes I notice the looks on myself. Here is an example of a situation that happened recently. He did something funny, I laughed, he says like “high five, well, don’t break off,” just as when we were sitting next to him, at one point, for no reason, he began to look into my eyes for a long time. Without looking away. Could this mean something? He treats other girls differently, he does not show any of the above. And if this means something, then how can I get the first step from him, how can I show that I also care about him?

At a young age, everyone has fantasies, expectations, fears and ideas imposed by TV and the Internet about how boys and girls should behave in communication. This often prevents building a truly harmonious and joyful relationship.

Every girl has been in a situation where a guy likes, but he does not show much signs of sympathy. You really want to attract his attention, as well as be sure that you will not be rejected and you will not find yourself in a stupid situation. So how do you understand that a guy likes you if he behaves with restraint, or you don’t see him as often as you would like?

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The most important rule that every girl should understand is that guys are quite simple in life. They do not like to complicate anything, come up with complex moves, strategies, intrigues to conquer the object of their dreams. If he likes a girl, he will tell her about it directly, or will provide indirect signs of attention to let her know about his claims.

Often a girl is embarrassed to ask older women (mothers, sisters, aunts) "how to understand if a guy likes me." Peers, due to little experience, also do not know how to win his favor. But there is nothing complicated or top-secret about it.

Many young people are still boys at heart, who make it clear about their sympathy by pulling the pigtails of girls. At an older age, instead of pigtails and blows with a briefcase on the head, sharp jokes, jokes, often offensive and rude, are used. If you see that some guy “does not give you a pass”, trying to “pin up” or somehow pry, understand: he is interested in you and he needs your reaction. You need to understand: he wants you to pay attention to him.

Maybe he hides his feelings?

The most important thing about how to understand if a guy likes you is to look at his actions. Many people do not always understand non-verbal cues sympathies that guys send. Another reason for the difficulty in determining personal likes and dislikes is the fantasies that all young people and girls between the ages of 14 and 20 are prone to.

Many girls draw their ideas about the opposite sex from films, TV shows, books, magazines and other sources where fiction prevails. This is very important to understand. Some stereotypical plots from romance novels have nothing to do with reality, but it is precisely them that girls most often project onto familiar guys.

Let's look at which of these stereotypes are usually always wrong in reality.

Secret admirer, or the real James Bond

Imagine: you like a guy who behaves with indifference to you or whom you see quite rarely. Many girls who like a guy in such a situation tend to come up with an imaginary image of a certain James Bond.

They may fantasize that their subject is with great skill. Outwardly, this looks like indifference on his part.

We'll have to upset you and dispel this illusion: a guy who behaves indifferently, and in fact is indifferent to you. In ordinary life, even the most shy, constrained or insecure young man makes it clear that he is interested in you.

delayed love

This situation is a bit similar to the previous one, except that communication between the girl and the guy is completely absent. For example, a girl may only see a guy in the mornings at the bus stop or in the school corridor among high school students.

Most often, all that makes girls think about how to understand that a guy likes you if you are not communicating is a rare eye contact.

If a girl likes a young man, then she may imagine that he is also interested, but does not dare to take the first step. But in fact, everything is much simpler.

Usually men are attracted to women with whom they have more than eye contact. There should be communication in which the girl shows her best qualities. Most often, romantic relationships occur in the same company. If this is not about you with your object of dreams, then the chances that he secretly dreams about you, but does not dare to approach, are extremely small.

This does not mean that the guy could not appreciate you from a distance. Young people always notice attractive girls, noting the merits of their appearance, figure, etc. Your subject could also notice and appreciate you. But if you know that you are in his field of vision for a long time, but he does not make any attempts to approach you, then you need to understand that you are not particularly interested in him.

So how do you know if a guy likes you or not? When a girl is not indifferent, the guy will try to approach her as much as his self-esteem, upbringing, communication skills with the opposite sex allow. This is the easiest way to understand that a guy likes a girl.

If, after meeting you, a young man began to visit your company more often, often appears in your sight, starts small talk with you, tries to joke, be clever in your presence, then this indicates his sympathy for you.

And vice versa: if a guy doesn’t really try to communicate with you, goes about his business / friends / company, doesn’t distinguish you from other girls he knows, then you need to understand: you haven’t captured his heart yet.

How to understand what you like?

It’s normal for a girl to want confidence that she didn’t imagine, but a spark really ran between her and a new acquaintance. So how can a girl understand if a guy likes her for sure? In different situations, there are different signs of sympathy for you from a guy.

By correspondence

Social networks are one of the popular tools for understanding the attitude of the object of sympathy towards you. There is nothing reprehensible for a girl to write to a guy first, to make a friend request. After all, you do not immediately make it clear about your feelings. It's just an introduction.

You can limit yourself to neutral phrases like “Hello”, “How are you?” or ask something on the topic of conversation when meeting (for example, ask him to throw him the name of the movie he was talking about).

We give a hint on how to understand by correspondence that a guy likes you. If the most difficult thing - the beginning of communication - has already been completed, now the ball, as they say, is on his side. According to your communication with him on VKontakte, you can pass a small test - do you like the guy you like.

• ... the young man willingly asks counter questions (“how are you doing?”, “what are you doing?”);
• … the ratio of his and your messages is more than 50/50 in his favor;
• ... he writes first after the previous conversation has exhausted itself, suggests new topics;
• ... the guy is trying to have philosophical conversations, trying to seem smart, joking;
• … a young person likes your posts and comments;
• … dumps music, movies, links on your wall;
• … tags you in photos with friends;
• … willingly comments on your posts;
• ... new people have been added to you - friends of this young man.

If at least four out of ten of these points correspond to his behavior, then the question of how to understand if a pen pal in VK likes you will no longer bother you. And so everything is obvious.

At school

How to understand that a guy likes you at school, any girl seeks to find out. Everyone has an object of sympathy among classmates or students high school. By his actions, you can understand the attitude towards you, just observe. Young people have two strategies for dealing with girls they care about. A guy who is more confident in himself and his abilities will provide positive signs of attention:

1. say hello first when you appear;
2. start a conversation on topics that interest you;
3. sit down with you at the same desk;
4. come to change;
5. feed something.

All these are direct signs of his sympathy for you, and in this way the guy wants to establish a full contact with you and makes it clear that he wants more from you than just friendship. He may not say directly “I like you”, but his desire to be there, communicate, somehow help already make it clear about his feelings better than any words.

There are also negative signs of attention that are provided by young people who are not very confident in themselves or who have a past not very successful experience of communicating with a girl. His behavior will be dominated by the desire to show in every way that you are indifferent to him, but he will do it emphatically and even feignedly:

• diligently avoid eye contact with you (hide your eyes, turn away);
• talk in a company with everyone except you;
• shut up and frown if you start talking to him yourself;
• to speak emphatically sharply and even rudely, although they did not give reasons for this.

This is an easy way to understand that a guy likes you if he hides it. This model of behavior with the object of desire is also familiar to girls who, for some reason, are sure that they will not be able to please. But sympathy is usually stronger, and even an insecure young man wants to see a girl who excites his heart. If a guy is hostile to you, but is still nearby, then you can understand that he likes you, but he desperately resists his feelings.

How to distinguish fantasy from reality?

In connection with the above, girls sometimes have difficulty understanding that a guy likes you, but he hides his feelings. It is important not to confuse non-verbal attentions with negative connotations with indifference. Don't try to see something that isn't really there.

A guy who doesn't care about a girl:

• behaves in her presence in the same way as in the company of his male friends;
• does not try to attract her attention, surprise;
• does not seek her approval through jokes or clever stories;
• does not show signs of respect for her as a girl (in her presence she can swear, make obscene jokes, even if she knows that she will not like it);
• does not try to look in her eyes better than it actually is.

In other words, if his behavior does not change in any way with you (in a positive or negative way), then most likely he does not think about you.

If you don't communicate

Many girls are interested in how to understand if a guy likes you if you do not communicate. This may be a high school student or a student from another stream. If you saw him several times, and he saw you, but communication did not happen, then you can understand that the guy is not interested in you. Otherwise, he would approach you or do something to get your attention.

But if you saw a young man for the first time and want to understand what impression you make on him in this moment, then you can check it on several points. To understand everything, you need to catch non-verbal signals.

It is easy to understand how he behaves if a guy likes a girl:

• eye contact - he looks in your direction;
• if everyone in the company laughed at some kind of joke, then the guy at that moment is looking at you;
• his movements become more sweeping;
• he starts talking/laughing louder, making noise.

Each person always seeks approval from someone who is interesting to him. If someone in the company joked funny, causing laughter, then this best moment to see who likes whom. Each person, while laughing, looks at the one whose approval is important to him - this is the law of psychology and the easiest way to understand that a guy likes you. When everyone laughs, and he looks at you, then this should tell you quite unambiguously: he likes you.

Elements of non-verbal psychology

Psychology gives effective advice how to understand that a guy likes you by his behavior. There are many non-verbal indicators of overt sympathy.

We offer a small test on how to understand if a guy likes you:

1. he begins to get involved in the same things as you, and does it in such a way that you see it (for example, he begins to collect information on his VKontakte wall about your favorite musical group);
2. seeks to match your ideas about how a real man should look / dress / cut / behave (for example, if you in a company announced that you love guys with a fashionable haircut, then the guy makes himself the same);
3. learns the same skills as you (for example, learns to ride a skateboard, if you are fond of this sport);
4. in your presence refuses rude and vulgar jokes, even if it is customary in his company to behave this way;
5. tries to be useful to you (for example, finds and sends you links to materials for an essay).

If at least two of these signs of sympathy are present in his behavior, then everything is very simple to understand: he is secretly in love with you.

Look, eyes

Usually a girl knows how to understand by the eyes that a guy likes you. Everything is quite simple here: each person tends to look at the object of desire as often as possible.

The sight of a girl you like triggers the release of endorphins in the brain, which trigger the pleasure response. Therefore, a guy who likes you will involuntarily look at you more often than at other people.

How do you know by looking that a guy likes you? Eye contact can occur in different ways:

• the young man stares at you;
• when you speak, he looks at your lips;
• when he speaks, he looks into his eyes.

There is another simple way to understand by looking that a guy likes you. Sometimes shy young people begin to “play peepers”: you see with peripheral vision that he is looking at you, but as soon as you turn your head in his direction, he quickly looks away / lowers his eyes or turns away. Usually only this gives a sure hint that the guy likes you.

Gestures

There is one simple secret of how to understand by gestures that a guy likes you. Loud speech, as well as sharp and sweeping movements of a guy in the presence of a girl, are manifestations of the ancient instincts of procreation. Male primates, in order to attract the attention of a female, perform a kind of dance during mating games, moving sharply and actively.

In men, this also often works at the subconscious level. When you see that in your presence a guy starts waving his arms, makes various somersaults, makes sudden movements, accidentally drops something, and his speech becomes louder, then everything can be understood without words. He is instinctively trying to get your attention.

Poses

On subconscious level we always strive to hug and touch the one we like. If a guy likes a girl, then you can understand this by the position of his body.

The main signs of sympathy at the level of the body can be called:

• the desire to reduce the physical distance (the guy tries to get as close as possible);
• standing or sitting next to you, the young man spreads his arms wide (for example, puts his straightened arm on the back of the sofa at the level of your neck);
• during the conversation, the guy leans with one hand on the wall, blocking you.

All poses with arms wide open make it clear that the guy on a subconscious level wants to hug you.

Test: do you like the guy you like

Young guys 14-19 years old are not always able to express their feelings directly, but they never miss a chance to prove themselves in the presence of a girl they like and make it clear about their sympathy. How to understand that a guy likes you? A simple test will help you with this.

Answer "yes" if the statement is true:

1. A guy after meeting is more often in your field of vision. For example, he comes to the same bus stop as you, although before that he got on at a different stop, or, under some pretext, seeks to join your company.
2. The young man finds pretexts to ask you something, calls on some issues that theoretically he could solve himself.
3. The guy is trying to make you laugh, telling jokes, anecdotes and carefully watching your reaction.
4. He is trying to "pin" you, just for the sake of causing a reaction, even if it is negative.
5. The guy is trying to attract the attention of the whole company, doing some bold (in his opinion) actions, although under normal conditions it is not common for him to be in the center of events.

If you answered “yes” at least in three cases, then everything is obvious: you are clearly not indifferent to him.

The simplest thing is to be in his field of vision, to communicate in the same company with him. In informal and relaxed communication, each of us has every chance to express ourselves and our personal qualities that attract people.

As the experience of generations shows, the more naturally and naturally a woman behaves, the more chances she has to win the sympathy of her object of dreams. That's all there is to understand about relationships. Drop any pretense, do not try to pretend to be someone that you really are not - all this is visible from the outside and usually repels people.

For a guy to fall in love with you, you don't need to do anything special to get his attention. Enough:

• be friendly, smile, not be silent, joke in the company;
• don't do too bright makeup, look natural;
• not be constrained, overly clamped, shy;
• have your own interests, hobbies, hobbies - you must live your interesting and eventful life, and not be in the waiting mode that someone will find and love you;
• show interest in the guy, his affairs and hobbies, try to understand his problems and sorrows, but do not overdo it.

Useful video

If, after reading everything, you still have some doubts about what a guy feels for you, then the video below will help to completely dispel them:

Conclusion

1. If a girl has something to share, something to tell, something to surprise and captivate, then she will always be worthy of attention.
2. Don't sit around and wait for someone to finally show up to love you. You need to understand: this is how you lose valuable time that you could devote to yourself, to your development.
3. Young people don't like girls who are too relationship oriented, too eager to please and tie a young man to them.
4. Be self-sufficient, be satisfied with yourself and your life, have a wide range of interests, do not withdraw into yourself, communicate with different people - and guys will always show interest in you.

I didn’t even realize before how relevant this issue was for women. I thought women could see right through men. Indeed, in many cases it is so. However, almost all women do not understand when a man is in love. And they often ask questions:

How do I know if he likes me?

How to understand that a man is in love?

How to understand if a man likes you?

How to understand that he loves you?

How do you know if a guy likes you? Etc., etc.

And if a woman asks her friend over a cup of tea “How
understand if he likes me”, then we are usually talking about a man or a guy who already shows so many signs of attention, in such huge number that do not understand them for surrounding men seems completely impossible. But for women, for some reason, it remains a mystery.

For his friends, this man has long been "head over heels" in love. And for a woman, this is the best the man she got along with friendly relations(Otherwise, the question to a friend about “how to understand that he likes you” would not have arisen). And for such girls and women, I recorded a video where I told in detail all the signs of the behavior of a man in love. You can purchase the video course here.

I recently watched a Russian film, unfortunately, I do not remember the name. In this film, a man from school loved a woman. This man is rich, handsome, smart, caring, etc. It's been about 15 years since they met. For a woman, he was "a friend who will always help, always help out, listen and be there." He did love her. And only 15 years later, when a critical situation arose in the life of that woman, he told her "I love you".

Of course, the righteous indignation of the woman knew no bounds. She screamed in his face something like this: “Why have you been silent for 15 years”? Moreover, several times and in different words. After that, she told him to go "to hell." Then, however, everything ended well.

So, the woman indignantly shouts to the man: “Why have you been silent for 15 years” and I have a similar question: “Where have you been looking for 15 years??” A handsome, courageous, rich and, as they say, trouble-free man who loves you walks next to you for so long, and you don’t understand people and men so much that you don’t even understand that a man is in love.

And if earlier I considered such cases as a kind of exception, now I understand that women do not understand when men like them. The scale of this phenomenon is simply huge and amazing. For example, you can also watch the movie Pride and Prejudice. In this film main character burns with love for several months, and finally makes a marriage proposal to the girl. And she does not even suspect that he was a man in love with her all this time !!!

With rare exceptions, women do not understand when they like. And even more so, they don’t understand that a man loves and wants to establish a long-term relationship.

Of course, if a man approached a woman and said something like this: “I like you, let's meet”, etc., then of course the woman understands that the man likes her.

However, such words are spoken at best by 1 out of 20 men who really like you.

So how do you know if he likes you? This question is asked to me much more often than I would think.

First, let's see what signs that a woman likes a man are described in women's magazines. Approximately the following:

- a man looks at a woman a little more often than usual,

- nervously twists the ring (if he wears it), or the watch,

- pulls on the belt, etc.

These signs are working, but too superficial. After all, a man can like women five times a day. And we need signs that a woman is more than desirable. We need signs that for a man this woman is potentially the only one and the man is in love.

Here are my observations and reflections on this topic, collected over several years.

How to understand that he likes you?

First. The man is friends with the woman. This is a very strong sign that a man likes you. Especially if this “friendship” is accompanied by periodic one-sided help from a man.

Let's derive a life rule - A woman can be friends with a man, a man just like that never "makes friends" with a woman - that's it, this is an axiom!

There are exceptions, but they are very rare and do not tell me or yourself that: "My case is an exception to the rule." You don't have any exception, you just don't want, or don't know how, to see the truth.

Therefore, one of the very strong signs is when there is a man “allegedly a friend” in your environment. He is always there, often helps you with advice or something else, supports you in difficult times, rejoices with you in joyful moments, etc.

Then the next question from the woman immediately follows: “Why has he been silent for 15 years”?

Second. The man “suddenly, by chance” met you again.

If a man really liked you, then he will look for you, even if he does not have your phone number and address, and very often finds you.

How is the "search" going on? A man can wait for hours near the bus stop where you supposedly ride, can wait near the entrance, come to the dance. club, search at the institute, through acquaintances, follow you, etc.

And then there is a "random" meeting of a woman with a man. It turns out that he “accidentally” passed somewhere nearby and “accidentally” saw you. In 80% of cases, there is no smell of any “accident” here. The only chance here is that the man was waiting for you for several hours, and when he saw you, he "accidentally" came out to meet you.

I myself so "accidentally" met my future wife for the second time, however, I did not expect anyone, but asked for a visit to where I knew that she would be. This is one of the search methods.

Total. A very strong sign that a man likes you is that you repeatedly, or even several times, meet a man, although it seems that you should not have seen him again. Usually, when you meet again, a man notices you first and starts a conversation, and not just “hello, hello.” The "accidental meeting" is usually justified by some kind of fable, but do not believe everything you are told, especially men. He likes you a lot - that's 100%. A few examples of "fables":

- fell ill if you are a doctor,

- suddenly became interested in dancing, if you dance,

- passed by when he lives in another city, etc.

In general, only a second, or even a third meeting, can serve as a more or less strong sign that a man likes you. At the first meeting, he may be too drunk, or there may be a “competitive atmosphere” in the company of fighting for a woman and he will court you with excitement. He may meet with you at the request of mutual acquaintances who will think that a couple will come out of you, they may simply not know you, etc. And only after coming to his senses, moving away from alcohol, etc., a man can appreciate how much he really likes you. And if this is the case, then he will definitely find you, you don’t need to call him or look for yourself.

It is much better if you ask about his hobbies, career, plans, etc. during the meeting. You will be confident, you will give non-verbal signs that you like a man, be friendly and smiling, and not with a sour expression on your face, etc., well, this is again off topic.

Third. A man does for you what he doesn't do for anyone else, or at least doesn't do for other women.

For example, it blows your jokes or "jokes". Finds what is difficult to find or requires a lot of time, money, energy. Responds to your requests, even if he is busy, etc. See example here

It also spoils you in one way or another. He tries to hide so that you don’t freeze, to make you see something if you can’t see it, he meets and behaves well with those people who are not very pleasant to him, for example, with your relatives, etc.

If I give an example from my life, then in order to please my wife, and at that time still the bride, I went to competitions with her ballroom dancing(I hate such events), before the wedding I looked through and said what models I like wedding dresses(for a man this is a moderately interesting activity), I bought tights for my favorite pantyhose (for men this is a real feat), I learned to cook several “on-duty” dishes so that besides me my beloved woman could eat them (before what I cooked, I could there is only myself). In general, in order to please my woman, I have performed and still continue to perform a lot of heroes and real feats.

Fourth. The man arranges "cock dances".

Not a very accurate sign, as some men do this in front of almost every woman. Very young people can pull a pigtail or throw a snowball. The older ones are not much different. They can talk about the fact that his second cousin saw the President of America personally, or talk about what a powerful car he has, a strong right hand, what a smart programmer he is, etc., although the situation does not require it.

Fifth. A man, usually quite adequate, “suddenly” begins to be shy, is silent, does some stupid things, becomes overly caustic, that is, he makes fun of you more than other people, etc.

Therefore, if your boyfriend, real or potential, seems to you an "idiot", a person who is insecure and completely without manners, then he may really like you, especially if other people perceive him as completely normal and do not understand what happened to him, " What chain has he broken off? Why is this happening? If you are very important for a man, then some kind of shyness and insecurity are inevitable (greater than usual).

Well, that's all that I could collect so far on the question of "How to understand that he likes you." This should be enough for you. After all, the main thing is not even knowledge, but the ability to apply. Train first on colleagues and acquaintances, and then think about which of your men around you like you more or less, and why. Write down the answers. Think again. After a while, you will begin to understand men much better. After all, they are so simple and it is not at all difficult to understand a man, especially a man who likes you.

In more detail, all the signs of whether a man likes you or not, you can study in the video, which is sold on our website "Sunny Hands".

Sincerely, Rashid Kirranov.

If you are interested in how to understand that a guy likes you, then feelings have arisen for him. We need to find out if it's mutual. It happens that a man looks in the direction of a girl, but it is impossible to determine what exactly interested him. It is possible that attention is drawn to the other, or he simply studies his surroundings with his eyes. There are several ways to determine if .

His body language

Body language can tell a lot. Experts believe that a woman can convey about 50 different messages in this way, and a man - no more than 10. How to recognize them? If you believe this theory, then we can conclude that it is quite simple to understand the gestures of a man. Nevertheless, you still need to know what to do in such situations and which gestures to pay attention to. Otherwise, random movements may seem, and in the end this will lead to an awkward situation.

When you like a boy, you should pay attention to the presence of such gestures:

1. He often looks at the girl. His eyebrows go up as he watches her. In this case, the movement can be elusive, because it lasts less than a second. Male psychology is such that it observes involuntarily, and at the same time does not notice that it often shifts its gaze.
2. The young man often looks into the girl's face and tries to make eye contact.
3. If you are interested in knowing how to understand that a colleague likes you, then you should pay attention to whether he is approaching too close. Intrusion into the personal zone is a sign of serious interest.
4. You can pay attention to the direction of his arms and legs. If the limbs are directed at you, then this is a sign of his subconscious interest.
5. If you are interested in how to understand by gestures that a man likes you, then you need to pay attention to whether he will begin to put himself in order in your presence: straighten his tie, shirt, etc. Perhaps fixing the hair on the head or checking if the shoelaces are tied. The repeated repetition of these actions makes him look like a male bird, which is constantly cleaning its feathers in the hope of impressing the female.
6. You need to pay attention to how the man sits. If he tries to look confident with his legs wide apart and his hands folded on his hips, then he is trying to impress.
7. If a respectable adult man likes you (for example, the boss), then this person will often look at you and rarely turn his back. If a guy straightens his shoulders and turns his torso towards the girl while sitting, this is a sure sign of interest.

Eye contact

You can tell a lot from the look of a guy. As already noted, the interested person will look secretly or even without hiding for a long time. He may try to catch the eye. If you like shy guy, then he, on the contrary, will seek to look away if he realizes that he has been spotted.

What to do in such a situation? You need to check his feelings: look the guy in the face and after 4 seconds look away. Don't look too long, otherwise it will be ugly. If you like a boy, you need to look at him again to see if this person tends to maintain eye contact. The look of a man directed to his lips indicates that he is definitely interested.

If you feel that eye contact lasts longer than with other people, then he definitely has something for you. On the other hand, if a guy calmly looks away, starts looking elsewhere and seeks to show indifference, then this is the case.

1. If he looks away, but at the same time begins to furtively examine the girl’s face, then she definitely seems attractive to him. At the same time, his psychology does not allow you to look into the eyes. Maybe he's just timid.
2. If the guy is shy, then it will be difficult to determine his interest through eye contact. You need to be patient and check if the young man starts to look at you cautiously. This behavior is typical for shy people.
3. If you don't like him, then don't make eye contact with him. You need to look away as soon as possible.
4. There is a way that allows . If he says or does something funny, he will take a quick glance to check the reaction to his actions. This means trying to make a good impression.
5. If a guy likes a girl, then his pupils can expand with eye contact. It is rather difficult to detect this, since it is uncivilized to look closely into the eyes of a person while being next to him.

Voice contact

If he feels something, is nervous and burns with the desire to get closer, then, most likely, he will begin to tell something about himself. Usually an interested young man feels the need to prove himself, especially if the girl is talking to another man in his presence. If you like a boy, you need to check if he is interested in what you are saying. Psychology says that it doesn't really matter what a woman is talking about. To determine the degree of his interest, you can say anything, and check how attentively he listens.

When a girl is ready to take decisive steps, but does not know what to do, it is recommended to try the following trick: whisper something in the guy's ear so as to touch her shoulder. If you have the courage, then at the same time you can also, as if by chance, hug him with your hand for a second. If at the same time he tries to bring him closer and touch him or stubbornly maintains eye contact, then he definitely likes the girl. When a man is not feeling, he will take a step back or make a straight face as if nothing happened. If the guy is completely indifferent, then he may even try to gently push out of his personal space.

Tactile contact

If you want to know how to test a man's sympathy, then touch is an important sign that helps determine the degree of interest of one person in another. You can gauge a guy's interest by watching him touch.

At the same time, you need to pay attention to his reaction when a girl touches him. , then he can put his hand on her shoulder when laughing, or hug her instead of greeting. If you like a boy and don't know what to do, you need to think about how best to touch him in return.

When it comes to figuring out how to know if a man likes you, it's a good idea to try lightly hugging him for a moment. You can kind of spontaneously take his hand when he tells something interesting. If a man reacts normally to such a gesture and does not recoil, then this fleeting intimacy is pleasant to him. If he tensed up or pulled away as a result of such actions, then the girl is not at all interesting to him.

The following tips are worth considering:

1. If the guy is shy, then he may be embarrassed in response to a touch. But this is not yet a sign that he does not like the girl. It will be necessary to carefully monitor his further actions, because the psychology of a shy person is quite complex.
2. Popular, outgoing and confident guys can often touch various girls. If such a man is interesting, then you need to make sure that he enters into tactile contact with you more willingly than with others.
3. You should pay attention to whether he touches consciously. If his touches are chaotic and occur more on a subconscious level (automatically), then he likes the girl so much that he cannot even control himself.

His attitude towards the girl

If you are interested in how to understand that a married man likes you, then you need to pay attention to whether he is trying to protect you from others or act like a gentleman. Even if a man is not characterized by good manners, he will still try to look polite and courteous. The guy can move his chair closer, offer his jacket in cold weather, etc.

If you are interested in knowing how to determine if a man likes you, you need to keep in mind that some of them flirt with other girls. At the same time, they try to attract the attention of the one they like, but do not know what to do. This gives the guy a chance to see the reaction and see if they are showing interest in him. This method is not always effective, because a young man who flirts with many girls may seem frivolous and unworthy of attention.

However, sometimes you can notice how, in the process of flirting with other persons, he furtively glances at you. If you like a boy, it is recommended to disappear from his field of vision to check the reaction. If after this the man's behavior changes and he stops communicating with others, then they are not at all interesting to him. Alternatively, a girl can ask a boyfriend or girlfriend to watch the guy and find out how he behaves when she is not around. Thanks to this, his psychology will become clear.

Interest in hobbies and nervousness

If you are interested in how to understand that a man likes you, then you need to check his reaction to interests and hobbies. If a girl likes a certain style of music that the guy does not know, then he will ask you to name several performers of this genre in order to listen to himself. It may happen that one of these ensembles will soon be on tour in your area. At the same time, the man will buy tickets and hint that he does not want to go to the concert in splendid isolation. If a guy suddenly likes your favorite TV show and he always discusses it with pleasure, this is also a sure sign of sympathy.

Signs that a man likes you include nervous laughter, sweaty palms, deep breaths, chair fidgeting, fear of eye contact. If he's nervous trying to impress, that means the guy is trying his best to get attention. At the same time, the man hopes to see reciprocal steps. It must be borne in mind that sometimes even confident guys are shy when it comes to serious feelings.

Friends Behavior

If you are interested in how to find out what a guy likes, it is recommended to pay attention to his social circle. If a guy's friends know that he likes some girl, they can play a trick on him or hint to the girl that he likes him. They will even try to find out if it is mutual. You need to study their reaction to the appearance of a girl. Perhaps they smile at the same time or turn to him? Such behavior may mean that they know some secrets.

A girl should be careful if one of her friends says that the guy loves her. In some cases, this may turn out to be false. Guys may have their own reasons for breaking up a potential couple, and in doing so, they will try to do everything possible to make the girl look like a fool.

Does he imitate?

If you are wondering how to understand that a stranger likes you, then it should be borne in mind that copying each other's actions is a sure sign of reciprocity, and this happens, as a rule, at the subconscious level. If a girl noticed that a guy often copies her gestures, then there is a high probability that this is happening for a reason. You can try to copy his actions in response, for example, fixing his hair, rubbing his face, or sitting down at the same time as him.

If you are wondering how to understand whether a boy likes you or not, then another sure sign of sympathy is stalking. If a man, as if by chance, constantly finds himself at the next dining table or even tries to sit down with a woman, then he needs intimacy. However, you need to make sure that there are a lot of free places around. If he sits down only because there is nowhere else, then this does not mean anything.

light teasing

Many are interested in how to understand that a guy likes you at school. Anyone who makes fun of a girl in a friendly way must feel something for her. This is especially true for schoolchildren and students, but sometimes a similar practice can be observed at a more mature age. If a man does not flirt in this way with every person he meets, then he is interested in a certain girl, but cannot express his feelings in any other way due to his mischievous nature or lack of self-confidence.

In this case, the guy may accidentally say or do something offensive. In such cases, it is recommended to remain calm and politely explain to him that he is behaving a little wrong. If you are interested in how to understand whether a man likes you or not, you need to keep in mind that some people just enjoy when they make fun of others. In this case, you need to be aware that he is joking with you only to cheer you up.

Friendly punch to the shoulder

If you are interested in knowing how to understand what a man liked, then you need to keep in mind that he can lightly hit the girl in the arm or shoulder if he is poorly brought up or hides his true intentions. When a woman responds normally to such a blow, a man can later move on to more gentle ways of touching. Of course, this does not mean that you need to be silent if he overdid it and hurt. You can reprimand the guy and ask him not to touch him in a rude manner anymore, or just hit him back a little harder, while remembering to smile.

If you are interested in how to understand if a guy likes you, then you need to keep in mind that a friendly blow is not always a sign of feelings. In sign language, this could mean that he treats the girl like a friend. If there is confidence that there is no sympathy on his part, then it is worth hinting to him that there is no need to exchange blows anymore. If a girl does not like this way of communication at all, it is better to say so right away. You also need to make sure that he is not mocking. You need to be able to recognize outright ridicule.

Compliments and their meaning

How do you know if a boy likes you? You need to pay attention to whether he makes compliments. If a guy says he likes new hairstyle girls, this is a very good sign. Most men simply will not pay attention to it. If you are interested in how to understand that a boy likes you, you need to pay attention to constant compliments.

However, if a guy is a friend of a girl, then compliments on his part will not necessarily be a sign of romantic feelings. Maybe he's just trying to cheer you up. You also need to keep in mind that not all men give compliments to those they like. They may remain silent.

Jealousy and persecution

A girl can often communicate on the phone with various men (for example, with work colleagues or relatives). If a guy hears such a conversation and delicately asks who called, then this is a sign of jealousy. At the same time, it usually does not occur to the lover that a relative or employee of the girl can call, and he perceives the callers as his competitors. If a girl has new clothes or a phone, then a jealous guy will definitely ask if this is a gift.

How to understand that a guy likes you? You need to pay attention to whether it appears unexpectedly in places where it should not be. When this happens too often, there is no doubt that the girl is interesting to him. At the same time, the possibility remains that this is not about romantic feelings, because a man can simply ask for some kind of service or make a business proposal.

When a guy shows genuine interest (for example, often smiling or dropping his business to say hello politely), you need to respond to him in the same friendly way. These are all signs that a guy likes you. If this is someone you want to go on a date with, you need to find an opportunity to be alone with him in a quiet and calm place to just talk.

Human individuality

It must be remembered that each person has a unique character and worldview. It may seem that the young man does not show interest, but in fact he will suffer from unrequited love at this time. In some cases, standard methods for determining sympathy may not work. Perhaps he thinks that the girl is already busy with someone or considers himself unworthy of her attention.

Care should be taken when talking with a young man with whom it is very easy to find a common language. It is possible that he just needs to communicate and likes to talk with everyone. In addition, there are guys who change girls too often or date several at the same time. Whether it's worth getting involved with is up to you.

Separately, it is worth mentioning that many people are characterized by mood swings. It is possible that he does not want to get acquainted today, but tomorrow he will burn with impatience, wanting to get closer to the girl. In addition, a man is always trying to determine what mood the woman of his dreams is in. If she has Bad mood, then it is quite possible that he noticed this, and therefore feels insecure.