Traditions in our family the world around us 2. What are family traditions: examples

The world around - Grade 2

Subject: "Family. Family Traditions"
Target: to form children's ideas about family relationships, family responsibilities, traditions and relics of the family.

Traditions and rituals are inherent in every family. Even if you think that there is nothing like this in your family, most likely you are a little mistaken. After all, even the morning: "Good morning!" and evening: Good night!" It is also a kind of tradition. What to say about Sunday dinners with the whole family or collective production Christmas decorations. What other traditions are there in the family?

First, let's define what a TRADITION is.

TRADITION (from lat. traditio - transmission), elements of social and cultural heritage that are passed down from generation to generation and preserved in certain societies and social groups during long time.

What is a family? There are different opinions and explanations. And we will look in the Ozhegov dictionary.

1. A group of close relatives living together.
2. An association of people united by common interests.

FAMILY TRADITIONS

• Joint cleaning
• hiking
• Trips
• Surprises for the holidays
• hugs upon meeting
• On weekends we go to the cinema with the whole family
• Planting potatoes together
• Watching a TV program with the whole family
• Evening family readings
• Handicraft with the whole family

Choose yours and continue your list of your family's traditions

POEMS ABOUT FAMILY

Family is happiness, love and luck,

Family is a summer trip to the country.

Family holiday, family dates,

Gifts, purchases, pleasant spending.

The birth of children, the first step, the first babble,

Dreams of good, excitement, awe.

Family is work, caring for each other,

Family is a lot of family work.

Family is important!

Family is hard!

But it is impossible to live happily alone!

Always be together, take care of love,

We want your friends to talk about you:

"What a good family this is!"

(Maria Langer)

Find in this poem key words to the main concept of FAMILY.

FAMILY HOLIDAYS IN THE CALENDAR

You can find information about some holiday and tell us a little about it

PROVERBS AND SAYINGS ABOUT FAMILY

• Baba-grandmother, golden lady! You pray to God, you feed with bread, you take care of the house, you guard the good.
• Brother will not betray brother.
• Brother and brother go to the bear.
• Brotherly love is stronger than a stone wall.
• Being a guest is good, but being at home is better.
• In a friendly family and warm in the cold.
• There is no goodness in an unfriendly family.
• A diligent house is dense, and a lazy house is empty.
• Everyone in his family is big.
• What is the calculation in your family?
• In your home, the walls help.
• In the family, the porridge is thicker.
• There is discord in the family, and the house is not happy.
• The family agrees that things are going great.
• In a family where there is no consent, good does not happen.
• In a family where there is harmony, happiness does not forget the road.
• In a good family, good children grow up.
• Everywhere is good, but home is better.
• The whole family is together, and the soul is in place.
• Where there is peace and harmony, there is God's grace.
• Where there is advice, there is light; where there is agreement, there is God.
• The thick porridge of the family will not disperse.
• A girl's humility is more precious than a necklace.
• A tree is supported by roots, and a person is a family.
• Children of parents are not judges.
• For a grandson, grandfather is the mind, and grandmother is the soul.
• Good brotherhood is better than wealth.
• It is not the stove that warms the house, but love and harmony.
• At home, everything is arguable, but living in a stranger is worse.
• Daughters flaunt, sons live in high esteem.
• A friendly family knows no sorrow.
• The life of parents in children.
• Food tastes better at a communal table.
• Earth without water is dead, a man without a family is a waste flower.
• And the crow praises the crow.
• Like a brother, like a sister.
• When there is no family, there is no home.
• Where the mother is, there the child goes.
• There are no better brothers and sisters.
• I love my children, but grandchildren are sweeter.
• Brotherly love is stronger than stone walls.
• Love and advice - there is no grief.
• A loving mother is the soul of the family and the ornament of life.
• Maternal prayer reaches from the bottom of the sea.
• Maternal anger is like spring snow: and a lot of it will fall, but it will soon melt.
• The mother of all business is the head.
• The mother feeds the children, as the land of the people.
• Dear mother - a stone fence.
• What a treasure, when the family is in harmony.
• Hints and reproaches are family vices.
• There will be no good if there is enmity in the family.
• Don't hide your failures from your parents.
• There is no good if there is enmity between one's own.
• There is no friend against a brother.
• The father punishes, the father praises.
• To honor a father and mother is not to know grief.
• When the sun is warm, when the mother is good.
• Honor your parents - you will not stray from the true path.
• Parents are hardworking - and children are not lazy.
• The parental word is not spoken by.
• Our people - let's count.
• Your home is not someone else's: you can't leave it.
• Your own is not an enemy.
• Family consent is the most precious thing.
• A family where they help each other is not afraid of troubles.
• To cherish the family is to be happy.
• The family and peas are threshed.
• A family without children is like a flower without a smell.
• Family is the foundation of happiness.
• The family is in a heap, and the cloud is not terrible.
• The family gives a person a start in life.
• The family is strong.
• A family is strong when there is only one roof over it.
• A mother's heart warms better than the sun.
• The mother's heart is outgoing.
• Consent and harmony is a treasure in the family.
• A consonant family and grief does not take.
• Consent in the family is wealth.
• A quarrel in his family - to the first sight.
• An older brother is like a second father.
• The happiness of parents is the honesty and diligence of children.
• A mother's patience knows no bounds.
• The dear child has many names.
• Though closely, but better together.
• A man without brothers and sisters is a lonely tree.
• A man without a family is like a tree without fruit.
• What is - together, what is not - in half.

Choose a few proverbs and sayings that are suitable for your family, write them down on a thematic page

FAMILY COAT

The coat of arms of the family is a set heraldic symbols, which personify the main features of a particular family genus. The family coat of arms used to be a privilege of the nobility, but now it is designed to highlight the family, unite all its members, become a strong link for generations and the main relic and value of the clan. The coat of arms can be ordered from specialists, or you can create it yourself with your parents. Such a joint lesson will help relatives express love for each other without further ado, and will have a beneficial effect on the development of the child. Thanks to the development of a family coat of arms with children, patriotic feelings will be brought up in the younger generation, knowledge of heraldry in general and its features will appear, vocabulary will be enriched and there will be an opportunity to show imagination, participate on an equal basis with adults in creating a family heirloom.

FAMILY (GENEALOGICAL) TREE OF THE FAMILY

This is a schematic representation of family ties, a family tree in the form of a tree, at the “roots” of which the ancestor is located, and on the “branches” are various lines of his descendants - “leaves”. Most often, pedigrees are presented in the form of a tree. But there may be other options.

Each person must know the history of his family in order to have an idea of ​​​​his origin, status, historical value. However, not everyone knows about their relatives beyond their grandparents (at best). Today it is becoming fashionable to draw up one's pedigree, the so-called family tree(the program will help to do this colorfully and visually). This scheme is called a tree due to the fact that many relatives “grow” from one person, like the crown of a tree.

Most families have their own overt or unspoken traditions. How important are they to raising happy people?

Traditions and rituals are inherent in every family. Even if you think that there is nothing like this in your family, most likely you are a little mistaken. After all, even the morning: "Hello!" and evening: "Good night!" It is also a kind of tradition. What can we say about Sunday dinners with the whole family or the collective production of Christmas tree decorations.

To begin with, let's remember what such a simple and familiar word “family” means from childhood. Agree, there may be different variants on the topic: and “mom, dad, me”, and “parents and grandparents”, and “sisters, brothers, uncles, aunts, etc.”. One of the most popular definitions of this term says: "A family is an association of people based on marriage or consanguinity, connected by a common life, mutual moral responsibility and mutual assistance." That is, these are not just blood relatives living under the same roof, but also people who help each other and are mutually responsible. Family members in the true sense of the word love each other, support each other, rejoice together on cheerful occasions and grieve on sad ones. They seem to be all together, but at the same time they learn to respect the opinions and personal space of each other. And there is something that unites them into one whole, inherent only to them, in addition to the stamps in the passport.

This “something” is family tradition. Remember how in childhood you loved to come to your grandmother for the summer? Or celebrate birthdays with a large crowd of relatives? Or decorate the Christmas tree with mom? These memories are filled with warmth and light.

What are family traditions? Explanatory dictionaries they say the following: "Family traditions are the usual norms, behaviors, customs and views adopted in the family, which are passed down from generation to generation." Most likely, these are the habitual standards of behavior that the child will carry with him to his future family, and will pass on to his children.

What do family traditions give people? First, they contribute to the harmonious development of the child. After all, traditions involve the repeated repetition of some actions, and, therefore, stability. For a baby, such predictability is very important, thanks to it, over time, he ceases to be afraid of this big, incomprehensible world. Why be afraid if everything is constant, stable, and your parents are nearby? In addition, traditions help children see in their parents not just strict educators, but also friends with whom it is interesting to spend time together.

Secondly, for adults, family traditions give a sense of unity with their relatives, bring together, strengthen feelings. After all, these are often moments of pleasant pastime with those closest to you, when you can relax, be yourself and enjoy life.

Thirdly, it is the cultural enrichment of the family. It becomes not just a combination of separate "I", but a full-fledged cell of society, carrying and making its contribution to the cultural heritage of the country.

Of course, this is not all the "pros" family traditions. But even this is quite enough to think: how do our families live? Maybe add some interesting traditions?

Family traditions in the world there is a huge variety. But still, in general, we can try to conditionally divide them into two large groups: general and special.

Common traditions are traditions found in most families in one form or another. These include:

• Celebration of birthdays and family holidays. Such a tradition will surely become one of the first significant events in the life of a baby. Thanks to such customs, both children and adults receive many "bonuses": anticipation of the holiday, good mood, the joy of communicating with the family, the feeling of being needed and important for loved ones. This tradition is one of the warmest and most cheerful.
• Household duties of all family members, cleaning, putting things in their places. When a baby is taught to do his household duties from an early age, he begins to feel included in the life of the family, learns to care.
• Joint games with children. Both adults and children take part in such games. Doing something together with children, parents show them an example, teach them different skills, show their feelings. Then, as the child grows older, it will be easier for him to maintain a trusting relationship with mom and dad.
• Family dinner. Many families honor the traditions of hospitality, which helps to unite families by gathering them at the same table.
• Family Council. This is a “meeting” of all family members, at which important issues are resolved, the situation is discussed, further plans are made, the family budget is considered, etc. It is very important to involve children in the advice - this way the child will learn to be responsible, as well as better understand his relatives.
• Traditions of "carrot and stick". Each family has its own rules, for which it is possible (if possible) to punish the child, and how to encourage him. Someone gives extra pocket money, and someone gives a joint trip to the circus. The main thing for parents is not to overdo it, excessive demands from adults can make a child inactive and lethargic, or, conversely, envious and angry.
• Rituals of greeting and farewell. Wishes good morning and sweet dreams, kisses, hugs, meeting when returning home - all this is a sign of attention and care from loved ones.
• Days of memory of deceased relatives and friends.
• Joint walks, trips to theaters, cinemas, exhibitions, travel trips - these traditions enrich the life of the family, make it brighter and richer.

Special traditions are special traditions that belong to one given family. Perhaps this is a habit on Sundays to sleep before dinner, or go on a picnic on weekends. Or home theater. Or hiking in the mountains. Or…

Also, all family traditions can be divided into those that have developed on their own and deliberately brought into the family. About how to create new tradition we'll talk a little later. Now let's look at interesting examples of family traditions. Perhaps you will like some of them, and you want to introduce it into your family?

How many families - how many examples of traditions can be found in the world. But sometimes they are so interesting and unusual that you immediately start to think: “But shouldn’t I come up with something like that?”.

So, examples of interesting family traditions:

• Joint fishing until the morning. Dad, mom, children, night and mosquitoes - few will dare to do this! But on the other hand, a lot of emotions and new impressions are also provided!
• Family cooking. Mom kneads the dough, dad twists the minced meat, and the child makes dumplings. Well, so what, which is not quite even and correct. The main thing is that everyone is cheerful, happy and soiled in flour!
• Quests on the occasion of a birthday. Each birthday person - whether it be a child or a grandfather - is given a card in the morning, according to which he is looking for clues leading him to a gift.
• Trips to the sea in winter. Collecting backpacks with the whole family and going to the seaside, get some fresh air, have a picnic or spend the night in a winter tent - all this will give unusual sensations and unite the family.
• Draw postcards for each other. Just like that, without a reason and special artistic talent. Instead of being offended and pouting, write: “I love you! Although you are sometimes unbearable ... But I am also not a gift.
• Together with the kids, bake shortcakes for the feast of St. Nicholas for orphans. Joint selfless good deeds and trips to Orphanage help children become kinder and more sympathetic, and grow up to be caring people.
• Night story. No, not just when a mother reads to her baby. And when all adults read in turn, and everyone listens. Light, kind, eternal.
• Meet New Year every time in a new place. It does not matter where it will be - on the square of a foreign city, on the top of a mountain or near the Egyptian pyramids, the main thing is not to repeat yourself!
• Evenings of poems and songs. When the family gets together, everyone sits in a circle, composes poetry - each line by line - and immediately come up with music for them, and sing along with the guitar. Great! You can also arrange home performances and puppet theater.
• "Putting" gifts to neighbors. Going unnoticed, the family gives gifts to neighbors and friends. What a pleasure to give!
• We speak nice words. Everyone talks to each other before every meal pleasant words and compliments. Inspiring, right?
• Cooking with love. "Did you put love?" “Yes, of course, I will now. Give it to me, please, it's in the locker!
• Holiday on the top shelf. The custom is to meet all the holidays on the train. Fun and on the move!

In order to create a new family tradition, you need only two things: your desire and the principled consent of the household. The algorithm for creating a tradition can be summarized as follows:

1. Actually, come up with the tradition itself. Try to involve all family members to the maximum to create a friendly close-knit atmosphere.
2. Take the first step. Try your "action". It is very important to saturate it with positive emotions - then everyone will look forward to the next time.
3. Be moderate in your desires. Do not immediately introduce many different traditions for each day of the week. It takes time for habits to take hold. Yes, and when everything in life is planned out to the smallest detail, this is also not interesting. Leave room for surprises!
4. Reinforce the tradition. It is necessary to repeat it several times so that it is remembered and began to be strictly observed. But do not bring the situation to the point of absurdity - if there is a blizzard or a downpour on the street, it may be worth refusing to walk. In other cases, the tradition is better to follow.

When created new family, it often happens that spouses do not have the same concept of traditions. For example, in the groom's family, it is customary to celebrate all the holidays in the circle of numerous relatives, and the bride met these events only with her mother and father, and some dates could not be coped with at all. In this case, the newlyweds may immediately brew a conflict. What to do in case of disagreement? The advice is simple - only a compromise. Discuss the problem and find the most suitable solution for both. Come up with a new tradition - already a common one - and everything will work out!

In Russia, from time immemorial, family traditions have been honored and protected. They are a very important part of the country's historical and cultural heritage. What family traditions were in Russia?

Firstly, important rule for each person there was knowledge of their pedigree, moreover, not at the level of “grandparents”, but much deeper. In each noble family, a genealogical tree was compiled, a detailed genealogy was carefully stored and transmitted stories about the life of their ancestors. Over time, when cameras appeared, the maintenance and storage of family albums began, passing them by inheritance to younger generations. This tradition has come down to our times - many families have old albums with photographs of loved ones and relatives, even those who are no longer with us. It is always pleasant to reconsider these “pictures of the past”, to rejoice or, conversely, to feel sad. Now, with the widespread use of digital photographic equipment, there are more and more frames, but most often they remain electronic files that have not “flowed” onto paper. On the one hand, it is much easier and more convenient to store photos in this way, they do not take up space on the shelves, do not turn yellow over time, and do not get dirty. And yes, you can shoot more often. But even that trepidation associated with the expectation of a miracle has also become less. After all, at the very beginning of the photo era, going to a family photo was a whole event - they carefully prepared for it, dressed smartly, everyone walked joyfully together - why not a separate beautiful tradition for you?

Secondly, honoring the memory of relatives, commemoration of the departed, as well as care and constant care for elderly parents has been and remains a primordially Russian family tradition. In this, it is worth noting, the Russian people differ from European countries, where special institutions mainly deal with elderly citizens. It is not for us to judge whether this is good or bad, but the fact that such a tradition exists and is alive is a fact.

Thirdly, in Russia since ancient times it has been customary to pass on from generation to generation family heirlooms - jewelry, dishes, some things of distant relatives. Often young girls got married in the wedding dresses of their mothers, who had previously received them from their mothers, etc. Therefore, in many families there have always been special "secret places" where grandfather's watches, grandmother's rings, family silver and other valuables were kept.

Fourthly, earlier it was very popular to name a born child in honor of one of the family members. This is how “family names” appeared, and families where, for example, grandfather Ivan, son Ivan and grandson Ivan.

Fifth, an important family tradition of the Russian people was and is the assignment of a patronymic to a child. Thus, already at birth, the baby receives part of the name of the genus. Calling someone by name - patronymic, we express our respect and courtesy.

Sixthly, earlier very often the child was given a church name in honor of the saint who is honored on the baby's birthday. According to popular beliefs, such a name will protect the child from evil forces and help in life. Nowadays, such a tradition is observed infrequently, and mainly among deeply religious people.

Seventh, in Rus' there were professional dynasties - whole generations of bakers, shoemakers, doctors, military men, priests. Growing up, the son continued the work of his father, then the same work was continued by his son, and so on. Unfortunately, now such dynasties in Russia are very, very rare.

Eighth, an important family tradition was, and even now they are increasingly returning to this, the obligatory wedding of the newlyweds in the church, and the baptism of infants.

Yes, there were many interesting family traditions in Russia. Take at least the traditional feast. No wonder they talk about the "broad Russian soul." But it’s true, they carefully prepared for the reception of guests, cleaned the house and the yard, set the tables with the best tablecloths and towels, put pickles in dishes stored especially for special occasions. The hostess came out on the threshold with bread and salt, bowed from the waist to the guests, and they bowed to her in return. Then everyone went to the table, ate, sang songs, talked. Eh, beauty!

Some of these traditions hopelessly sunk into oblivion. But how interesting it is to notice that many of them are alive, and they are still passed down from generation to generation, from father to son, from mother to daughter ... And, therefore, the people have a future!

The cult of family traditions in different countries

In Great Britain important point in the upbringing of a child is the goal to raise a true Englishman. Children are raised in strictness, they are taught to restrain their emotions. At first glance, it may seem that the British love their children less than parents in other countries. But this, of course, is a deceptive impression, because they are just used to showing their love in a different way, not like, for example, in Russia or Italy.

In Japan, it is very rare to hear a child crying - all the wishes of children under 6 years old are immediately fulfilled. All these years, the mother is engaged only in raising the baby. But then the child goes to school, where strict discipline and order await him. It is also curious that the whole large family usually lives under one roof - both old people and babies.

In Germany, there is a tradition of late marriages - it is rare for anyone to start a family before the age of thirty. It is believed that until this time, future spouses can realize themselves at work, build a career, and are already able to provide for their families.

In Italy, the concept of "family" is comprehensive - it includes all relatives, including the most distant ones. An important family tradition is joint dinners, where everyone communicates, shares their news, and discusses pressing problems. Interestingly, the Italian mother plays an important role in choosing a son-in-law or daughter-in-law.

In France, women prefer a career to raising children, so after a very short time after the birth of a child, the mother returns to work, and her child goes to kindergarten.

In America, an interesting family tradition is the habit of accustoming children to life in society from early childhood, supposedly this will help their children in adulthood. Therefore, it is quite natural to see families with small children both in cafes and at parties.

In Mexico, the cult of marriage is not so high. Families often live without official registration. But male friendship there is quite strong, the community of men supports each other, helps in solving problems.

As you can see, family traditions are interesting and cool. Do not neglect them, because they unite the family, help it become one.

“Love your family, spend time together and be happy!”
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Topic: "Family Traditions"

The purpose of the lesson: To form children's ideas about family relationships, about family responsibilities, about family traditions and relics;

Lesson objectives:

1. the formation of a belief about the importance of the family in human life;

2. Develop interest in the history of your family, family traditions, genealogy, develop the ability to perform design work and present it

3. to cultivate an understanding of the need to take care of the weak, sick, old family members, the desire to maintain the traditions of one's family, to keep family relics;

Teaching methods: practical, problem-search, methods of independent work, work in pairs, group, verbal, visual

Equipment: interactive whiteboard, stickers, markers, colored paper, scissors, glue. During the classes

1. Organizational stage. (Greeting, psychological attitude to work)

Everyone stood in a circle beautifully,

greeted politely,

We will take a breath

Let's start the learning lesson!

Let's guys smile at each other and start our lesson with high spirits. The game "Leaf fall". Before you lie leaves of three colors (yellow, green, orange), I suggest you take any leaflet (children take one leaflet each), so you are divided into groups. Now, let's take our seats. The first group is the first row, the second group is the second row, the third is the third.

2.Updating knowledge

Today our lesson is unusual. Firstly, there are guests at our lesson, and Secondly- you will determine the topic on which we will work today, thirdly, as a result of a joint search, we will find answers to complex questions that concern many people. I suggest looking at the board. slide 1

Guys, there are three pictures in front of you - rest, tea drinking, decoration Christmas tree. What do you think these pictures mean, and what are we going to talk about today? (Children's answers) That's right, today we will talk about family traditions, the traditions of each family. What would you like to learn in this lesson? Why should family traditions be followed?

Reading a poem by heart Ibatulin Dima

Family traditions… They contain the wisdom of our ancestors.
The traditions of the family ... They have a seal of time.
Family traditions are a wonderful heritage.
We will bequeath it to our children.

But in order to talk about traditions, I suggest remembering what we talked about in the last lesson? (about family)

Let's remember what a family is. (this is a group of close relatives living together).

Family. Quite often we hear or pronounce this word, but how often do we think about what it means. FAMILY - how many mysteries in this word! There are several versions of its origin.

I suggest looking at the presentations prepared by Snezhana and Sofia.

Presentation prepared by Shamsutdinova Snezhana

The word "family" is divided into 2 words "seven" and "I", i.e. 7 + i. It means seven like me. After all, in the family everyone is somewhat similar to each other: face, voice, look, character; can be common interests, hobbies.

"Seven" - does not divide. It is considered a special number and reminds that the "family" is also one and indivisible.

And you can also say that the word "family" comes from the word "SEED". A small seed, planted with love in the ground, soon gives a strong sprout, on which, over time, first tender flowers appear, and then good fruits.

When your parents started a family, it also looked like a small seed. It had to be nurtured with love: to live in harmony, to take care of each other. The family grows stronger, and the seed turns into a strong sprout. The first flowers bloom on it - sons and daughters.

Presentation of the story of Petrova Sophia.“A long time ago, a boy lived on a distant island. He lived all alone. No one raised him, no one punished him, he did not share nuts and fruits with anyone. But the boy was very sad.

One day he went to the seashore. And suddenly a gray-haired old man came out to meet him. He was very old, but very wise.

Where are you going? asked the old man

I'm going to look for a place where I won't be so lonely.

I know how to help you. Come with me,” the old man suggested.

He brought the boy to his house, where his children and grandchildren lived.

Listen! - said the old man.

We all live in the same house, we rejoice together, we grieve together, we eat together what nature has given us, we help each other.

Stay! I will be your grandfather, my son and his wife will be your father and mother, and my grandchildren will be your brothers and sisters.

The boy stayed, and after a while he realized that only now he had learned to rejoice and began to for real happy. And it happened because he had a family.

Work in pairs.

Guys, I suggest you discuss the story and draw conclusions.

Do you think it is hard for a person without a family that supports and understands him?

How did the boy understand that he was truly happy?

And does a person need to feel happy and needed? (children, having thought over and analyzed the text, prove to each other that the family and family traditions are necessary for any creature on earth)

Reading the text by heart Ibatullina Angela.

Once upon a time, the earth did not hear about him ...

But Adam said to Eve before the wedding:

Now I will ask you seven questions.

Who will give birth to children for me, my goddess?

And Eva answered softly:

Who will bring them up, my queen?

And Eve dutifully replied:

Who will prepare the food, oh my joy?

And Eve answered in the same way:

Who will sew the dress, wash the linen,

Caress me, decorate the house?

Answer the questions, my friend!

I ... I ... - Eve said quietly,

Said she famous seven ya

This is how the family was born.

And who do we call close relatives? (people who have common parents, grandparents, great-grandparents)

The family is small and large. Several generations can live in a family. How do you understand it?

Each person has a first name, patronymic, last name.

The names of the children are chosen by the parents.

Guys, at home you should have asked your parents why you were called that, and try to find out what your name means (several answers of children).

A patronymic is assigned to a person by whose name? (father)

1. Problem solving.

Sasha has a cousin, Daria Petrovna. What is the name of Sasha's mother's brother? (Peter.)

Two mothers, two daughters, and a grandmother and granddaughter, and there are three of them in total. Who is this? (granddaughter, daughter, grandmother.)

2. Name the missing words.

* son, father, ... (grandfather), great-grandfather. (This is a male line.)

* great-grandmother, grandmother, ... (mother), daughter. (This is a women's line.)

3. What is the name of Kolya's uncle, if cousin If the name is Andrey Ilyich. (Ilya.)

The game "Folk Wisdom".

There are many proverbs and sayings about the family. What proverbs can be made from these pieces. Explain their meaning. (proverbs are cut into several parts, children make up proverbs and explain their meaning)

A family is strong when there is only one roof over it.

In the family, love and advice, so there is no need.

Why and treasure, if the family is in harmony

The whole family is together, and the soul is in place

IN native family and thicker porridge.

One for all and all for one.

The family is the refuge of the soul.

4. Physical education.

You all love to relax with your family. And I suggest you take a break now during the warm-up. Listen to the task and do it.

Those who have an older brother stand up and clap your hands

Who has a sister or sister, wave your hand over your head

Who helps loved ones at home, stand up and clap your hands

Who has pets in the family, put your hands up

Clap those who love their family very much

5. Conversation.

Each of you has people closest and dearest whom you love.

Who is this?

(Mom, dad, grandma, grandpa)

6. Work with the textbook.

Consider the drawing. What are family members doing?

Mother, father?

7. Primary assimilation of new knowledge

The life of every family is filled with different worries.

What kind of family can be called friendly?

How are responsibilities distributed among family members?

What responsibilities do you have at home?

What are the concerns of every family? (about the younger ones, about plants, animals, the elderly)

8. Reading a storyL. N. Tolstoy:

The old man was planting apple trees. They told him: “Why do you need these apple trees?

Long wait for the fruit from these apple trees, and you will not eat an apple from them.

The old man said: "I will not eat - others will eat, they will thank me."

- What matters can be called personal, what - family?

- What kind of family can be called friendly?

- In which family does harmony reign?

Do you always follow advice?

- Are there male and female affairs in the family?

dramatizationpoems by E. Uspensky “If I were a girl”

Should all family responsibilities be divided into male and female? (Of course, men in the family take on harder work, women can do some things well, but there are things that are done together in a friendly family. In such a family, it does not happen that someone works, and someone in while playing games or watching TV

6. Conversation

The family in the life of our ancestors was of great importance. The family discussed and solved important problems of everyday life, work (since the whole family worked in the field, in the workshop, etc.). There was always an elder in the family, whom everyone was obliged to obey. He maintained order. The head of the family was called a house builder. The younger ones in the family came under the care of either their father (boys) or mother (girls) and learned their craft and housekeeping. The elderly were surrounded by honor and care. The ancestor mother enjoyed special respect.

The family is the most important thing in life for a person. What a blessing that you all have a family, a parental home - the beginning of all beginnings.

Listen to an excerpt from the essay prepared by Vanya.

The most important tradition in our family is caring for each other and helping those who need it. No wonder they say that a friend is known in trouble. And it's so wonderful when there are relatives and friends nearby who can help and help out, provide support in any situation. Recently, my grandmother had to undergo a complex operation. And in just a few days, the relatives collected the necessary amount of money and gave it to us without hesitation. Grandma has already recovered, and I am very grateful to my big family for help, support and care for each other.

Presentation. Working with the interactive whiteboard

What are traditions? Tradition - customs passed from older relatives to younger ones.

Why do people keep traditions?
What family traditions do you know?

Dramatization of the poem

And she asked her daughter:

Daughter: - How are you, daughter?

Have you crawled under the table again, fidget?

Did you sit all day without lunch again?

These girls are in trouble!

Soon you will be as thin as a match.

Come to dinner, spinner!

And she asked her daughter:

Mom: How are you, daughter?

Played again, probably in the garden?

Managed to forget about food again?

"Lunch!" - Grandma screamed 100 times,

And you answered: “Now, yes now!”.

These daughters are in trouble.

Come to dinner, spinner!

And she asked her mother:

Grandmother: - How are you, daughter?

Probably in the hospital for a whole day

Again, there was not a minute for food,

Did you eat a dry sandwich in the evening?

You can't sit all day without eating!

She has already become a doctor, but everything is a fidget.

These girls are in trouble!

Soon you'll be thin like a match

Come to dinner, spinner!

3 mothers look at their daughters

What to do with stubborn daughters?

All: Oh, and it's not easy being moms!

What family tradition did the girls show us?

Work in pairs

What traditions do your families have?

Every family has different traditions. Let's think about them. (children in pairs tell each other about family traditions, and then present them to the whole class)

Conversation

Family traditions include a favorite family game, a traditional family favorite dish, and reading bedtime stories.

So, this can be called a family tradition?

Maslenitsa has been celebrated in Rus' since ancient times.

Do any of you have grandmothers or mothers baking pancakes at Shrove Tuesday? So this is also folk tradition.

Common folk tradition - meeting the New Year

Group work

Guys, what are family traditions? What traditions do your families have? Let's show with the help of a cluster. (doing work in a group, protecting clusters, grading).

Learn about family heirlooms.

Write an essay about the traditions of your family.

8. The result of the lesson. Reflection.

So what are we talking about?

What did you learn today that you didn't know before?

What was interesting for you in the lesson?

Would you like to learn as much as possible about your family traditions and relics?

I propose to finish our lesson by writing on your palms about what you remember, what you liked, what you didn’t like, what you would like to repeat.

Each person is very dear to his family, his home. And wherever we are, we always remember him, he attracts us with his warmth. Home is not only a roof over your head: it is the people closest to you.

I want to give you a memento.

All this is necessary for the family to be friendly and strong. At the end of our lesson, I would like to recall the wise commandment "Honor your father and mother, and you will be well, and you will live long."

Memo for children.

Love, appreciate and take care of your parents - no one will replace them for you.

Overcome laziness, always try to help your parents - this will bring them joy.

You like mom's smile, dad's approval. Try to have them in your house every day. It depends only on you.

Speak pleasant sweet words your loved ones, never refuse help, offer it yourself.

And if you get down to business, do it well, with soul.

And remember the words of Marina Tsvetaeva: “Do not be too angry with your parents, remember that they were you, and you will be them.

Composition " New Year traditions my family"

Author of the work: Bukarev Daniil, 8 years old, school No. 401, Kolpino St. Petersburg
Work manager: Efimova Alla Ivanovna, teacher of GBDOU No. 43, Kolpino St. Petersburg
Purpose of material: this work will be useful for children 8 - 12 years old when writing essays on the topic: “My family”, “Traditions of my family, preschool educators when conducting classes on the topic "Family".
Target: the formation of a culture of family traditions among schoolchildren.
Tasks:
- cultivate respect for family members, family values ​​and traditions;
- to do everything together, together, together.

Today I want to tell you about the tradition of celebrating the New Year in our family. We have a very friendly family: mom, dad, sister and me. We are always, and everywhere, together. As a family, we have our own traditions and customs. We always try to spend all holidays and weekends together. This is very important to us and we want to keep it for a long time. Pass this tradition on from generation to generation.
We have many traditions and they are all different. But the most beloved and interesting is the celebration of the New Year. We are all getting ready for the holiday. We try to celebrate all events as a family: both big and small.
Of course, today I want to talk about the tradition of celebrating wonderful holiday- New Year.

On the eve of the holiday, there is always vanity, running around. But first we all clean the apartment together, wash everything. Dad takes out our handsome Christmas tree, and the two of us decorate it. We will also hang tinsel throughout the apartment, dad will hang garlands in the apartment and on the Christmas tree. And our mother loves to decorate the common corridor near the entrance to the apartment. She will also put up a small Christmas tree there, hang snowflakes, which we cut together in the evenings, on the eve of the holiday. So she congratulates all our neighbors.
We always try to cover festive table, cook a lot of delicious meals. On the table lay a beautiful, festive tablecloth. On New Year's holidays, there are always very cute, New Year's, or winter napkins on the table. A lot of different fruits, but of course, there are tangerines, this year we definitely had bananas, as the monkey loves them very much.
Also, the whole family cuts everyone's favorite salad - Olivier, because no holiday is complete without this salad. Also sandwiches with caviar are a must. My sister is fond of baking, she baked delicious and fragrant gingerbread cookies, which we all decorated together. Each member of the family had their own individual drawing; mother wrote the numbers; dad drew monkey faces; sister collected, very cute Gingerbread house; I drew funny faces on the gingerbread.

IN new year's eve we set the festive table, decorate it beautifully and sit at the table with the whole friendly family. We watch TV, listen to the President's speech.
We are having fun, we are happy. The day after the New Year or at Christmas, we make homemade dumplings with the whole family. Mom goes to the store, buys meat, pork and beef, turns on the meat grinder and makes minced meat. Sometimes I also help my mother to make minced meat, we add onion to minced meat, salt, pepper and knead everything well. Our stuffing is ready for sculpting dumplings. Dad always prepares the dough for dumplings, and we all sit down to sculpt together. Sometimes my mother's sister and her family come to us for the holidays, then we need more minced meat and dough. But on the other hand, dumplings are molded more fun and friendly, we definitely make dumplings with a surprise. Then we all wait for this surprise and look for this dumpling among others.

On New Year's celebration, we are sure to prepare gifts for everyone. We pack them beautifully, put them in bags, sign and attach pieces of paper with signatures, to whom what gift is intended. I prepare gifts with my own hands: I make postcards, I draw. As soon as the chimes strike, the president will make his speech, I run to our Christmas tree and open presents. But before opening a gift, each family member reads a poem, or tells an interesting story. winter history.
Every year I write a letter to Santa Claus, waiting for his gift, and of course, I get it. In addition to a gift from Santa Claus, my parents, sister and all relatives also buy gifts for me.
And we also have a wonderful dacha in the suburbs, which we visit not only in summer, but also in winter. Dad goes there in advance, heats up the house, heats the bathhouse, and then we all come there. There, too, a wonderful forest beauty awaits us, decorated with toys, serpentine and, of course, a garland. We are launching fireworks. We dance around the Christmas tree, we sing cheerful New Year's songs.
Neighbors and friends are coming. IN snowy winter we play snowballs, make snowmen, go sledding down the hill. All covered in snow, wet, tired, but very happy.

We also love to play outdoor games. Mom always cooks some contests, all contests with prizes. We all take part in competitions with great pleasure, we invent them ourselves.
On Christmas we go caroling to our neighbors and relatives.
Here is mother - winter has come,
Open up the gate!
The holidays have arrived!
The carol has arrived!

carol, carol,
Open up the gate
Get out the chests
Give patches.
Though rub,
At least a penny
Let's not leave home like this!
Give us some candy
And maybe a coin
Don't regret anything
Christmas Eve!
We have a lot of winter weekends, we try to spend them - memorable. We go to the cinema, visit museums, and definitely a dolphinarium and an oceanarium. On winter evenings, we discuss our events, and if possible, we take pictures everywhere.
In the evenings, almost every day we play lotto, board games, read interesting books, sometimes we watch some old movie. Our whole family loves old movies. Very often we sit down as a friendly family and look at family albums.
We dedicate one day to cartoons, in Lately Our family's favorite cartoon is Masha and the Bear.
I really appreciate our family traditions. I love my parents very much, for sure, I am sure that they also love me and my sister very much.
I wish everyone that every family has its own values ​​and traditions.

Svetlana Morozova

I bring to your attention creative work my student.

In our life we ​​communicate with different people, but the people closest to us are our relatives, Our family. The family is the closest environment of a person. In any family, good relations, mutual assistance, family traditions.

Word « tradition» came to us from the Latin language and means"broadcast". Traditions- this is something in our life that is transmitted from one generation to another, from older to younger. Thanks to traditions the wisdom of the elders is passed on to the young.

Many families have special traditions. One of them - family reading. From childhood, my mother instilled a love for reading, for books for me and my older brother, in the evenings she always read aloud to us, and sometimes, switching roles, we read aloud. How many interesting and instructive in each book!

In any family, adults help children, and children help adults. Caring for children, the elderly, the sick is the duty of every person. On weekends, my parents and I visit grandparents, we buy food and medicine for them, help clean up the house and garden.

wonderful tradition became for our family and our numerous relatives joint Job in a large garden in the village. are going All: from small to large. Planting, weeding and harvesting potatoes for us holiday: first we work together, then we also cook dinner together and arrange family gatherings , with songs, jokes, intimate conversations.

I always help my mother with the housework, help take care of the flowers, feed the fish and the dog, do the cleaning, wash and iron the clothes, I like to help cook and decorate salads and pies.

Another beautiful tradition - family dinners. They are usually held on Sundays. All family members gather at a large table. Can be discussed without haste family matters, events of the week, plans for the future. In the evenings, we always have dinner together, and on weekends, when my brother comes, we always arrange family dinners. How much spiritual warmth in this communication of the closest and dearest people! And then you wait for the next weekend to relive this joy - to be next to each other, to be together!

Well, how not to say our loved ones family holidays . This is New Year, Christmas, Easter, Trinity, birthdays. We prepare surprises, gifts, postcards for each other in advance, lay a festive table, invite relatives and friends to visit.

One more kind tradition - family trips. How nice it is to go to the forest, to the river or to the pond with the whole family! In winter we love to ski, play snowballs, make snowmen. In the warm season, when outside good weather and there is free time, we go to rest on nature: we walk, breathe fresh air, pick mushrooms and berries, fry kebabs, bake fish and potatoes, swim in the pond, play ball. Children help their parents and learn from them the rules of the march. life: how to pitch a tent, build a fire and cook food. And, of course, they learn to understand nature, to protect the beautiful world around them.

I am sure that family traditions- great value, our spiritual wealth. They need to be protected!